Socially Acceptable?

[Miss_Lorrainne]

Not sure if this should be here or in the Q&A board but decided to post here since it concerns link-ups. I've stumbled across a few escorts' professional sites and would like to contact them (via the email provided on their sites) asking them for personal advice since we share certain commonalities. My previous madam once advised me never to trust anyone in this industry and I'm wondering whether they would take kindly to a virtual stranger asking for advice. I've looked carefully at their social media feeds and they seem like nice girls with friends within the industry. If another girl contacted you through your work email would you respond?

[SweetAngel]

Are you sure you want to share your personal life with someone you don't know? On the other hand they don't really know who you are nor you know who they are. I didn't understand what kind of site you found though. But if you wish to talk to them go ahead but don't reveal to much about yourself and don't show your profile to everyone... if someone decides to do something to you they can just put together your personal info with your profiles. I didn't explain well what I mean but guess you will understand me. It's hard to find good friend in this industry, but in general people from any industry are hard to trust. People are going mad nowadays. Just be careful who and what you share with.

[lillybliss]

I'm pretty sure anything you want to ask about anything to do with escorting you can ask on here as that's what this forum is for  .

[VoluptuousCurves]

I would say if you're using the contact form on their site then fine. However be prepared that many will think you're a dodgy punter looking for free thrills. So you'll probably need to give them your twitter handle or point them to your own website (and contact them from the email that you display on that website) to show them you are actually an escort and not just a sad fantasist!

I wouldn't give out any personal details (real name, family situation, etc) until you've corresponded for a while, maybe spoken on the phone and/or met up in person.

[RR]

I think it would depend really; like the other ladies have said, I'd probably be more inclined to respond favourably to someone contacting me via their actual Twitter etc, so that I knew they were a genuine escort and not some weirdo. In saying that, just because you're another escort doesn't mean someone can't be a weirdo either.

I don't mind giving people advice - its why I'm on this forum and avoid others - so I do tend to respond warmly when people are polite and respectful to me. I can't say I'm necessarily... erm, friendly or buddy-buddy though.

[TrashAzn]

Some might find it okay personally I'd delete any email that has nothing to do with work. If somebody writes something here looking for advice or sends me a PM here then sure I might be able to since it's anonymous but I'm not looking for a burden to take care of who wants to be buddy buddy. I have my own business to take care of I can't be dealing with everybody else's except when I have the spare time and will to do so which is when I come here to glance the topics.

[Kay]

I'd suggest asking specific questions on this forum. I've had my time wasted 2-3 times by offering help/advice on a 1-2-1 basis and then they disappear never to be heard of again. If I'm going to take the time and effort, I'd rather there was a broad audience for it when it comes to general advice/sharing experiences.

[The_Lynx]

To be blunt, for me it would depend on where in my country they're located. The market here is small, turf competition is very real outside of the largest cities, and I have no desire to cause difficulties for myself. I've gladly kept in touch and cooperated with folks working in different parts of the country, however.

[MistressMorgana]

I'd suggest asking specific questions on this forum. I've had my time wasted 2-3 times by offering help/advice on a 1-2-1 basis and then they disappear never to be heard of again. If I'm going to take the time and effort, I'd rather there was a broad audience for it when it comes to general advice/sharing experiences.

I couldn't agree more. I talk to a select few trusted ladies and whilst we share things, we don't live in each other's pockets.

There are a couple I can think of who only contact me when they want something from me. Their numbers are no longer stored in my phone and they can go whistle if they get in touch again.

That saying, I have contacted ladies and asked questions, fully disclosing both who I am on here and on AW. These ladies have been very helpful but I only contacted them because I couldn't get the info I needed elsewhere.

I think it depends on the information you are after, whether you will get a response or not and also if you disclose who you are.

It might be worth putting a post or two on here. Personally, I have put a few posts in the touring section in recent times and haven't had much luck so I think it will depend on what your questions are in relation to.

With touring for example, understandably, not everyone wants to share their favourite hotels so I now do all my own research.

[ThirdCoastGal]

It's hard to answer so generally.

When I started I messaged a few women on their sites asking who had done their pictures because I thought they were especially good. The contact info I gave them was easy to verify.   I have to say though none of their responses were particularly kind or informative.   Things like "oh I got them done out-of-town,  and they were very expensive."  Like someone else said- turf wars.

This forum is much better for kind, anonymous advice/info

[Miss_Lorrainne]

OP here, thank you for your replies. This forum is lovely but I'm certain that I can't find the answers I need on here hence why I felt the need to turn elsewhere. They are not general questions and concern a specific niche of provider. That's the other reason why I don't want to ask it here because I know SAAFE is publicly accessible and posting would give a hint to my identity. I made sure they have friends within the industry to avoid unfriendly competitiveness or 'turf wars.' I've decided to cautiously make contact as the ladies seem established and professional, the worst that could happen is that they don't reply.