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lillith

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I'm offering vanilla style classical services so
Straight sex and all the different positions
Blow job
Do you charge extra for swallowing?
Do you charge extra for allowing to shoot in the hair and face
How much extra for Anal. I'm on the fence about offering it
Would be up for girl/girl with a client if I'm with a workbuddy

Are there any other services that are considered "Extra" and I'm not offering any BDSM as I don't know much about it, not offering any water sports or hard sports to start with as don't know much about it and imagine it could get messy


Jessiegirl

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I charge extra ?30 for anal.
Don't let them cum in my hair. If they really wanted to would probably charge extra.

lillith

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Hi Jessie and thanks  :), so for general purposes for "regular stuff" only anal should be charged at ?30, is ?30 an average price as I started off at ?150 in London and lot of guys complained and so after consulting some of the lovely girls on the forums who've been so amazingly supportive and helpful with their time I've reduced it now to ?95 - ?125 and even then a guy yesterday said it was over the top because prices had come down so much in London in the last few years :( He was a potential client though so he could have been looking to get cheap service

I just told an anal guy if it's offered it'll be ?50 so I'm almost twice as expensive as I should be  ::)

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You charge what you are happy to charge, that's the first rule. Not the most helpful one though haha.

When a client tells you he finds you too expensive, forget it. You could be at 50/hour and some morons would still whine and find you too expensive. You can't make each and every client happy with your rate and you'll always have a random cheapskate and a random haggler.

One small thing. I'm not sure about charging 95/125. That 5 is a bit of an issue. Clients mostly get cash directly from cash points, cash points give 10 and 20 notes. You may find it a bit of a headache to be often asked if you have change (and that means grabbing your purse). You may have guys leaving you 130. But you may also have fuckers standing there with 130 and looking very upset  if you don't have that 5 to give back...Lol.

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I agree with AA that if you're charging a multiple of ?5, you're going to need a good float of ?5 notes and somewhere to stash them safely.

There was a thread about charging for extras a couple of months ago, I'll try to find it.
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Lilith just because Jessie charges 30 for anal doesn't mean you need to charge that, if you want to charge 50 then charge that.

I would say though that clients probably wouldn't pay extra for cim or facials.

Those services which are extra would be those that take prep work for example anal or those that take a lot out of you for example domination, or those that involve lots of clean up for example sploshing.

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Here it is.
http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=35596.0
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lillith

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When a client tells you he finds you too expensive, forget it. You could be at 50/hour and some morons would still whine and find you too expensive.
Haha there was a guy who said he paid ?30 for half an hour and ?50 and therefore he implied I should lower my prices! He was respectful about it and didn't ask for me to drop the price just said that's how much he paid, the way he said it made it sound true Some ladies charge ?300 I've seen on agency sites. I don't want to be accused of thinking I've got a PP
One small thing. I'm not sure about charging 95/125. That 5 is a bit of an issue. Clients mostly get cash directly from cash points, cash points give 10 and 20 notes. You may find it a bit of a headache to be often asked if you have change (and that means grabbing your purse). You may have guys leaving you 130. But you may also have fuckers standing there with 130 and looking very upset  if you don't have that 5 to give back...Lol.
;D That's funny but some people are exact about money, I'd not thought about the change aspect, wow, the thought of running out of change is nice as it would mean I'd be busy. I use the ?95 as it's a powerful psychological sales technique, same with ?125. I'm ok with having plenty of fivers but good suggestion, you think I could need as much as ?50 in fivers meaning I had ten clients
I would say though that clients probably wouldn't pay extra for cim or facials. Those services which are extra would be those that take prep work for example anal or those that take a lot out of you for example domination, or those that involve lots of clean up for example sploshing.
I never thought about it like that, that makes sense now I think about it in terms of prep time, it's true about setting your own prices but at the same time price does seem to be sensitive and maybe Brexit is affecting the price of a shag, who knows? LMAO  ;D
Here it is.
http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=35596.0
I didn't search for the right terms which is why I missed it, I think this thread will get merged as it's a duplicate, thanks for finding that Cal x


Kay

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I agree about the ?5.

I would keep extras to an absolute, very clear minimum. For example, if you're not planning to do more than 2-3 bookings a day and you'd be happy to do anal in most of them, don't charge extra for anal (although make clear it's at discretion re. size and that advanced warning is probably needed) but increase your rate in general (i.e. make it 150 as opposed to 120). Or have a GFE rate and a PSE rate and a clear delineation between the services provided in each.

Charging for everything like facials or CIM will deter clients, as said above.

The only thing that most clients understandwill be an extra charge (aside perhaps from anal) is filming/photos.
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Everybody charges differently and offers different services so  really it's pointless basing what you offer and what you charge extra for on what others do.
What I will say is that alot of clients like a clear rate to pay and I think if you charge lots of extras for this and that they find it off putting.
I think they expect to pay extra for things like anal and filming and maybe watersports etc but not so much for cim,swallow,facials etc especially if you are trying to offer a romantic gfe style booking.The 2 don't really go hand in hand in my opinion.
I personally just charge an all inclusive fee and I don't offer things I am not overly into doing or what I think needs alot more prep time etc.
I can't be arsed totting up like 'Well so and so only had a wank and a bj so that's a flat 100,so and so had a bj,cim and accidently came on my hair abit so that's 130..' all the while you are trying to supposedly give an affectionate gfe?

At the end of the day though you have to sometimes just give things a try and see what works for you.
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Jessiegirl

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My prices are a bit higher than average but includes most things like FK, Cim, DT.
I only do anal with select clients so basically it depends on size. If I think it's too big it ain't going near my arse.
I would say do some research on what going rate is in your area and decide how you want to price it. There will always be someone cheaper but if you provide a great service guys will pay for it and hopefully come back.
Cheap is not always good. A lot of non uk girls in my area charge must less but add on extras for kissing, owo,cim,anal. Basically everything.
Have had guys complain about how they can get cheaper so I tell them to go ahead. Most come back saying service was crap compared to me which always brings a smile to my face.

Aqua Allegoria

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Everybody charges differently and offers different services so  really it's pointless basing what you offer and what you charge extra for on what others do.
What I will say is that alot of clients like a clear rate to pay and I think if you charge lots of extras for this and that they find it off putting.
I think they expect to pay extra for things like anal and filming and maybe watersports etc but not so much for cim,swallow,facials etc especially if you are trying to offer a romantic gfe style booking.The 2 don't really go hand in hand in my opinion.
I personally just charge an all inclusive fee and I don't offer things I am not overly into doing or what I think needs alot more prep time etc.
I can't be arsed totting up like 'Well so and so only had a wank and a bj so that's a flat 100,so and so had a bj,cim and accidently came on my hair abit so that's 130..' all the while you are trying to supposedly give an affectionate gfe?

At the end of the day though you have to sometimes just give things a try and see what works for you.

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I tend not to charge extra for services. That's because I couldn't be arsed offering facial even for 50 quid, I hate it plus I wear contacts and I won't risk spunk in my eyes. Am I losing on money? Maybe. But I'm happy this way.

I charge extra for a levels if it's a 30 min booking. That's because my 30 min rate is not extremely high and I won't have a guy come expect to just have anal like this. I still apply my "reasonable size" rule and if it's too large I am happy to give that 20 back, no problem. I don't charge extra for a levels in 1hr + bookings but I am clear with them it's at my discretion re size.

If i was offering watersports and filming I would defo be charging extra but no client with common sense expects these to be included anyway.

As for hardsports/domination etc, as Bibi says, for me it's not compatible with GFE. Basically it took me quite a long time to figure things out but now I just offer what I really like and I really enjoy myself. Best part of this job for me (hmmm this plus the money haha)


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Punters find it easier when you have an all inclusive price, if I offered facials I would charge extra, if I offered anal I would charge extra for that as well. I have a smaller likes list based on a vanilla service and I don't charge any extras so they can confidently pick and mix my services to their hearts content knowing that their fee covers everything.

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I don't like facials so much so I charge it extra ?40 (London) on the top of my rate which is quite high. I don't do anal, but I do watersports inclusive in price

Miss_Lorrainne

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Everybody has different price structures depending on what others are charging in the area for similar services and whether they feel comfortable offering those services or not. I don't offer extras but I only offer OWO and RO to my regulars. I agree that punters find it easier to have all your services inclusive under one price, but I've seen other girls offer different packages e.g. PSE for a higher price. I wouldn't suggest you have tons of different packages though unless you want to sound like an airline  ;D