Being called a 'good girl'

[honeymoonbarbie]

Am I the only one who as an adult woman does not enjoy being called a 'good girl'? I've found a lot of my clients during a booking will say it and I find it demeaning and patronising - it almost makes my skin crawl.

Other pet-names and 'terms of endearment' don't get to me at all but this one really irritates me?

Am I right to let clients know it makes me uncomfortable or should I just grow a thicker skin?

[Justine]

I don't like this either, along with "I think we'll have these off" as they start pulling your clothes or outfit off. When they do this I stop them and as nicely as I can, tell them I will take them off myself. It isn't the same as being seductively undressed, that is acceptable.

[VoluptuousCurves]

Yeah, I hate this.

[Kay]

No, it makes me want to punch them in the throat.

[honeymoonbarbie]

Yeah, I hate this.

No, it makes me want to punch them in the throat.

I don't like this either, along with "I think we'll have these off" as they start pulling your clothes or outfit off. When they do this I stop them and as nicely as I can, tell them I will take them off myself. It isn't the same as being seductively undressed, that is acceptable.

Thank goodness I'm not the only one!

[mature helen]

if he called me a good girl I'd call him a good boy every occasion I could fit it in.
Mirroring peoples annoying habits right back at them is great fun but then again I'm easily amused.

[RR]

I don't get this, but I advertise* myself as being pretty dominant and sarcastic, so they probably know it wouldn't fly. The thought of it makes my skin crawl as well.

I had one client who once asked me if I knew what 'in the Biblical sense' meant in a really patronising tone, and I realised he clearly had never read my site. There had been an incident in that same booking where he had tried to rub his bare genitilia against mine and spat his dummy when he was told off for it (nicely, I may add). I smiled and asked him, in the sweetest voice, sure, but did he mean the King James, Jerusalam, Vulgate - or was he referring to partially completed translations such as Aramaic?

Never saw him again, can't think why.

_{*advertise/be honest, call it what you want.}

[avery]

My clients wouldn't dare to call me that as I'm a Mistress. If they would I'd throw them out in a hartbeat

[BibiofLeeds]

I've had it once or twice and funnily enough didn't book them in again!I find the 'good girl'cretins tend to be the ones that push the back of my head down onto their knobs and things like that so it's a big feck off from me to that brigade!

[Aqua Allegoria]

Can't stand it. Especially when it's younger guys. But then I can't stand anything that's patronising and I quickly get bitchy.
Not long ago had a guy trying to explain to me that people in Cuba speak Spanish. Really?! This plus some other serious shit he gave me. Thank god that was after the "sex part" while he was already in the bathroom so I just said "thank god you booked me so I can learn all these amazing things from you". He left very quickly stupid moron. Go lecture your wife at home, not me.

[Kit]

No I don't like it, I find it creepy and find guys who use this sort of language have particular views about women, mostly about how men are in control of women - and a result see grown women as girls. That's my 2 pence - but its how I view it, creepy and controlling.

[Jessiegirl]

I've never been called that. One guy asked if I'd been a bad girl.

[VoluptuousCurves]

I have to confess that I've called clients "Good boy!" several times, but they were schoolteacher roleplays

[Aqua Allegoria]

I have to confess that I've called clients "Good boy!" several times, but they were schoolteacher roleplays

+1
Otherwise the whole "good boy" "bad boy" thing puts me off. Had a few clients laying there playing with themselves going "look at me I'm such a bad boy". I'm like "errrrmmm yeah" whatever. It's just a huge turn off for me.

[honeymoonbarbie]

I've had it once or twice and funnily enough didn't book them in again!I find the 'good girl'cretins tend to be the ones that push the back of my head down onto their knobs and things like that so it's a big feck off from me to that brigade!

Couldn't agree with you more, that sort of thing annoys me too!