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Mirror

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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #15 on: 17 March 2017, 05:08:44 pm »
It depends on the tone, generally (but not always) I find 'good girl' is used by those who speak down to me.

One client who used this a lot was a huge, subtle boundary pusher. Over the years I saw him I made it clear what I would and would not do, he would back off and ask for a second chance. Towards the end he'd stop one thing when I asked him, replacing it with something else to push on. I really started to notice him saying 'Good girl', telling me how lovely I am all the while I'm getting a feeling that he's doing it to butter me up for something, he'd say "I mean it" then go on to a big boundary push again. Each time I left feeling a bit sort of 'groomed'. The last time I saw him I came away feeling worse, so when he phoned asking me for another booking I asked him if he was always going to push for **********. He tried to sidestep around it, I asked him directly and eventually "Yes" he replied, trying to back it up with "If only you I could show you this that will prove you will like it".

Nope, fed up, cannot go on, not interested in feeling like ***** each time.


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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #16 on: 17 March 2017, 05:52:00 pm »
I had recently one guy calling me good girl. I got so pissed off. I mean he was head shorter than me and skinier than me... it doesnt fit somehow :D

Aqua Allegoria

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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #17 on: 17 March 2017, 06:03:35 pm »
I had recently one guy calling me good girl. I got so pissed off. I mean he was head shorter than me and skinier than me... it doesnt fit somehow :D

LMAO!!!
I love it when I open my door and I have to look down lol. Kissing those shorties ain't easy though :)

EnglishAmy40

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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #18 on: 18 March 2017, 12:49:44 pm »
I had this the other night and it always makes me think they have paedo fantasies. Maybe that's just me - I don't feel patronized, it just creeps me out. Yuk!

Aqua Allegoria

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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #19 on: 18 March 2017, 01:45:09 pm »
I had this the other night and it always makes me think they have paedo fantasies. Maybe that's just me - I don't feel patronized, it just creeps me out. Yuk!

For me it reminds me of something different, worse even. When I hear "good girl" I get that flashback of a guy with a dog, the dog bringing back the stick and waiving its tail and the guy saying "good girl" patting the dog on the head...

Once had a guy give me a light tap on the bum while calling me "good girl". I was surprised I didn't hit him back :)


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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #20 on: 18 March 2017, 01:47:20 pm »
Now that I'm thinking, there's even worse.
Once in a booking I heard a sentence starting with be a good girl and...

MistressMorgana

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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #21 on: 18 March 2017, 07:16:57 pm »
I've been patted on the head like a dog on a number of occasions and I must admit that that along with 'good girl' just makes me laugh.  ;D

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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #22 on: 18 March 2017, 09:07:57 pm »
I won't put up wth a man I hate so much. Well, money I do need, but I din't handle emotional stress well. Especially, sex with someone you hate so much for his boundary pushing.  I walk. I had a couples of regulars, showing subtle game playing, head fucking.  I stopped replying to their texts/messages.  Soon, they get a hint.  They've gone past sell by date. To survive longer in this industry, I do need to do that. But everyone deals, differently, I guess. 

Lucie268

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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #23 on: 18 March 2017, 10:01:45 pm »
I love it in my private life and hate it when clients say it to me. I think it's gross that they do though as it's crossing a domination/submission boundary that should be discussed beforehand.

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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #24 on: 18 March 2017, 10:11:15 pm »
The full sentence was be a good girl and lick my balls
As said above, in my personal life i would be ok with it. Now that client was like 10 years younger than me. And he was a client above all. I just froze. I remember I froze and then I flashed my most stupid totally dumb bimbo smile and said "noooooo I don't like the hair on your balls dahrling"
Did it spoil the mood? Hell yes!

katrina

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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #25 on: 18 March 2017, 10:42:39 pm »
I've been patted on the head like a dog on a number of occasions and I must admit that that along with 'good girl' just makes me laugh.  ;D


Same here and I really don't mind it..there are a lot worse things they could say/do that annoy/irritate.

MistressMorgana

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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #26 on: 19 March 2017, 10:07:21 am »

Same here and I really don't mind it..there are a lot worse things they could say/do that annoy/irritate.

They can call me anything they like as long as they pay me  ;D

katrina

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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #27 on: 19 March 2017, 06:59:53 pm »
They can call me anything they like as long as they pay me  ;D

Yeah any names at all I'm happy with,  the only really filthy disgusting word I can't tolerate is the mention of 'refund'  ;D

MistressMorgana

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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #28 on: 19 March 2017, 07:05:45 pm »
Yeah any names at all I'm happy with,  the only really filthy disgusting word I can't tolerate is the mention of 'refund'  ;D

What's a refund, lol? That word is missing from my Oxford English Dictionary.  8)

katrina

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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #29 on: 19 March 2017, 07:07:23 pm »
What's a refund, lol? That word is missing from my Oxford English Dictionary.  8)

 ;D  ;D  ;D