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Phoenix

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Hello Ladies, This morning I accepted an Outcall to a location and( against my own warnings, due to time and lack of internet ) I didn't ask for my usual proof of address, but specifically asked if it was his own place? to which he confirmed yes.
At my time of arrival, he called to tell me he had given me the wrong address and proceeded  to tell me a different street to head for. I was livid and refused to see him ( asked him to compensate my travel costs which he refused ). There followed  angry texts and calls and i said i would make a public warning about him.
 He said he had given me the correct postcode, but the wrong street and it was an honest mistake..
Rubbish of course.
For whatever reason he was ambiguous  with his address until the last minute and simply expected me to head where he really was instead.

More than anything, i was furious at his lack of respect and for this reason more than anything, I headed home again. So, a 90 minute round trip for nothing and a wasted morning. >:(

Considering I hadn't verified the original address, would you have turned down a 1hr booking out of anger like i did, or would you have bitten your tongue ( or even his willy 8)) so as not to waste your morning?
Has anything like this ever happened  to any Outcall ladies?

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Re: Outcall. Changed Location At Last Minute. What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #1 on: 23 March 2017, 03:25:50 am »
It sounds like you dodged a bullet with this one. How on earth can someone get their home address wrong, and then conveniently realise this just before the booking was due to take place?! What he would have been thinking is that you'd have given your security buddy the first address he gave you, and then thought because all was confirmed and you were on your way to him that you wouldn't have time/or bother to let your buddy know. You 100% did the right thing by not going.

I've turned around and gone home for much less. A few months back I was 10mins away from a 'client' who started asking for me to bring several outfits along. He knew my drive was over an hour, so therefore this wouldn't have been possible. I make this super clear on my website too. I cancelled the booking immediately because I knew then he wasn't serious. I got a bad gut feeling, which I'd rather trust and potentially lose a few hundred quid than take a gamble with anything bad happening.

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Re: Outcall. Changed Location At Last Minute. What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #2 on: 23 March 2017, 07:04:37 am »
There followed  angry texts and calls and i said i would make a public warning about him.

Never ever tell a client you are going to publish a warning about them!

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Re: Outcall. Changed Location At Last Minute. What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #3 on: 23 March 2017, 07:38:03 am »
I wouldn't have gone.

When I accept a booking from someone new I take a deposit and stipulate that if they cancel or make significant changes, the deposit if usually lost. Change of address would be a significant change.

I have had someone change hotels on the day, I was incredibly wary at the time. Seems the first hotel had a habit of double booking. The booking was fine and I'd seen proof of the hotel/had his real name for the original room, so did go ahead. These moments however do for me put an edge on things.

You were right not to go ahead, I wouldn't have mentioned the warning.

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Re: Outcall. Changed Location At Last Minute. What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #4 on: 23 March 2017, 08:05:04 am »
You did the right thing. Either he had dodgy intentions, or he thought it would be totes hilair to send an escort off on a wild goose chase  ::)
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Re: Outcall. Changed Location At Last Minute. What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #5 on: 23 March 2017, 11:22:43 am »
You did the right thing. Either he had dodgy intentions, or he thought it would be totes hilair to send an escort off on a wild goose chase  ::)
I think that may be correct VC.
He was protesting he was a good person because he had actually called to inform me of the change! >:(


No, i shouldn't have warned him i would post his details..but i was spitting blood and it was part of my..Ahem.. negotiations🤐Point taken though XX
edit It was a general 'social media' warning as he sounded fairly young and i thought that may spur him to being a "good lad"
Daft idea, shouldn't have said it but he seemed totally uninterested anyway.
« Last Edit: 23 March 2017, 11:44:54 am by Phoenix »

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Re: Outcall. Changed Location At Last Minute. What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #6 on: 23 March 2017, 11:28:49 am »
I think that may be correct VC.
He was protesting he was a good person because he had actually called to inform me of the change! >:(

No, i shouldn't have warned him i would post his details..But i was spitting blood at his attitude and it was part of my..Ahem..'Negotiations'..🤐Point taken though.. XX

Over a year ago I posted a warning here. Somehow the guy found out.
What followed was 2 weeks of incall requests with no shows and fake Outcall requests. I have no clue how many friends that guy had but he must have gotten each and every of his mates to call me. It was a nightmare.

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Re: Outcall. Changed Location At Last Minute. What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #7 on: 23 March 2017, 11:45:45 am »
Over a year ago I posted a warning here. Somehow the guy found out.
What followed was 2 weeks of incall requests with no shows and fake Outcall requests. I have no clue how many friends that guy had but he must have gotten each and every of his mates to call me. It was a nightmare.
That's terrible AA  :(

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« Reply #8 on: 23 March 2017, 04:30:22 pm »
You did the right thing. You had a small lapse in screening when you didn't check proof of address but who knows what kind of wanker would have been waiting on the other side of the door had you gone ahead? Sounds like you saved yourself some frustration by refusing the booking at that point.

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Re: Outcall. Changed Location At Last Minute. What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #9 on: 23 March 2017, 05:02:51 pm »
I'd have done the same as you hun - turned around and gone home. Your safety is more important than playing into his games.

Years ago I used to do outcalls, I was a newbie and didn't know how to screen as I was stung a few times as a result... with bogus postcodes, arriving and then calling the guy, no answer. Sometimes they'd give a postcode and they'd obviously be sitting in a car watching, or watching from a window across the road - with no intention of ever going through with the booking. I learnt this the hard way, and wasted a lot of time back then.

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Re: Outcall. Changed Location At Last Minute. What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #10 on: 23 March 2017, 05:06:22 pm »
I would rather do all checks on the address and be late for booking than travel without doing the checks.
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Re: Outcall. Changed Location At Last Minute. What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #11 on: 24 March 2017, 08:29:37 am »
I had so many problems with Outcalls, including a similar incident, that I stopped doing them.

Nothing on Earth could persuade me now.

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Re: Outcall. Changed Location At Last Minute. What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #12 on: 26 March 2017, 01:19:49 pm »
he could of typed his postcode wrong and then noticed, some times people do make honest mistakes..maybe the location he originally planned for the outcall was not suitable or discreet.

sometimes i have had to change my incall location with no notice due to hotel not being suitable or not being happy with my room.
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