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SuperCheese

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Urgh!!! Hagglers!!!
« on: 14 April 2017, 04:44:17 pm »
I offered some extras at discount price, in exchange for honest feedback. I kindly explained that my time costs more when we are doing certain activities. He started to get arsey and said my rates are too expensive. If you can't afford an escort, don't try to book one!  :FF

Adele7

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Re: Urgh!!! Hagglers!!!
« Reply #1 on: 14 April 2017, 05:17:22 pm »
Dont waste energy getting angry about these idiots. They are lurking around.

Guiltypleasure

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« Reply #2 on: 14 April 2017, 05:32:05 pm »
Oh I get these sometimes , not that often but they don't get a booking .

Had one a little while ago say just because your English you think you can charge double the normal rate ?? Really pissed me off ( for a moment) I said well book someone else then I'm busy enough so if my fees a problem then don't book ! What a twat , bet he gets a great service for 60/70 quid ( no offence intended)

Had another say he thought 120 sounded better.

So I said yep it does , good luck in your search !

Adele7

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« Reply #3 on: 14 April 2017, 05:37:56 pm »
Oh I get these sometimes , not that often but they don't get a booking .

Had one a little while ago say just because your English you think you can charge double the normal rate ?? Really pissed me off ( for a moment) I said well book someone else then I'm busy enough so if my fees a problem then don't book ! What a twat , bet he gets a great service for 60/70 quid ( no offence intended)

Had another say he thought 120 sounded better.

So I said yep it does , good luck in your search !

 :D ;) I just dont understand how they even have the audacity  :FF

Kay

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Re: Urgh!!! Hagglers!!!
« Reply #4 on: 14 April 2017, 06:00:22 pm »
It could be a bit confusing though, if you offer different prices depending on whether they leave you good feedback?
"There is no sin except stupidity" - Oscar Wilde

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Re: Urgh!!! Hagglers!!!
« Reply #5 on: 14 April 2017, 06:14:37 pm »
I save them as the price they they offered me and then never answer when they call again

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« Reply #6 on: 14 April 2017, 06:24:23 pm »
It used to anger me but it makes me laugh. Thing is, they really really want to see you, but cannot afford you so they either become bitter and send you an abusive message such as "You must be up your ass charging that" or they try to haggle. Never works.

I had one email me saying "Your rate is too much 100 an hour is better" I said "Thanks for your concern but I get more than enough business at my rate, if you cannot afford me and can only afford 100 for the hour I can recommend some lovely girls within your budget" he never replied haha! An old regular moaned about my rate a few weeks back as I've increased it, and I said to him in the booking "if your boss decided to pay you less on your wages would you be happy?" He said no and apologised. They want us to work for less to suit them but they wouldn't in a million years do the same in their line of work, and guaranteed if their boss increased their wage they wouldn't object! How hypocritical.

I'm pretty sure they don't stand in Tesco moaning that their monthly shop is less in Asda or Aldi!

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Re: Urgh!!! Hagglers!!!
« Reply #7 on: 14 April 2017, 07:02:13 pm »
I personally believe my rate is preposterous but when all is done and said reasonable for what I provide. I'm always happy to discuss rates and volume and what is provided with anyone as part of standard business development. I like to keep things simple and build everything into the rate. If a client quibbles I can always put my rates up! I have very definitely been eyeing up the next price band!!

If clients cannot afford us maybe they should be more careful who they vote for?

I have thankfully managed to kick tobacco and am smoking e-cigarettes. My view is I am sharing the benefits with clients who have a nicer experience when they visit and hold my prices lower.

I have told the odd client who haggles my rate is my rate. My view is if I buckle this is disrespectful and just makes me feel ticked off and devalued and just encourages downwards price pressure on other sex workers and I am not encouraging a race to the bottom.

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« Reply #8 on: 14 April 2017, 07:06:14 pm »
Yep they take the mick one said to do an hour for 75 pounds. I replied with are you having a laugh.

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Re: Urgh!!! Hagglers!!!
« Reply #9 on: 14 April 2017, 07:31:53 pm »
I've got someone else now who's offering me help for my profile in exchange for free sex. He's even telling me that he works in Tesco as a shelf stacker and told me who he's married to and what times his wife is out. The answer to the first is, "I don't provide my services for free". The rest was just boring me senseless. I don't give a crap about his marriage and happen to actually who his wife is.

Maybe Tesco just doesn't pay him enough to afford me and that's too bad, as I don't come for free!

SheilaStar

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« Reply #10 on: 14 April 2017, 07:54:28 pm »
I have zero tolerance for hagglers. Someone once offered to throw in a bottle of prosecco for a discount on my already discounted rate. Uh, no sorry love, I get them all the time for free.

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« Reply #11 on: 14 April 2017, 10:49:32 pm »
It used to anger me but it makes me laugh. Thing is, they really really want to see you, but cannot afford you so they either become bitter and send you an abusive message such as "You must be up your ass charging that" or they try to haggle. Never works.

I had one email me saying "Your rate is too much 100 an hour is better" I said "Thanks for your concern but I get more than enough business at my rate, if you cannot afford me and can only afford 100 for the hour I can recommend some lovely girls within your budget" he never replied haha! An old regular moaned about my rate a few weeks back as I've increased it, and I said to him in the booking "if your boss decided to pay you less on your wages would you be happy?" He said no and apologised. They want us to work for less to suit them but they wouldn't in a million years do the same in their line of work, and guaranteed if their boss increased their wage they wouldn't object! How hypocritical.

I'm pretty sure they don't stand in Tesco moaning that their monthly shop is less in Asda or Aldi!

Yep I had one recently that I told I was booked and he genuinely sounded completely surprised "what do you mean booked ? Can't I see you later ?" I explained I'm fully booked and he apologised and said " oh I'm really sorry it didn't occur to me that you see more than one a day "

I really think they do just think we're sitting around all day , so try it on ...but to be perfectly honest if I didn't see my business from my angle , I'd probably try to , I do absolutely everywhere else lol .

I have had the odd guy who's said "oh well can't blame a guy for trying " but in a very lighthearted , funny way and I've seen the odd one just because I liked their cheek and it was funny rather than offensive  ;)

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« Reply #12 on: 14 April 2017, 11:35:10 pm »
I had a guy the other day who called me on my birthday. He asked me what Im up to and I told him it was my birthday. He wished me a happy birthday then asked how much I charge for 45 mins. Told him my rate and then he says well as its your birthday, can you do [?10 off my 45 min rate]\'

Errr, it is my birthday or yours? You should be offering me more, not trying to haggle me on my birthday! In fact, you can give me an extra ?20 if you want to meet for being so flipping inconsiderate     :FF
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« Reply #13 on: 14 April 2017, 11:53:39 pm »
I had a guy the other day who called me on my birthday. He asked me what Im up to and I told him it was my birthday. He wished me a happy birthday then asked how much I charge for 45 mins. Told him my rate and then he says well as its your birthday, can you do [?10 off my 45 min rate]\'

Errr, it is my birthday or yours? You should be offering me more, not trying to haggle me on my birthday! In fact, you can give me an extra ?20 if you want to meet for being so flipping inconsiderate     :FF
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Adele7

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Re: Urgh!!! Hagglers!!!
« Reply #14 on: 15 April 2017, 03:54:46 pm »
Yep they take the mick one said to do an hour for 75 pounds. I replied with are you having a laugh.

The cheek of it though? I just put the phone down on them