Flustered with the Fit Ones

[losthope]

I cringe when I get a good looking client with a fit body, not because I fancy them but because I just feel embarrassed 

[Justine]

I don't get embarrassed or feel flustered when a particularly fit young man (or occasionally a fit older one!) comes in. What I do think is I hope he is not on an ego trip as some of them are.

One extremely good looking man age about 30 sees me a couple of times a year and is always the same, quiet and shy. His personality is probably why he has no luck with women (he tells me he never approaches girls when in clubs etc) because his looks alone would get the girls interested but that is not enough when the guy is painfully shy and is no stud in the bedroom.  Such a shame.

[Jessiegirl]

I have never been flustered by fit ones. When I first started I would think wow and could not wait to start the action.
However my experience on the whole is especially the younger ones are disappointing in the bedroom and difficult to engage in an interesting or amusing conversation. Some are so quiet I end up doing most of the talking.
Most of my fave regulars are older than me as I find them easy to talk to, have a laugh and enjoy the sex with them. Could be because they are more confident and experienced.

[Moonlight]

I have had some good laughs reading this post. I also get a bit nervous,during the first few seconds and I am wrong to speak haha then I try to take it naturally, if it's a nice pleasant guy I get along well , if it's too egocentric I feel uncomfortable.
I have few good looking regulars and now that we know each other it's more relaxed. I've been with many handsome men,inside and outside of my bedroom,but for business I do not know why its easier to meet a simple nice man.

[VoluptuousCurves]

I have encountered a few guys who were, as the saying goes "fit but you know it" - and he's thought that just being fit, you should be grovelling all over him and giving him freebies.

There are some clients who I genuinely fancy and I would submit their photo to some kind of "I banged this hottie" website. (Obviously I wouldn't really do that, I mean hypothetically.)

But actually the clients who I tend to fancy and get a bit weak kneed over aren't "conventionally" good looking, there's just something about them that has made me go sploosh. The last major one of those was when I was in Chelsea and he came in and commented that I had a book out on the table by Chimamanda Adichie, and we then started talking about Amy Tan. If you're not a book nerd like me then this will mean nothing! We started kissing and cuddling on the bed and it was honestly more like a first date with amazing chemistry than a booking.

TL;DR - talking to me about female authors will get me wetter than just showing up with six-pack abs

[SophieXXX]

I have encountered a few guys who were, as the saying goes "fit but you know it" - and he's thought that just being fit, you should be grovelling all over him and giving him freebies.

There are some clients who I genuinely fancy and I would submit their photo to some kind of "I banged this hottie" website. (Obviously I wouldn't really do that, I mean hypothetically.)

But actually the clients who I tend to fancy and get a bit weak kneed over aren't "conventionally" good looking, there's just something about them that has made me go sploosh. The last major one of those was when I was in Chelsea and he came in and commented that I had a book out on the table by Chimamanda Adichie, and we then started talking about Amy Tan. If you're not a book nerd like me then this will mean nothing! We started kissing and cuddling on the bed and it was honestly more like a first date with amazing chemistry than a booking.

TL;DR - talking to me about female authors will get me wetter than just showing up with six-pack abs

I know exactly what you mean, I had this last night. Fairly average looking but just had that *thing* that I was really drawn to. It did feel like a first date fuck rather than work as well so I totally get what you mean!

Don't mind me whilst I just go and swoon in a corner...

[Sensualskye]

I had an American not so long ago. Looked a bit like out if a sit com,  a little beardy,  scruffy hair,  blue eyes.  It was like having the perfect one night stand x

[Tanya01]

I Feel a bit shy if i come across a good looker, And then i start to become aware of my own body image. Good days bad days lol x

[Aqua Allegoria]

I don't get embarrassed or feel flustered when a particularly fit young man (or occasionally a fit older one!) comes in. What I do think is I hope he is not on an ego trip as some of them are.

One extremely good looking man age about 30 sees me a couple of times a year and is always the same, quiet and shy. His personality is probably why he has no luck with women (he tells me he never approaches girls when in clubs etc) because his looks alone would get the girls interested but that is not enough when the guy is painfully shy and is no stud in the bedroom.  Such a shame.

That reminds me. A few months ago I had a longer booking with a 30yo, a nice, rather nice looking guy. And suddenly he tells me I'm the second woman he's ever had sex with (!!!!). He used to have huge skin problems, underwent a few radical treatments and got it sorted in the end but it took almost 10 years.
He was a natural in the bedroom. He was just amazing, he was so good at it I couldn't believe it. By the end of the booking I was pushing him to start going out and told him I wanted to be his wingman:) He Was a sweetheart:)

[carachameleon]

OMG. This. I prefer my clients to be average joes and thankfully, 99% are. I can only recall 3 men who I would say are conventionally very very good looking, one who looked like an A&F model, one sexy Italian who cooed sexy and strange Italian to me and one silent but stoic shorty. I felt like a right frump next to them. The first 2 I have never seen again and don't ever hope to. Easy on the eyes but left me insecure and frazzled. I like my men older and not as hot. I want to be the pretty one! 

[Gypsy]

OMG. This. I prefer my clients to be average joes and thankfully, 99% are. I can only recall 3 men who I would say are conventionally very very good looking, one who looked like an A&F model, one sexy Italian who cooed sexy and strange Italian to me and one silent but stoic shorty. I felt like a right frump next to them. The first 2 I have never seen again and don't ever hope to. Easy on the eyes but left me insecure and frazzled. I like my men older and not as hot. I want to be the pretty one! 

Yes, my thoughts feelings exactly. I have NEVER fancied a client, but feel like when someone attractive turns up they want to see a Barbie lookalike.

[Aqua Allegoria]

Yes, my thoughts feelings exactly. I have NEVER fancied a client, but feel like when someone attractive turns up they want to see a Barbie lookalike.

Well, no. They want to see you. It's your profile they read and it's you they chose based on all the information you provided.
For me them being extremely attractive is just a bonus. As long as they are nice and clean, after a couple of minutes their amazing looks don't matter that much anymore.

[Ieaio]

I'll never get over it, i thought after 4 year it was just school girl error, but i still trip over my words and loose my brain when they walk through the door, I prefer the regular clientelle honestly because otherwise i'm just emabaressed over my lack of professionalism

[The_Lynx]

If they are a fair bit younger than me or my age, I am probably going to struggle with clicking with them, since I never fancied men my own age in my personal life. No matter the looks.

Other than that though, I don't find attractive guys intimidating. Most of my clients are within my dating age range (35-45), too.

[JustAnotherHooker]

I Feel a bit shy if i come across a good looker, And then i start to become aware of my own body image. Good days bad days lol x

Omg this is also me exactly!! I prefer regular & not so attractive looking guys because I sometimes think that I should be paying the hottie's and its not a good feeling!!