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Lucie268

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Clients complaining about using lube
« on: 16 May 2017, 03:43:31 pm »
Has anyone ever had a client moan when you go to grab the lube? I've had maybe a handful over the years tell me not to put it on when I reach for it. I always say 'but I need it'. Does it have something to do with decreasing sensitivity? Or maybe are they offended that I'm not turned on enough to not be wet? Either way it's annoying, as regardless of whether I'm horny or not I always need lube when I use condoms because I find them quite drying.

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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #1 on: 16 May 2017, 03:47:43 pm »
Has anyone ever had a client moan when you go to grab the lube? I've had maybe a handful over the years tell me not to put it on when I reach for it. I always say 'but I need it'. Does it have something to do with decreasing sensitivity? Or maybe are they offended that I'm not turned on enough to not be wet? Either way it's annoying, as regardless of whether I'm horny or not I always need lube when I use condoms because I find them quite drying.

This has never happened to me, I just lean across and get it. Sometimes I mumble about needing help, if anyone asks I explain I get wet after I climax (true) and that not enough lube is a contributory factor to condom splits.

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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #2 on: 16 May 2017, 04:03:57 pm »
I don't usually use it but one of my clients said he hates using it as for some reason it makes him cum really quickly. Maybe I should use it for some of my clients then if that's the case.
Also I think some guys have it n their head they are God's gift and expect them to make us wet just by being in their presence. They think if we are not wet something is wrong.

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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #3 on: 16 May 2017, 04:16:47 pm »
I don't get naturally wet with male clients only with my boyfriend .
I simply say if one gets the hump *** I'm little tight and if condom breaks you will be a daddy.*** then the idiot shuts up says carry on.

I rather use lube than use my saliva and be in pain from they dryness. I rarely get those who moan but if I do. I use the above explanation.

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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #4 on: 16 May 2017, 04:31:29 pm »
There are moaners, typically around the 'I'm a sex ghod and you shouldn't need it with me' issue, but if you don't want to say 'tough shit, it's lube or no fucking', you could say that it's important to use lube when you're having extended hot sex because of condoms...

But this is is why some people pre-lube. The moaners think it's them that's got you wet, not the bottle.
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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #5 on: 16 May 2017, 04:45:41 pm »
To the end of my whoring I used to lube up just prior to them arriving. Once I knew they had left car I used syringe for calpol and squirted it up. I was in my 60's by that time so a little dryness wasn't unexpected by me.
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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #6 on: 16 May 2017, 05:43:30 pm »
No because I put lube on before they knock on the door,no moaning then and I'm also ready for the ones that try sticking a finger up straight away.

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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #7 on: 16 May 2017, 08:39:59 pm »
No because I put lube on before they knock on the door,no moaning then and I'm also ready for the ones that try sticking a finger up straight away.


This! I wouldn't be able to do this job safely without lube, I couldn't care less if it hurts their ego or whatever, I'm not risking a condom break or it roll off due to the friction which has happened in the past. I also find condoms very drying even if i am naturally wet

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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #8 on: 16 May 2017, 09:59:49 pm »
it happens to me regularly. moreso with black men. I personally do think its to do with being offended that I'm not aroused. I considedered the method of using  a syring and adding lube before hand but I found I hate stocking a guys ego like that. Ill do by best in bookings but if im not turned on, im simply not turned on. no point being in pain or getting torn up for someone who ill probably never see again

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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #9 on: 16 May 2017, 10:40:07 pm »
I've never had anyone complain, and tbf I'm quite blunt when I need lube I'll just say "hang on a sec while I get the lube" - clients actually tend to ask for lube if they see the bottle.

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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #10 on: 17 May 2017, 07:19:46 am »
it happens to me regularly. moreso with black men. I personally do think its to do with being offended that I'm not aroused. I considedered the method of using  a syring and adding lube before hand but I found I hate stocking a guys ego like that. Ill do by best in bookings but if im not turned on, im simply not turned on. no point being in pain or getting torn up for someone who ill probably never see again
To me it isn't stroking a guys ego to prelube,it's self protection from condoms ripping and getting sore if I get a guy that starts rubbing or poking at me and I'm not wet enough.It's a precaution.

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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #11 on: 17 May 2017, 04:48:16 pm »
Whats the best lube. I get bv from scented shower gels etc so need something that wont set the bv off x

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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #12 on: 17 May 2017, 04:56:38 pm »
Whats the best lube. I get bv from scented shower gels etc so need something that wont set the bv off x
Good old ky jelly has always worked fine for me.You just need a pea sized amount.

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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #13 on: 17 May 2017, 04:57:50 pm »
Whats the best lube. I get bv from scented shower gels etc so need something that wont set the bv off x

There's a range called yesyesyes that do organic lubes, haven't tried them but I'm tempted to get some

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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #14 on: 17 May 2017, 06:25:54 pm »
I've been using Canesintima intimate moisturiser. I find it helps protect against bv or thrush while being tasteless which is useful for reverse oral.