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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #30 on: 22 May 2017, 07:52:28 pm »
I can rememebr when I first started I didn't use lube and god only knows how I managed...as some other ladies have said..pre lube all the way...

mature helen

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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #31 on: 22 May 2017, 08:00:19 pm »
Ive never used lube but then again I only see a max of 2 punters a day.

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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #32 on: 23 May 2017, 08:46:54 am »
You only need a pea sized amount up inside.I've never had a client mention anything about a strange taste or anything,mind you I don't use lube on my clit or outer lips which is where most men tend to lick.Ky doesn't have a smell or taste particularly.

I can verify the efficacy of KY - the one in green especially. 

When the client doubted the source of the lubrication I thrust my sloppy finger in his mouth & asked him if it tasted like lube.

Apparently it did not, to which you can add "oh you would know if it was lube alright"  ;D

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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #33 on: 23 May 2017, 01:08:45 pm »
Even when i'm crazy horny, the outside lip isn't self lubricating aka the main entry. I use lube whether i'm horny or not, i use it every single time i have sex, I do understand it might mean offence but that's them taking it of context and jeopardising the condom tearing due to friction. I use lube when horny with my partner even. Not loads though as he says too wet removes friction to grip the shaft which is the entire point. In sex work the conitation 'the customer is always right' means the customer is jeopardising their and your health soo use lube.
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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #34 on: 23 May 2017, 01:36:54 pm »
Even when i'm crazy horny, the outside lip isn't self lubricating aka the main entry.

Yes, that's the problem I have - it's the outside of the vaginal entrance where I get sore, and it is worse with some condoms that have a thick rolled end.

I generally pre-lube a small amount before a booking and if he has a big cock then I'll put the condom on and apply lube to the condom rather than myself and say "These condoms can be a bit drying". If I feel that I'm going dry during the sex I have no qualms about saying "we need more lube". Tough shit if he gets butthurt about it - my vagina is essential work equipment and therefore is more important to me than his ego!
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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #35 on: 23 May 2017, 02:34:54 pm »
...I have no qualms about saying "we need more lube". Tough shit if he gets butthurt about it - my vagina is essential work equipment and therefore is more important to me than his ego!

The perfect summary of this thread! Lube: A SexWorker's Essential for Protecting Her ASSets. 

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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #36 on: 26 May 2017, 01:07:43 am »
Yes, that's the problem I have - it's the outside of the vaginal entrance where I get sore, and it is worse with some condoms that have a thick rolled end.

I generally pre-lube a small amount before a booking and if he has a big cock then I'll put the condom on and apply lube to the condom rather than myself and say "These condoms can be a bit drying". If I feel that I'm going dry during the sex I have no qualms about saying "we need more lube". Tough shit if he gets butthurt about it - my vagina is essential work equipment and therefore is more important to me than his ego!

I agree there and as I reach for the rubber, I slip some lube around the entrance of my vag and just explain, hey we all hate rubbers but they must be used and dry me out as much as they cause you discomfort but gotta be done.

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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #37 on: 26 May 2017, 01:15:26 am »
When I first started sex work I didn't know that being dry could rip the condom & its happened to me 3 times so I lube up before they come x

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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #38 on: 26 May 2017, 10:57:58 am »
To the end of my whoring I used to lube up just prior to them arriving. Once I knew they had left car I used syringe for calpol and squirted it up. I was in my 60's by that time so a little dryness wasn't unexpected by me.

I use a plastic syringe to put it inside too. I encourage lots of kissing at the beginning of the booking and say it turns me on if they question the wetness lol.

I never get wet with clients. Age hasn't been the issue it's always been that way so lube is the only way for me. I'm not too bothered if it increases their ego as long as it's increasing my bank balance too  :-*

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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #39 on: 27 May 2017, 04:49:01 pm »
I am very tight, so if guys are not prepared to give me foreplay i will use lube!
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Re: Clients complaining about using lube
« Reply #40 on: 28 May 2017, 06:37:52 pm »
I use lube nearly every time and just say, that's the problem with getting older ( I'm 48) I just don't get that wet anymore!
No ones every queried it.