I did an "experiment" with condoms to see how many men objected to bareback

[DaisyDuck]

Something I have discovered is that men can't actually feel a condom if they don't see it. I learned that doing blindfolded tie and tease. If you can sneak the condom on with your mouth and don't let them see the condom, they won't know that it's there.


So, those guys who say that they don't like condoms and it doesn't feel as good are wrong. They can't actually feel it if they don't see it. It does help to use condoms of the right size - they'll feel it if it's very tight.

Anyway last week I sneaked condoms onto every client who was lying back getting a blow job. I had it hidden in my mouth then popped it on during OWO. I then would climb up and start kissing them and went let them go inside of me. All of them happily came "inside" me. Not one of them objected. One guy wanted to change to doggy and noticed it then and commented on it being there. "When did you put this on me?"

About a dozen men this was. After they'd cum I would say, "Did you know you've had a condom on the whole time?" and all of them were surprised to hear it. One of them said, "but I thought you offered OWO?" - ie, he was only concerned that perhaps I had tricked him out of the OWO. That he had thought he was fucking bareback and had supposedly ejaculated inside me didn't phase him at all.

There were a couple of them who I couldn't conceal it from for various reasons. But if they were lying back and I had the opportunity, they didn't notice and they didn't object.

It really made me lose respect for them, though. I had a hard time being my usual warm self for the rest of the booking so I don't think I'll do that anymore.

I'm just aware now that they're not to be trusted at all. It feels a bit rubbish.

[SheilaStar]

Genius!

Men are definitely not to be trusted. I don't believe there is a premeditated intention for barebacking by the majority of clients. There have been studies that many men lose control of logic during sex, as they are taken over by more primitive reproductive instincts.

There are limitations in those studies and I don't think the above is a rule as I have met many men who are in full control of themselves during sex. But, I agree with you. Don't trust them!

[VoluptuousCurves]

Depressing, but not surprising to me. I have stopped being amazed at the number of people (men and women) who happily have unprotected sex with randoms, using all kind of rationalisations to justify it to themselves.

I remember 30 odd years ago when the seatbelt law came in. People would say all kinds of shit as an excuse not to wear a seatbelt. "It creases my shirt" and similar. But nowadays we're all used to it and I can't remember the last time I saw someone not wear one.

So maybe in another 30 or so years protected sex will be the norm. Because the younger generation seem to realise it's a requirement, all of the guys who have asked me for bareback (and have been subjected to one of my lectures as a result) have been 40 or over.

[BlaqHarlot]

It's awful isn't it?

I do the condom on with the mouth thing but never did an experiment! A lot of them make out their sexual health is important to them and that they get checked out regularly but I really don't think many of them do. Just look a reverse bookings for example, if I ever get a last minute cancellation I always look at reverse bookings to see if I can fill the slot and the amount of members asking for bareback and getting a high amount of bids is astounding.

It's best to just take great care in our own health, get checked regularly, use protection for sex and assume every client you come into contact with is doing bareback, that's what I do. X

[Justine]

This is very interesting, I am sorely tempted to try it out myself as I have long suspected that some men who profess to staying safe would take risks given the chance with the right person. I am not an expert at putting on the condom with my mouth so not sure I could pull it off (oooooh that was a pun and a half!!!) but may pick my moment and man and give it a go. 

As for clients getting checked out, I have hardly ever asked if they do but again suspect barely any unless they had a scare. They seem to think we are the only ones who should be queuing up at the clinic on a regular basis when they are just as likely to need regular checks if they see wgs.

I occasionally do a tie/tease service and they are blindfolded too so that would be my chance to experiment.

[losthope]

It's awful isn't it?

I do the condom on with the mouth thing but never did an experiment! A lot of them make out their sexual health is important to them and that they get checked out regularly but I really don't think many of them do. Just look a reverse bookings for example, if I ever get a last minute cancellation I always look at reverse bookings to see if I can fill the slot and the amount of members asking for bareback and getting a high amount of bids is astounding.

It's best to just take great care in our own health, get checked regularly, use protection for sex and assume every client you come into contact with is doing bareback, that's what I do. X

I wonder why they would risk their lives to feel a bit of pussy ? Its crazy, maybe they think AIDS is an epidemic that happened in the 80s ....

[Justine]

Since I posted (rather than edit I am doing this) I have given it more thought.

I still think it is a good idea but to do this with a regular client could instigate unpleasantness, he thinks I am barebacking and gets a shock, I then explain what I have done and god knows what reaction the good guys would have. If they think it is a test (which it is) I doubt they would book me again.

How to get out of that one?

[Jessiegirl]

If guys think they can get away with it they will.
Had a guy a couple of weeks ago whose bare cock was touching my clit when he was kissing me. Felt like he was pushing his luck by getting it nearer my pussy. I had to grab a condom otherwise it felt like he was going to slip it in.
Problem is guys when horny don't think with their brain.

[DaisyDuck]

It really is depressing.

It's always old white guys who try to sneak it in/rub on you.

[VoluptuousCurves]

It's always old white guys who try to sneak it in/rub on you.

Yes definitely. My younger black and asian clients never try any of this shit.

[lady c]

a lot of men have that problem, that condoms give them, they cant come with a condom so end up with other means.. i will give it the test lol...

[losthope]

It really is depressing.

It's always old white guys who try to sneak it in/rub on you.

I've always said the old ones are the worst, I say it to them, I feel like Im playing twister with them whilst doing massage, their hands try to get in places I have deliberately made impossible for them to reach, but they give it their all in trying 

[English natural beauty]

Mines mainly Indian men and Asians. It was becoming such a problem that I had to write it on my profile I do not allow genital to genital contact  and anyone pushing for this will be asked to leave. Also Nigerian men are absolutely terrible for it. The frequent excuse of complaining how the condom doesn't fit their jumbo hot dogs. And ripping off condones during appointments. Hence why I have now refused to see them. I don't see guys of over 55 so have never had a problem with older white guys. I didn't used to be so particular about who I saw but since I have had clients taking advantages and making me feel uncomfortable and like I want to scrub my skin off after a booking for my own peace of mind and to avoid any bad memories I put criteria in place. Some people I hav met are truly lovely amazing people but some others ruin it for potentially good clients and I'm willing to risk that rather than risk my own happiness and peace of mind. Xx

[amy]

Yeah, I think we'll move on from the casual racism (and I do mean all of it) now please. It's not really what the thread starter was about and it's unpleasant to read.

I only do covered oral anyway and putting on the condom with my mouth is my go to, but thinking about it I've had a few say at the end they never noticed me doing so and it's made me wonder why they left it until them to ask? I suppose I assumed they knew I'd have done something because they would know that it would be condom on before the blowjob, but I think I've only been asked once by somebody who didn't notice and panicked a bit.

[HS1978]

Yeah, I think we'll move on from the casual racism (and I do mean all of it) now please. It's not really what the thread starter was about and it's unpleasant to read.

I only do covered oral anyway and putting on the condom with my mouth is my go to, but thinking about it I've had a few say at the end they never noticed me doing so and it's made me wonder why they left it until them to ask? I suppose I assumed they knew I'd have done something because they would know that it would be condom on before the blowjob, but I think I've only been asked once by somebody who didn't notice and panicked a bit.

I would hope when they say they did not notice, that they knew that they were wearing one during penetration, but kind of looked down and in their mind thought crikey I did not realize she  slipped one on me, but they did not wan to mention it to the end to prevent "spoiling" the moment.