Would you date a client?

[Leilaa]

I met a client a few weeks ago who travelled a long way to see me as he really loves Indian girls. When I opened the door I was pleasantly surprised.. he's in his 30s and very handsome . The reason he booked a wg is because he wanted to carry out a particular fantasy as I can't see him having trouble attracting women in a bar.

We got on really well and before he left he said ' I would love to take you out on a date'  I laughed it off and said we know too much about each other.  Hes since booked again twice to see me and each time he's tried persuading me to go out with him. Hes booked again for next week and although it's good to have a regular I think these bookings are a excuse to come over and persuade me to see him outside. Not sure what to do in this situation.

[TrashAzn]

I feel with clients that they don't really like me as a person because they don't know me, they just know me as a provider of sex so I question why they'd want to date me. There is every chance a client just wants to fuck you for free and when they get bored they'll move on to somebody else. What happens when the excitement wears off?

[PassionFlower]

I'm currently dating a former client, but it was me to initiate the relationship, not him.

I don't know why but I wouldn't want to date a guy who came on to me during a booking... I feel like I'd always be questioning his motives.

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[VoluptuousCurves]

I just say "My social rate is the same as my normal rate. I'd suggest 4 hours for a dinner date which is ?400. Let me know when you want to set something up."

Spoiler: My BF did do this, and paid, and a few bookings later he got promoted to boyfriend

I wouldn't even THINK about it with a client unless you feel you really like him as a person. It sounds like this guy is pushing your boundaries, which is unattractive.

[loubyloo]

I think it would depend on wether you're looking for a BF or not.
I dated a client for almost a year but made it clear I only wanted to see him 2/3 times a week as I wanted company at the weekends, someone to holiday, meals out, that kind of thing.
It worked well and I've recently moved onto someone else with the same criteria.

[SheilaStar]

I would date only one particular client because I fancy the pants off him in all sorts of levels and have known him for a while.

How well do you know 'him' and how well does he know 'you'? Does he want to date you because he likes the bedroom-you, he is after free sex and because you fulfill his sexual fantasy? Is he available?

Otherwise, if the guy meets your criteria I'd say go for it, life is too short.

[SheilaStar]

I just say "My social rate is the same as my normal rate. I'd suggest 4 hours for a dinner date which is ?400. Let me know when you want to set something up."

Spoiler: My BF did do this, and paid, and a few bookings later he got promoted to boyfriend

I wouldn't even THINK about it with a client unless you feel you really like him as a person. It sounds like this guy is pushing your boundaries, which is unattractive.

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[Adele7]

I just say "My social rate is the same as my normal rate. I'd suggest 4 hours for a dinner date which is ?400. Let me know when you want to set something up."

Spoiler: My BF did do this, and paid, and a few bookings later he got promoted to boyfriend

I wouldn't even THINK about it with a client unless you feel you really like him as a person. It sounds like this guy is pushing your boundaries, which is unattractive.

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[Kay]

See this thread, amongst many others: http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=3308.330;topicseen

[Leilaa]

I just say "My social rate is the same as my normal rate. I'd suggest 4 hours for a dinner date which is ?400. Let me know when you want to set something up."

Spoiler: My BF did do this, and paid, and a few bookings later he got promoted to boyfriend

I wouldn't even THINK about it with a client unless you feel you really like him as a person. It sounds like this guy is pushing your boundaries, which is unattractive.

Ha VC that's a good point. Thankyou ladies for your views on this I think I'm going to keep well away and not mix business with pleasure xx

[sweetmilf]

It's mainly about sex or it will always center around sex, whilst you may get his "company" and trappings which come with sex,  Not many escorts have a monogamous relationship where men are solely committed to her except few where they probably met outside escorting.  Punters will always be punters, paid or unpaid.   

[Mirror]

I married one and sex is not central to our relationship.

Ok if you want to go out with him, and form a relationship then do so. If you don't then maintain your boundaries and that you don't want to be persuaded. Whilst it can be really flattering, and obviously you want to keep his custom, being constantly asked and keeping his hopes going can become a strain after a while.

[Justine]

No I would not ever date a client no matter how much I may fancy them. I want nothing to complicate this job and am not prepared to take the risk of this happening. Not even tempted.

[martine21]

No I would not ever date a client no matter how much I may fancy them. I want nothing to complicate this job and am not prepared to take the risk of this happening. Not even tempted.

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Even if a client was amazing looking and a nice person, I couldn't get past the mental block of him being a punter. Hypocritical I know but I would never date anyone who saw escorts.

[Justine]

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Even if a client was amazing looking and a nice person, I couldn't get past the mental block of him being a punter. Hypocritical I know but I would never date anyone who saw escorts

To my way of thinking this is not really being hypocritical. Dating is entirely separate from punter/wg situation. Private civvy life to me would not include dating a man who sees escorts. 

I know there is a lot of conflict on this subject but am only stating how it is with me.