Client keeps texting?

[QuinnAmour]

Hi guys,

So I have this client, I can't call him a regular because I've only seen him once, but he keeps texting me, flirting with me, trying to get me to talk dirty to him and saying he wants to see me again, he'll give me a day that he might be able to do but then that day comes and goes and surprise, surprise, no booking is made.

I didn't mind the occasional text at first with him because we're quite like minded and we had good banter so the odd text about a mutual interest or something funny I didn't really mind, but this morning he texted me with a picture from some porno saying 'when we fuck can you look at me with this intensity in your eyes' which first of all I don't even know how to respond to that, but secondly (and most importantly) it made me feel really weird, especially seeing as I was in bed with my boyfriend when I received the message, and I couldn't work out why he was doing this? I mean, I know it's clearly getting him off in someway, I'm not that naive but could me not putting a stop to the occasional banter beforehand have lead to him thinking that this kind of behaviour is okay and was I naive to think that a bit of banter every now and then with a client is acceptable?

I'm not sure what to say to him anymore, or if I should say anything at all, and its got the point where if I don't reply to him straight away he'll send a text that just says 'Xxxx' to get my attention.

Anyway, back to the point, I suppose what I'm asking here is what would any of you do in my situation? Tell him this is inappropriate and risk losing the client or just ignore him and if he books again, he books again and if he doesn't then so be it?

Thanks
Quinn x

[loubyloo]

He's definately overstepping the boundaries and needs to be told.
Next time reply in a firm business like way, asking for a time and day he'd like to book you.
If he starts asking questions, trying to get you talking about fantasies, role play etc just firmly tell him he can request something when he makes a booking. If he carries on just ignore him.
He ll soon get bored.

[QuinnAmour]

He's definately overstepping the boundaries and needs to be told.
Next time reply in a firm business like way, asking for a time and day he'd like to book you.
If he starts asking questions, trying to get you talking about fantasies, role play etc just firmly tell him he can request something when he makes a booking. If he carries on just ignore him.
He ll soon get bored.

I did try the more business like approach and I have asked him several times when he'd like to book, that's when he says 'possibly Friday' or 'maybe Monday' and then when the time comes he goes silent 

[Adele7]

I simply ignore. I also make it clear on my profile that I don't respond to texts. xx

[Sexymilf]

When i get lots of texts or requests i say im available at xx time. Chat soon when you want to book. If they say can we do this or can we do that and its ok i reply again yes chat soon when u want to book. It usually cuts them off from continually texting wthout being rude xx

[Justine]

Quinn

You would be losing a loser, not a client.  If that was me I would block immediately, I am a hard hearted but very fair wg who does not put up with idiots who pretend they will book or book again and don't make a firm decision and stick to it.

Any texting involving sex talk gets them an instant ban, whether I have met them or not.

[VoluptuousCurves]

Reply to every single one of his texts "Please call me to arrange a booking."

He's a cheapskate who has booked you once and now things you owe him free services for the foreseeable future. You don't.

[BlaqHarlot]

He's only booked you once so what do you care if you lose him as a client? He's not regular business and I'm sure someone will fill his slot in no time.

I've had clients like this and asked them when they would like to book, if they have carried on after that I tell them straight I don't do sexting, and that I would appreciate them never contacting me again. These kind of clients will continue to take the piss until you tell them straight and only then do they realise they were acting like prats.

Since you've already tried the "When would you like to book" approach I would suggest completely ignoring him or telling him to kindly stop texting you unless he is going to make a solid booking. X

[Kay]

Just reply something like: "Please just text me when you know when you'd next like to book." Ignore any flirts/hints/shite.

[QuinnAmour]

Thanks for all the advice, I think I will just ignore for the foreseeable future!
Business is slow at the moment so I was hoping the flirting would entice him back but clearly he's just a freeloader.

All your straight to the point answers have really cleared my head, it can get a bit foggy sometimes when cash is tight! 

[Mirror]

Yes I'd be telling him I can't respond to any more texts, he's to only get in touch if he's definite. If he carries on I'd then advise him that you won't be responding.

[Adele7]

Quinn

You would be losing a loser, not a client.  If that was me I would block immediately, I am a hard hearted but very fair wg who does not put up with idiots who pretend they will book or book again and don't make a firm decision and stick to it.

Any texting involving sex talk gets them an instant ban, whether I have met them or not.

+1

[BibiofLeeds]

You need to have boundaries with clients like this.He pays for your time and attention within a booking.If he isn't paying you then why give him attention?Every time he is texting and you are answering it is time away from your day and he is never likely going to book you as you are giving him free titilation even if it just banter.
I would just go down the 'Please call to arrange a booking' route if he sends any more pics I'd tell him straight that you don't like crude texts and as he hasn't actually booked anything then you won't be texting back anymore as you are busy with paying clients and then just block him.

[QuinnAmour]

You need to have boundaries with clients like this.He pays for your time and attention within a booking.If he isn't paying you then why give him attention?Every time he is texting and you are answering it is time away from your day and he is never likely going to book you as you are giving him free titilation even if it just banter.
I would just go down the 'Please call to arrange a booking' route if he sends any more pics I'd tell him straight that you don't like crude texts and as he hasn't actually booked anything then you won't be texting back anymore as you are busy with paying clients and then just block him.

Tbf, I think by this point I know he's not going to make a booking anymore. He said he'd come see me today and I've heard nothing from him since yesterday morning. My plan now is to ignore him unless he makes a solid booking and even then I will treat with caution.

[lady c]

I have a few regular clients who text me banter but i keep my messages short and sweet sometimes i ignore i never do the sex talk.. Sometimes i will just text busy sorry call me when u want to book. He has booked u once so hardly a regular i would say move on until he makes a proper booking and when he is in that booking tell him u don't want a text buddy lol. My profile says texts will be short and sweet and to the point for that reason exactly.