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sweetmilf

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Re: Problem with client
« Reply #15 on: 29 May 2017, 10:22:51 pm »
There have been a few threads on this subject. 

I often wonder why some punter always wants his escort to dress in the same outfit over and over.  I also do dislike punters too specific about what to wear as if it's the outfit they care about.

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Re: Problem with client
« Reply #16 on: 29 May 2017, 10:40:58 pm »
But was the 4K a loan, a gift, or payment for services due? It's not entirely clear to me.
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Re: Problem with client
« Reply #17 on: 30 May 2017, 09:02:12 am »
But was the 4K a loan, a gift, or payment for services due? It's not entirely clear to me.

I think more clarity is needed on this.

The thread is also a great example of how clients can get narked if we aren't constantly responsive. I would have responded with something to explain I'd had a disaster / family stuff, making it clear I needed space and time. Sometimes some customers forget we are human beings.

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Re: Problem with client
« Reply #18 on: 30 May 2017, 10:59:23 am »
I think more clarity is needed on this.

The thread is also a great example of how clients can get narked if we aren't constantly responsive. I would have responded with something to explain I'd had a disaster / family stuff, making it clear I needed space and time. Sometimes some customers forget we are human beings.

I doubt he'd believe her if she was to say the disaster/family stuff tbh!

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Re: Problem with client
« Reply #19 on: 30 May 2017, 12:13:22 pm »
I doubt he'd believe her if she was to say the disaster/family stuff tbh!

Well that's up to him.

I had someone get upset when I was uncontactable after being a victim of crime, and despite me putting this on my website, profiles and a message on my voicemail - all done whilst police were interviewing me/doing scene of crime stuff. When I next had contact with the person a few days later I most certainly did let him know what had happened.

sweetmilf

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Re: Problem with client
« Reply #20 on: 30 May 2017, 04:46:35 pm »
Men can be very unreasonable and vindictive (there are "good guys" but they are very few, lucky if you/we had met them) even if when we had no faults on our own. For example, if you've worked long enough we all have had clients, who get infuriated by their first booking, which did not go through because we happened to be busy.  Then we often get "book and cancel" as if it's no big deal, most men don't even apologise for not following their bookings through.  "so what?" attitude.   Not even, "sorry, I forgot."  WHAT DOES IT TELL YOU?  (Sorry for caps lol)

One punter said, "arrogance" in punters is a known thing.  It's probably to do with British men's ego thing.  If you ever visit some places, men themselves are amazed how women are described.  A "nice" guy/punter told me. 

Men are Kings, women are not Queen.  lol   Someone posted Canadian punters are a lot nicer, but I don't honestly know, I know an English woman who was beaten by her Canadian hubby.  Men are tricky, there are exceptions but maybe, there are quite a few of these men as we know we've seen similar stories on Saafe.     4K is a large sum of cash.  He would have expected something worth ?4K in return.  Not sure what it is but clearly, what he's saying is "that's not part of our deal" and he made it known.   :-\

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Re: Problem with client
« Reply #21 on: 30 May 2017, 04:56:24 pm »
But was the 4K a loan, a gift, or payment for services due? It's not entirely clear to me.

Yes, I also somehow fail to see the whole picture here, plus "what he found out about me on the net". Something is missing which is puzzling me.
« Last Edit: 30 May 2017, 04:59:32 pm by Adele7 »

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Re: Problem with client
« Reply #22 on: 30 May 2017, 05:01:59 pm »
I'm so sorry to read about your sister and hope she recovers 100%

I know the situation was out with your control but I think your first mistake was taking his money and a car  ..... then going on holiday. I'm surprised he was happy to take you to airport.

If the car he bought you is in his name he will be able to take it back anytime and even if it isn't I wouldn't be too happy driving it especially if this unhinged guys knows where it is etc 😢

When you get home I would be arranging to pay him back all monies he has given you except for monies he owes you for bookings already done.

Best to make the break now before anything further happens with him. Sounds like a bit of a control freak to me.
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Re: Problem with client
« Reply #23 on: 30 May 2017, 05:03:43 pm »
I think we are all giving advice on something that we don't have the full details on. I feel a bit blind folded on this post.

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Re: Problem with client
« Reply #24 on: 30 May 2017, 07:01:26 pm »
I would text and assure him that you will pay in installments.  I would also remind him that sugar babying and escorting is legal in the UK.
 Guys like this piss me off.  I had a few like this too. A*&$holes!