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people you know
« on: 29 May 2017, 11:30:44 am »
I work locally to where I live and so I guess it was only time before I was booked by someone I know. I never thought about it though but it happened recently. Took a  booking from a guy and when I went to meet him in the prearranged location I immediately recognised his car he has owned for years. He is a family friend and I  have known him for years,  I was taken aback and stood there dithering whether to phone and  cancel or go and speak to him.  He seemed shocked  that it was me he booked but I think he knew who he was booking though looking back. I offered  cancel but     he said he was OK with continuing with the booking.

I have thought about this situation a lot, in his case I know he is recently divorced, but I know his ex, I went to school with his children. If he was in a stable relationship I would have cancelled.

So curious as to what everyone else would do, guess others must have been in this situation

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Re: people you know
« Reply #1 on: 29 May 2017, 11:41:29 am »
I work locally to where I live and so I guess it was only time before I was booked by someone I know. I never thought about it though but it happened recently. Took a  booking from a guy and when I went to meet him in the prearranged location I immediately recognised his car he has owned for years. He is a family friend and I  have known him for years,  I was taken aback and stood there dithering whether to phone and  cancel or go and speak to him.  He seemed shocked  that it was me he booked but I think he knew who he was booking though looking back. I offered  cancel but     he said he was OK with continuing with the booking.

I have thought about this situation a lot, in his case I know he is recently divorced, but I know his ex, I went to school with his children. If he was in a stable relationship I would have cancelled.

So curious as to what everyone else would do, guess others must have been in this situation

Funnily enough I got an email through AW the other day asking if my real name was XXX & I am this person and I show my face and work in my home city so it was also bound to happen to me! He said he didn't want to cause an awkward encounter for the 2 of us by going with me as we had both went to school together, he didn't say who he was as he has a family & kids and I was okay with that, my family know what I do anyway so there was no problem.  Tbh I think your family friend/client sounds like a cunt to know it was you and to still go through with it, what was the booking like? I have been asked in the past to do business with a guy I knew from my personal life and I was like no way, I won't ever entertain someone I know, I actually mentally wouldn't be able to tbh.

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Re: people you know
« Reply #2 on: 29 May 2017, 11:49:25 am »
If I have connections and know in advance then I won't accept the booking, if I find out when we meet whether I go ahead depends on what those connections are.

I have had the reverse happen, it's turned out our lives cross after he's seen me a few times, or that he knows someone I'm involved with. In those situations we've talked it through, and once again depends on the exact situation. I'm involved in another line of work in which it would definitely not be ethical, nor acceptable for me to see customers as sex work clients.


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Re: people you know
« Reply #3 on: 29 May 2017, 12:07:03 pm »
Funnily enough I got an email through AW the other day asking if my real name was XXX & I am this person and I show my face and work in my home city so it was also bound to happen to me! He said he didn't want to cause an awkward encounter for the 2 of us by going with me as we had both went to school together, he didn't say who he was as he has a family & kids and I was okay with that, my family know what I do anyway so there was no problem.  Tbh I think your family friend/client sounds like a cunt to know it was you and to still go through with it, what was the booking like? I have been asked in the past to do business with a guy I knew from my personal life and I was like no way, I won't ever entertain someone I know, I actually mentally wouldn't be able to tbh.

Booking was just like any other, I used to have casual sex with people I knew before I became an escort so don't really mind doing it with people I know if the circumstances are right.

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« Reply #4 on: 29 May 2017, 02:14:32 pm »
Booking was just like any other, I used to have casual sex with people I knew before I became an escort so don't really mind doing it with people I know if the circumstances are right.

I just couldn't, I wouldn't be able to perform properly!! Each to their own x

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« Reply #5 on: 29 May 2017, 03:08:04 pm »
A few years ago when I was quite careless I would sometimes use my real number 🙈 on my aw page. I bumped into an old school friend and we swapped numbers, but I didn't save his number. So one evening, when I got a booking via text asking me if I remembered who he was I said no and thought no more of it.
So booking was made and and it was only my old school friend who walked through the door! I almost died as that was one of my worst case scenarios in the living flesh. I was sooo embarrassed. I knew he was married and had children so when he suggested that he wouldn't tell anyone as he had always fancied me and wanted a freebie, I had to mention that I'm sure his wife and kids would be shocked if they found out.
Nothing happened that evening and im glad he didn't but it shook me the fuck up. But in another sense I was exposed and I'm still working and my world didn't come to an end.
So, what she done said was that happy hoes ain’t hating and hating hoes ain’t happy.

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« Reply #6 on: 29 May 2017, 04:48:48 pm »
A few years ago when I was quite careless I would sometimes use my real number 🙈 on my aw page. I bumped into an old school friend and we swapped numbers, but I didn't save his number. So one evening, when I got a booking via text asking me if I remembered who he was I said no and thought no more of it.
So booking was made and and it was only my old school friend who walked through the door! I almost died as that was one of my worst case scenarios in the living flesh. I was sooo embarrassed. I knew he was married and had children so when he suggested that he wouldn't tell anyone as he had always fancied me and wanted a freebie, I had to mention that I'm sure his wife and kids would be shocked if they found out.
Nothing happened that evening and im glad he didn't but it shook me the fuck up. But in another sense I was exposed and I'm still working and my world didn't come to an end.

I think he had a fxxxxxx cheek asking for a freebie!!  Hr had a lot to lose too if he exposed you x

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« Reply #7 on: 29 May 2017, 06:57:46 pm »
If I suspected a new client may be someone I know or have known in the past in my private life I would not accept the booking. Not knowing who new ones are means they can turn up and are in the door before you realise the horror (well to me it would be a horror!) so having a spyhole in my front door is vital and I never open it without having a peep out even with regs, another occupant in my building could be walking alongside him and I have to be certain he is the only one outside my door.

Once or twice over the years a client has told me which little area he grew up and which school he attended etc ( I don't divulge such info to any client) and if he is around my own age I do think oh god we could have gone to school together but no one has seemed shocked at knowing me yet and touch wood it won't happen.

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« Reply #8 on: 29 May 2017, 09:03:26 pm »
I don't think I could have done the  booking.  An ex once contacted me for MMF with his friend, I had been escorting whilst seeing him and point blank refused him as it would have seemed weird and besides I don't do MMF bookings anyway. It got me wonderng why he didn't even consider that I might have been doing it behind his back and even mention the fact...I will never get men  ::)

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« Reply #9 on: 29 May 2017, 09:53:53 pm »
This happened to me a couple of times.

First time was a friends son. I hadn't seen him for 15/16 years from when he was around 16 so he had changed a fair bit, but I hadn't. He recognised me immediately but didn't say anything. It wasn't till the penny dropped with me when I said I realised that I offered to cancel but he wanted to go ahead, so we did.

Second time was another friends son 😖 And his children went to school with my grandchildren? Again booking went ahead. Over the years I had to watch him and his wife and mother in law at sports day with children. I couldn't look. I felt so sorry for his wife, for I knew other tricks he was up to 🙄

Nothing ever came of either bookings.
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« Reply #10 on: 29 May 2017, 09:58:58 pm »
This happened to me a couple of times.

First time was a friends son. I hadn't seen him for 15/16 years from when he was around 16 so he had changed a fair bit, but I hadn't. He recognised me immediately but didn't say anything. It wasn't till the penny dropped with me when I said I realised that I offered to cancel but he wanted to go ahead, so we did.

Second time was another friends son 😖 And his children went to school with my grandchildren? Again booking went ahead. Over the years I had to watch him and his wife and mother in law at sports day with children. I couldn't look. I felt so sorry for his wife, for I knew other tricks he was up to 🙄

Nothing ever came of either bookings.

You must be one hot lady with all your friends sons and grandsons wanting to shag you!!! Lolxx

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« Reply #11 on: 30 May 2017, 04:03:55 pm »
It really depends who it is but if I know them I'm less likely to take the booking if I see it's them in advance or they know it's me. Had my creepy old boss at a HMV I used to work at try booking me but cancelled, couldn't stand the guy back then and wouldn't do that. The one time somebody recognised me in advance and tried to book me was like a month ago, ex's friend did it and didn't let on it was him until he called me to confirm. Was going to cancel but he talked me round like "I'll pay and won't tell anyone I've just always wanted to sleep with you since I met you!" etc etc, did let him come round and did the booking and he's had another booking since then. He said he's seen prostitutes before too never knew that about him.

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Re: people you know
« Reply #12 on: 30 May 2017, 05:45:36 pm »
You must be one hot lady with all your friends sons and grandsons wanting to shag you!!! Lolxx

I didn't give up whoring till I was 61 going on 62. Didn't start till I was 53 ish and was always kept busy. Age wasn't a problem.
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JustAnotherHooker

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Re: people you know
« Reply #13 on: 30 May 2017, 11:13:11 pm »
I didn't give up whoring till I was 61 going on 62. Didn't start till I was 53 ish and was always kept busy. Age wasn't a problem.

Exactly!! Young men love the MILF, all that life experience+knowledge in a milf is sexy to them, and her/your confidence combined with you obviously looking good...happy days for them! Xx

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Re: people you know
« Reply #14 on: 30 May 2017, 11:58:56 pm »
Currently my whole life is based around this little area.. 2 years ago I moved here to get back into escorting and just keep my head down and make money.
Fast forward today I've suddenly got a social life and personal life here and made some great friends.
I know it's bound to happen sooner than later and I will literally die of embarrassment. So I have to look for new work place.
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