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cruisecookie

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Standard 1 hour GFE outcall... what to expect?
« on: 29 May 2017, 11:42:52 pm »
Hi! Just starting out and wondering how to pace an hour GFE? I mean I don't think I usually have sex with my actual partner for that long, so I'm really curious how to make it work. Also, I'm only offering outcall at the moment, but I would also be interested to know if there is a difference in the Incall GFE? Thanks.

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Re: Standard 1 hour GFE outcall... what to expect?
« Reply #1 on: 30 May 2017, 04:19:37 am »
GFE describes more the tone of the booking - the actual definition varies from person to person, but most people differentiate it from PSE in that the sex will be more vanilla and 'warmer'. The best thing to do is ask the client, and then go at his pace: in particular, find out if he wants to pop once or twice (or more), how he wants to come etc.
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Re: Standard 1 hour GFE outcall... what to expect?
« Reply #2 on: 30 May 2017, 12:20:07 pm »
There's really no difference between incalls and outcalls to my mind in terms of what goes on.

You can either let the client take the lead in terms of what pace and activities and just sort of follow along, or you could ask at the start of the booking what they want to get up to. As a general rule of thumb I'd say older guys (40+) usually only cum once but younger guys might look to go twice.

Quite often with a 1hr booking I'd expect to have finished the sex about halfway through and the rest of the booking will be just having a chat and a cuddle.
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Re: Standard 1 hour GFE outcall... what to expect?
« Reply #3 on: 30 May 2017, 06:35:36 pm »


Quite often with a 1hr booking I'd expect to have finished the sex about halfway through and the rest of the booking will be just having a chat and a cuddle.


Thanks...somehow I'd imagined it to be literally 55 min non stop shag  ;D

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Re: Standard 1 hour GFE outcall... what to expect?
« Reply #4 on: 30 May 2017, 07:35:16 pm »

Thanks...somehow I'd imagined it to be literally 55 min non stop shag  ;D

That would be really unusual in my experience. Although I do see mainly older guys. It tends to be the younger ones who go on for ages. If you're getting sore or tired, don't be afraid to say "We need more lube" or "Shall we try another position cos my knees are aching" or "Let me suck your cock now".
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Re: Standard 1 hour GFE outcall... what to expect?
« Reply #5 on: 30 May 2017, 08:08:45 pm »
Lately my one hour have been shagging and sucking most of the hour whereas previously they been half hr shag kiss and cuddke  and goodbye. I no what i prefer xx

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Re: Standard 1 hour GFE outcall... what to expect?
« Reply #6 on: 30 May 2017, 11:54:45 pm »
Pack some oil and open with a massage! It's a good way to get him relaxed and set the tone, as well as kill 15 minutes. Then 30 minutes shagging and 15 chatting at the end - easy done :)