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« Reply #60 on: 21 August 2017, 07:11:13 pm »
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« Reply #61 on: 22 August 2017, 05:00:32 pm »
I have learned, I don't have to be young to have appeal. I am busier now at my advanced age, than when I was younger.
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« Reply #62 on: 22 August 2017, 05:00:54 pm »
I have learned, I don't have to be young to have appeal. I am busier now at my advanced age, than when I was younger.
Follow me on Twitter @JezebelSt

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« Reply #63 on: 22 August 2017, 05:01:07 pm »
I have learned, I don't have to be young to have appeal. I am busier now at my advanced age, than when I was younger.
Follow me on Twitter @JezebelSt

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« Reply #64 on: 26 August 2017, 09:06:47 pm »
That most of clients treat escorts like dirt wish some one told me prior of course I would have gone fuck this.

If you feel that most client treat you like dirt then... something is not right or you might be not doing something right. I used to have lovely clients and make money, then I received 4 negative reviews on we all know what forum, and guess what... Most of people calling me were verbally abusive and wanted a discount. Then I went to work somewhere else (agency) and I have a very better experience.

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« Reply #65 on: 26 August 2017, 09:09:11 pm »
I've only had a few dodgy calls but I make it clear on my profile , if your not polite , even in texts, it's v v clear on my profile , however I have no graphic pics on my profile , only what you'd see on a beach , no feedback with anything graphic and nothing remotely rude on my profile, pretty much every guy I see says that's what drew them to me !

I have regs , lots who say please don't put naughty pics on , they can find out when they see you.

I offer a service that is GFE but bordering on PSE , but make it clear if they can't string two words together to text or mail , I won't answer !!

I had very classy pictures and still at some point I had only TWs on the phone and clients who passed my screening tuned out to be rude in person. It's not about pics or prices.

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« Reply #66 on: 27 August 2017, 09:27:27 am »
If I had known that escorting isn't all diamonds then I would have reconsidered. But am thankful now I met my bf here, so escorting was not done for nothing.

Looking forward to my new life.

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« Reply #67 on: 12 September 2017, 05:48:16 pm »
I'd had my fair share of men before I started escorting a few months ago, all different ages and ethnicities! Howerever, I've only just come to learn that the shaft of a mans penis can be hairy too! The ones I'd come across before had all been silky smooth. I find it makes bjs less enjoyable as I don't really like licking hairy things  ???

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« Reply #68 on: 13 September 2017, 07:03:10 pm »
That clients really can't tell the difference between expensive and cheap underwear and they will inevitably stretch out and destroy it all! would have saved so much money!  ;D

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« Reply #69 on: 22 November 2017, 09:15:46 pm »
Sorry for bumping an old thread but after only working for 5 months I can say the only thing I wish I knew earlier is that this can be a real job like any other and not something very dangerous and crazy. With proper screening you will meet nice human beings ( before i thought it will only be dirty old weird guys). It is not as scary as I thought it will be. To not be so self conscious about my body ( The imperfections I see are being adored and heavily compensated ;D).

And lastly I am in my late 20's now and I wish I would have started earlier instead of wasting my time with stupid little jobs. I could own a house and good savings already by now.

I hope it stays positive as it has!


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« Reply #70 on: 22 November 2017, 10:18:15 pm »
I'd had my fair share of men before I started escorting a few months ago, all different ages and ethnicities! Howerever, I've only just come to learn that the shaft of a mans penis can be hairy too! The ones I'd come across before had all been silky smooth. I find it makes bjs less enjoyable as I don't really like licking hairy things  ???
I don't like mega hairy but I don't like the just shaved ones , too scratchy if your high volume , prefer hairy now .

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« Reply #71 on: 22 November 2017, 10:54:21 pm »
I don't like mega hairy but I don't like the just shaved ones , too scratchy if your high volume , prefer hairy now .

So far I've only had smooth or super hairy, no scratchy ones thankfully. It only bothers me during oral, not a fan of hair balls, its just not sexy when youre fishing a hair from the back of your mouth haha

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« Reply #72 on: 23 November 2017, 12:24:39 am »
I wish I had know about saafe. As I got tricked by the London overnight scammer and sexually attacked by him when very young and as a result it affected  me a lot in my life with work and ptsd and having bad dreams at night. It was an awful experience that could have been avoided had I found saafe much sooner. I'm just glad I found it to be honest as it's prevented so many more bad experiences for me and helped me with so much.
Sometimes I think that I could die from an overdose of satisfaction. -Salvador Dali

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« Reply #73 on: 23 November 2017, 12:54:35 am »
I wish I had know about saafe. As I got tricked by the London overnight scammer and sexually attacked by him when very young and as a result it affected  me a lot in my life with work and ptsd and having bad dreams at night. It was an awful experience that could have been avoided had I found saafe much sooner. I'm just glad I found it to be honest as it's prevented so many more bad experiences for me and helped me with so much.

I am so sorry this happened to you :(

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« Reply #74 on: 23 November 2017, 02:42:56 pm »
I am so sorry this happened to you :(

This man is still at it and it's been so many years now part of me thinks he is never going to get caught and punished for his crimes  ???
Sometimes I think that I could die from an overdose of satisfaction. -Salvador Dali