Would you see a client that visits Transexuals?

[sweetmilf]

nor will I book them back in if a client tells me he has punted in Thailand. 

Do you know how many British men visit Thailand each year?  Thailand is a very popular sex resort amongst the British tourists.  But I understand your "sentiment".  I couldn't bring myself to see a punter, who told me he was going there for "dirt cheap shags" to his heart's content.  (there were other things I didn't like him about)

I often assume that I had seen quite a few men who punted abroad, including Thailand where unusual, resistant strains of STIs do exist (mutated ones, presumably?).  But when someone openly declared, I do have my own sentiments re. sex exploitation in the third world country abroad along with the fear of catching unusual, incurable diseases, NOT just STIs.   Useful if you check their travel status in recent months and if they are getting diarrhoea etc.   Not kidding.

[Kendall]

I used to see this big burley skin head who loved telling me about all the TVs that he had done facials and bjs with I find it no more disgusting than thinking about the married guys I see who've might of had their bare dicks in their wives possibly hours before wanting owo off me or rimming a lorry driver in a shell garage toilets that weekend. We all have different standards of what we consider 'risky' clients.

[Justine]

I would not automatically ban a client who had met or said he met trans escorts but have known a few clients who regaled me with stories of their travels and exploits including picking up ladyboys and transexuals whether paid or not. I have taken some of it with a pinch of salt but as long as my own health is taken care of as much as I possbly can (never a guarantee in this job) then not much more I can do.

These clients always tell their tales while in bookings during or after the sex so it is up to me whether I choose to see them again. Honestly though I am more likely not see them because of their boasting and boring me to death with their stories than the fact they have been with other men, it is probably far more common than we realise that our clients have dabbled in games with other males, we have no way of knowing how much of it is true or waffle.

[cherry_bb]

(Looks at thread)

And I thought rabid transphobia was limited to assorted punter boards...

+1 I'm appalled I hope mods shut this down asap

[Mirror]

Lots of assumptions here, and I've a good idea more men than you know have sexual contact with other men.

[The_Lynx]

(Looks at thread)

And I thought rabid transphobia was limited to assorted punter boards...

Ditto. This is depressing to read. :|

[GothGirl]

Just to confirm I have nothing against trans/I'm not transphobia, just wondered what people's thoughts were 

[BibiofLeeds]

Lots of assumptions here, and I've a good idea more men than you know have sexual contact with other men.

Agreed.I don't assume a TS is more likely to have STI's than anybody else.Surely we are all individuals and god knows we as sex workers get pissed off when some people presume we are riddled!

[lora]

There was a thread a few months ago which went something along the lines of "I can't believe that people think just because we are WGs that we are riddled with diseases".
But we are all considered at a "higher risk" because of our occupation. So are men who have sex with men. I'm sure that there are loads of people out there who wouldn't want to have sex with a prostitute cos they don't want to catch anything.
 What I'm getting at is we shouldn't be so quick to make judgements about peoples lifestyle choices. There are plenty making the same judgements about us.

[xw5]

Just to confirm I have nothing against trans/I'm not transphobia, just wondered what people's thoughts were 

Every so (far too) often, we have a post that goes something like 'I'm not racist, but I won't see anyone who's (race)'. It will get more or less politely pointed out to them that discriminating on the grounds of race is the basic definition of racism and while everyone is free to see or not see anyone they like, in this case it'd be good if they owned the label that fits. And then, usually, the thread gets locked.

Here, we have something that didn't quite start off that bad, but got that way via an '.. but my friend is' and some people going 'quite right too'.

Not seeing people who're "a tosser", great! Not seeing people who may have - shock! - seen another escort who's not totally the same as you.. well, as I said recently in another context, if you're basing who you see / what you do on what you're told, the sex you're having isn't as safe as you'd like it to be.

[ladyofthemansion]

Treat every single client like they could have aids then you can't go wrong.

[GothGirl]

Every so (far too) often, we have a post that goes something like 'I'm not racist, but I won't see anyone who's (race)'. It will get more or less politely pointed out to them that discriminating on the grounds of race is the basic definition of racism and while everyone is free to see or not see anyone they like, in this case it'd be good if they owned the label that fits. And then, usually, the thread gets locked.

Here, we have something that didn't quite start off that bad, but got that way via an '.. but my friend is' and some people going 'quite right too'.

Not seeing people who're "a tosser", great! Not seeing people who may have - shock! - seen another escort who's not totally the same as you.. well, as I said recently in another context, if you're basing who you see / what you do on what you're told, the sex you're having isn't as safe as you'd like it to be.

I haven't said anywhere in this thread that I wouldn't see a client that sees Trans. I simply asked what other people's opinions are lol

[amy]

I haven't said anywhere in this thread that I wouldn't see a client that sees Trans. I simply asked what other people's opinions are lol

No you haven't, but if you're not 'othering' trans people then you've basically decided to start a thread which amounts to 'would you see punters who you strongly suspect have seen other prostitutes?' Which would be quite an odd thing to do .

For what it's worth, I would imagine most of the disdain is directed not at you for being asking a question but at the friend you mentioned. There's probably also a fair amount of confusion and disbelief that somebody so monumentally ignorant and lacking any sign of intelligence or critical thinking survived into adulthood without having long since come to grief from poking forks into electric sockets, or something.

[ana30]

I don't date men who have sex with other men or transexuals in my personal life. Maybe that makes me Transforic or gayphobic . It's not soo much the HIV risk it's more the "ick factor", it plainly puts me off (or turns me off). Maybe it's that side of my brain telling me "too much competition girl", I don't know. If a client told me I would be turned off by it. I've ha d a couple of clients tell me they were bisexual and I lost all sexual interest in them, my libido just...dropped. I don't think the OP's question is that outrageous to be honest. And I have nothing against transexuals (god forbid), they're lovely people. In my private life I have transexual, bisexual and gay friends and I love them to bits. I believe Heterosexual womens brains are wired in "certain ways".

[BibiofLeeds]

I'm not 'turned on' by 3 quarters of the clients I see!Shock horror!
I don't really care who they fuck.I care about whether they turn up on time,how they treat me during our time together and that they are showered and pay me my fee.
I'm a heterosexual woman and at least one of my personal life bfs was bisexual,it didn't matter as we were monogamous like I would expect from a straight partner.