Author Topic: What will you do when you give up working in this industry ? Inspirations ?  (Read 3156 times)

Gypsy

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That's really awesome Gypsy.. me too hopefully one day x

Thank you. It's something I have wanted to do for a while.
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Lushblossom

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A client was telling me on Monday he knows of an escort who is 70 and still working.  Good for her eh!

Judyohhh

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Good for her, that is if she wants to.  There are so many women of retirement age who are just barely eeking by.  While I would like to think I'd love to happily be lazing around a beach somewhere, I might be very grateful to have a couple of appointments every now and then, especially trusted regulars. 

Also, I do believe the upper end of the market is going to expand, maybe not by lots, but it will be there.  There used to be a bit to a taboo towards the elderly and sex, but fortunately, it's starting to go away a little (thanks to the viagra ads!).   Hope that the trend continues.

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Yes me too but I thought I would do camming on another site by then too and wear a wig so nobody knows who I am.  Assuming people wish to oggle at senior ladies like that!

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Hello LostHope,

I'm asking myself the same question.

At the moment I'm focusing on learning and practicing Tantra and Reiki.
I'm doing longer sessions only, it does feel more 'healing', human and beneficial than when I was escorting or doing 1-hour massages. I don't have to fake and give that much of myself, I have pretty strict boundaries.

But is it really 'healing' though? I don't know. Despite initial high hopes, I have many doubts at the moment.
During some sessions I still feel like clients treat me as a wanking tool.

I'm thinking of learning a proper massage and other therapeutic bodywork methods.
What interests me is consciousness. Mind - body connection.
It would be good to be able to have knowledge and skills to do something helpful for people.

Your description of your anxiety/ depression pattern sounds like mine.
Sex work also helped me with making a living around this. It eases the pressure.
But I also think that living a double, isolated life adds to depressive feelings.

Taylor

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I have a full time job and ive been escorting on top for nearly ten years.
i cant imagine life with out escorting, i like meeting new people the interaction etc, my civvy job is extremely stressful so i find playing very relaxing. when i do plan to leave the scene i need to find some else i enjoy and i can make extra income from.. not found that something else yet tho..
♥"I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." Marilyn Monroe♥

meetingdiversity

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Do all the things I missed out on, making them a priority planning my future.

nemature

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Well I have enrolled on a uni course this year (not open university but a local one) I looked at the amount of time I had to be in lectures and found that I can easily do the 8 hours a week of lectures/tutorial and still escort!
I do not think I will ever give up escorting fully but a uni course gives me mental stimulation, contact with a varied age group and also (strangely enough) allows me to apply for student finance to fund the course (pay back at 6% of anything you earn over 21000) so I thought throw caution to the wind and go for it

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Well I have enrolled on a uni course this year (not open university but a local one) I looked at the amount of time I had to be in lectures and found that I can easily do the 8 hours a week of lectures/tutorial and still escort!

Good luck with your course  :)

Oh yes you will manage 8hrs no problem, although don't forget it will be more than that as that is just the lecture time. For example my course had 18-21 hours of lecture time but the course was 35 hours per week. And I'm sure I was actually doing more than that.

So make sure you set aside some time each day for homework, essays etc.

meetingdiversity

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Reach the best I can as myself not as an escort.

tskatie

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Some interesting reading. Like many I've come into this just for the money, well the sex too I guess lol. It's not that I can't get a job, I can, eventhough my social status makes it more difficult than most, and of course being in the situation where I'm about to leave my full time job due to ill helth.

Trouble is, I need money and lots of it, more than a normal 9-5 job can provide. As a trans woman who started her 2nd transition just over 5 years ago, I need money for various types of surgery, voice feminisation, facial surgeries etc, I guess the list could go on... Who doesn't need money, right? I had my bottom surgery just over 8 months ago and I feel that now my physical body is all in the right place there's a lot of years for me to catch up on, this is where the sex comes in lol. I've been on AW for the last 3 years but wasn't until last week that I had my first physical client, the sex was great for both of us, my first time too since surgery so yeah, sex was amazing :) so I do kinda like this type of work.

But in terms of what to do when I eventually leave, let's face it, we can't look like spring chickens forever, unless we're Cher or Gladys Knight. So there comes a time when we have to give up anyway, plan for our retirements. For me I think money would be put aside for property investments/development, it's always going to be a growth market and there's always going to be a shortage of good properties and ample amounts of run down properties you can buy on the cheap at auction. Even if I don't go into property then it'll be something else that will cover my retirement and leave behind for someone else.
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Good luck with your course  :)

Oh yes you will manage 8hrs no problem, although don't forget it will be more than that as that is just the lecture time. For example my course had 18-21 hours of lecture time but the course was 35 hours per week. And I'm sure I was actually doing more than that.

So make sure you set aside some time each day for homework, essays etc.

Thank You Caledonia. When I mentioned 8 hours I was actually meaning that I could manage to have 8 hours a week where I had not chance of working, I can then work the personal study etc into my week as I can be flexible with the time needed for this

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It's very encouraging to read all the ladies plans.

I started whoring when I was in my 50's and stopped for health reasons when I was 61 so I didn't have many years to think about when I "retired".

I have never been very far away though for I still from time to time do phone chat and IM on AW and I also sell online so plenty to keep me going.

I'm now officially an OAP. I just made the lower age of 63 retrial by a few weeks so I was lucky that way.

I hope all the ladies who have posted manage to fulfil their hopes and aspirations.

TC x😀
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Escorting for me is something I do for fun (genuinely) and to make extra money.

I am studying (holidays now) and I also have my own business without going into details it is in the hair and beauty industry and when I completely retire I will be focusing on getting my business even further. It is currently only online, but I wish to open a salon and expand and things!

I escort very part time and only see around 3 clients a week, I work three days on outcalls. When I do incalls I see about 4 clients in a day and space them out very well this is what keeps me "fresh" less jaded and I genuinely enjoy most of my bookings, most of my bookings are also 2 hours plus and most are regulars, I very rarely take on new clients anymore unless I 100% feel that they are genuine. Being stalked, and having a few shitty experiences mean I stick with regulars much more.

I'm currently on a break, so I can go away, work, enjoy life, and come back and hopefully provide incalls in August then back to studies in September which means I'll have less availability. The money I have made from escorting, I have saved pretty much 80% of it, I'm 23 and want to move out in the next year or so, and get my first car and I have the money for this already.
I do tend to go on holidays a lot as I love being away but apart from that I don't go out that much, and try not to shop too much lol! I used to be so bad with money when I first started and was spending it on student nights and shoes and bags, but I stopped very quickly lol!

Apart from the few shit experiences I've had I absolutely love this job and enjoy making my clients happy, it's going to be hard to fully retire but I will do very soon, and will probably keep a handful of regulars just for regular income.

I also hope all you ladies achieve everything you wish to aswell! xxx
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Caledonia

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Thank You Caledonia. When I mentioned 8 hours I was actually meaning that I could manage to have 8 hours a week where I had not chance of working, I can then work the personal study etc into my week as I can be flexible with the time needed for this

Ah got you. Well good luck with it anyway  :)