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GothGirl

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Lost all my patience with stupid texts
« on: 09 July 2017, 02:06:52 am »
I'm usually quite good with dealing with idiotic texts, but recently I have absolutely NO patience.

Received one earlier 'hey bbz u free?'

I ignored it for obvious reasons. He then text again with just a 'wink face' - shortly after spewing in my own mouth, I simply replied with one word - 'vile' , then blocked  >:(

Then tonight, somebody text me at 1am, asking for an outcall, ?30 below my rate ???? I replied - 'I'm sorry have you misread my rates?' He replied - 'yh sorry babe can you come now??' My reply ... 'No'.

Can't handle much more of these texts :FF

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Re: Lost all my patience with stupid texts
« Reply #1 on: 09 July 2017, 10:01:38 am »
My patience is at an all time low so I know how you feel.

I make it very clear on my profile that texts get deleted. I've now started hanging up on clients who start off with 'hi babe and 'where are you' too.

I just have no patience now.

Just concentrate on your lovely, genuine clients and put the others out your mind and don't be tempted to respond to texts. These guys thrive on attention, negative or otherwise.

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Re: Lost all my patience with stupid texts
« Reply #2 on: 09 July 2017, 10:04:17 am »
I've had several rude enquiries recently. A couple by text, one by AW email, another on the phone and a regular who has pushed too far.

I'm angry and sad at the same time.

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Re: Lost all my patience with stupid texts
« Reply #3 on: 09 July 2017, 10:05:30 am »
I received a text on Weds around 1am just giving a guy's name and full address. This was followed half hour later by a "?" and then at 2.30am with "Are you on your way?"

When I got up in the morning I just replied "Are you for real? I'm not fucking Dial A Pizza."

I use an app on my work phone called SMS Signature, a bit like Clipboard, you can have several pre-defined strings of text. So all texts get the same generic response of "Hi there, I'm available today between X and Y, please give me a call to make a booking." If they reply on text then they get one more "Please give me a call to make a booking" and any further texts after that go unanswered.
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SimplySinful

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Re: Lost all my patience with stupid texts
« Reply #4 on: 09 July 2017, 10:57:17 am »
This especially at the weekend when I switch my phone on on a Saturday or Sunday, often find texts sent at stupid o'clock asking am I free/still working. (No at midnight I'm normally tucked up in bed!)

I ignore most of them as replying, whatever you reply only encourages them; and repeat offenders get blocked.  One recently just texted 'Outcall' on a number of occasions for example  ::)

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Re: Lost all my patience with stupid texts
« Reply #5 on: 09 July 2017, 11:07:26 am »
When I got up in the morning I just replied "Are you for real? I'm not fucking Dial A Pizza."

 ;D

I find I'm getting more one word ones.

Best thing to do is just delete them straight away, don't even take it on or let it sit in the phone.

These automatic text reply apps are the right idea, let your phone do it for you. I'm thinking about getting one to cut out the irritation.

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Re: Lost all my patience with stupid texts
« Reply #6 on: 09 July 2017, 11:20:43 am »
If it's something dumb or outside of your hours you aren't obliged to reply and sending replies like 'vile' just encourages aload of abuse imo.
Just delete and block cos they have already screened themselves out with such idiocy.

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Re: Lost all my patience with stupid texts
« Reply #7 on: 09 July 2017, 12:48:10 pm »
Am I the only one that hates the "How are you today?" I replied to one of these today with "Call if you would like to book" and he texted back and said I was rude.
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

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Re: Lost all my patience with stupid texts
« Reply #8 on: 09 July 2017, 12:54:16 pm »
Am I the only one that hates the "How are you today?" I replied to one of these today with "Call if you would like to book" and he texted back and said I was rude.

I haven't had that but he is clearly a time waster. Just don't reply to texts. Problem solved. Unless of course you are one of the many ladies who take text bookings.

I just couldn't cope working that way. I'm showing my age.

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Re: Lost all my patience with stupid texts
« Reply #9 on: 09 July 2017, 01:09:28 pm »
I haven't had that but he is clearly a time waster. Just don't reply to texts. Problem solved. Unless of course you are one of the many ladies who take text bookings.

I just couldn't cope working that way. I'm showing my age.

I have a template reply saying my phone doesn't accept text messages, and this is also on most of my ads. Some do call, sometimes it goes somewhere, sometimes not.

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Re: Lost all my patience with stupid texts
« Reply #10 on: 09 July 2017, 02:53:23 pm »
I am ok with texts straight to the point.
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

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Re: Lost all my patience with stupid texts
« Reply #11 on: 09 July 2017, 07:52:45 pm »
I don't have a problem with taking bookings via text.I can screen pretty well and either way they have to call when at my landmark.
A text saying 'Hi Bibi,Could I come to see you today at 2pm for an hour for a GFE,Thankyou,Mark' gets a booking.U free?or How much for 30 mins? Don't get booked in.

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Re: Lost all my patience with stupid texts
« Reply #12 on: 09 July 2017, 08:34:09 pm »
If I receive a stupid text which deserves ignoring and then a follow up which just has    ?

I have been known to respond with just a full stop. I like to confuse the confused.

SimplySinful

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Re: Lost all my patience with stupid texts
« Reply #13 on: 09 July 2017, 09:05:35 pm »
If I receive a stupid text which deserves ignoring and then a follow up which just has    ?

I have been known to respond with just a full stop. I like to confuse the confused.

Haha.  I did exactly that, only not with a normal text, it was an AW 2-Way SMS.

Now it's pretty clear that I offer sensual GFE (and no PSE at all) so hence the text below got the FULL STOP experience:

Hello gorgeous I hope you're keeping well are you into receiving rough sex Xxxx

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Re: Lost all my patience with stupid texts
« Reply #14 on: 09 July 2017, 09:23:42 pm »
Haha.  I did exactly that, only not with a normal text, it was an AW 2-Way SMS.

Now it's pretty clear that I offer sensual GFE (and no PSE at all) so hence the text below got the FULL STOP experience:

Hello gorgeous I hope you're keeping well are you into receiving rough sex Xxxx

Sometimes I see those texts and think to myself "I'd like my smart phone to be really smart" and just deal with this shit.