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samcas

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Accidental orgasm - anyone else?
« on: 14 September 2017, 08:20:14 pm »
I had a shocking experience today - I climaxed with a client!!

I'm not someone who easily orgasms. My best big Os are self induced.To be totally honest I have not orgasmed with a partner for at least 12 years. I got close in my early days of escorting with a hunk of a guy who was brilliant at giving oral - but i never actually got to the tipping point.

I have been with many clients who wanted me to cum and even got difficult about it - but I can't orgasm if there is any pressure for me to do so and I can't fake it. I usually need a lot of patient and careful clit stim to get to the point of O - and clients are useless at this

The client who did it today was not good looking but I'd seen him a couple of times before and i knew he was good at missionary shagging - he just had the rhythm, angle, size and hardness just right to give me a full on g-spot wow. Not only was it my first eScort orgasm, but my first one just from penetration - I have never cum just through penetrative sex before.

The strange thing was that I did not let him know it happend. I think he felt my contractions and I felt hot and shaky afterwards - he thought I was unwell and wanted to know if I was OK.

I wonder if it will ever happen again.

Is the big O unusual for escorts??

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Re: Accidental orgasm - anyone else?
« Reply #1 on: 14 September 2017, 10:17:23 pm »
I only ever orgasm with a vibrator and the last guy that made me cum with his mouth was nearly 15 years ago!

I had a client yesterday though who nearly did, using his fingers inside me and his mouth together, really fucking good and so close but I think I just stressed but I did finish with my vibe...next time I might see if he can do it but I think his tongue was tiring!

I don't expect to cum with clients as I find it hard anyway but awesome that you did!

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« Reply #2 on: 14 September 2017, 10:42:13 pm »
I had 'Lucky No. 5 ' Today!

That's the 5th man ever I've had an orgasm with in my entire life so love this thread.

That's 2 guys in my private life and 3 clients. I was so bloody chuffed and told him so.  But there's no rhyme nor reason to my lack of orgasms.

I am referring to orgasms through penetration though. I can bring myself off easy enough but it's not so intense.

He was, in fact, the perfect fuck  ;D

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Re: Accidental orgasm - anyone else?
« Reply #3 on: 14 September 2017, 11:15:59 pm »
I must be lucky as plenty of clients make me cum. My fave client makes me cum almost every time.

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« Reply #4 on: 14 September 2017, 11:28:07 pm »
If a client has good technique with oral I'll always cum, as I can just lie back and fantasise about something else. Kind of a glorified masturbatory device if you will.

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« Reply #5 on: 14 September 2017, 11:45:52 pm »
I don't know how old you are, but things can change (usually for the better) as you get older. I always orgasmed easily, but not through penetration until I was about 41. It was with a VWE partner, so I assumed it was a one-off, but my next partner was smaller and I still cum every time through penetration, and have with every partner since. I also now come just from nipple play, and the handful of times I've done it (only lost my A cherry in January) through anal as well.

I think a lot of it is psychological, about feeling relaxed, not bothered what you look like, just letting your body go etc.
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Re: Accidental orgasm - anyone else?
« Reply #6 on: 15 September 2017, 10:06:05 am »
Oddly, I find it easier to orgasm when I don't really care whether I do or not so with clients- if they are doing the right thing I can come but I have been in relationships and struggled coming because I want to come with them so start thinking about it and then it doesn't happen!

Following on from what Kay said, I have also found the older I get the better sex gets and my orgasms have got better (stronger) in the last couple of years with clients and other half- I'm in my early 40's.

I know some escorts refuse to let themselves come for real with clients but to me it's been a perk of the job! :)

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« Reply #7 on: 15 September 2017, 10:24:26 am »
Oddly, I find it easier to orgasm when I don't really care whether I do or not so with clients- if they are doing the right thing I can come but I have been in relationships and struggled coming because I want to come with them so start thinking about it and then it doesn't happen!

I find exactly the same. I think if I feel invested in having an orgasm then it makes it much harder for me to actually have one.

When I first started I had a lot of orgasms with clients but I think part of it was the novelty of being with so many different guys. Now it's more unusual, but I reckon it's still about 25% of my bookings.
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« Reply #8 on: 15 September 2017, 10:35:36 am »
I had my first of only 3 penetrative only orgasms just a couple of years ago and with 2 different clients. I got a real shock as always thought it would never work with me.  No civvy man has ever even come close to this with me with penetration only.

My first orgasm with a client through oral as it is rare with fingers only was at least a year after I began escorting but since then I have had hundreds of climaxes.  Often with the older or less attractive men who just seem to get it right.  I have enough confidence now though to tell them I want my legs here or there etc when they think they know best while trying to make me cum.  If they really want me to I often do as can manipulate it for my own pleasure.

I do fake it with some men as it is a harmless thing to do and just makes them feel good.

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« Reply #9 on: 15 September 2017, 02:34:46 pm »
I have never had an orgasm through penetration its only ever happened with clitoris stimulation.

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« Reply #10 on: 15 September 2017, 02:50:16 pm »
I almost always orgasm through oral with clients, regardless of how good or bad their technique is. If they're at it long enough it'll happen 99.9% of the time. They seem to think it's down to their "mind blowing" oral skills when it really is not lol! But I let them believe their own thoughts.

I've only orgasmed once through penetration with a client and it was a gorgeous guy who was only three years older than me, we got on like a house on fire and liked the same things, the sex was unreal so everything felt natural and it just happened. I highly doubt it will ever happen with the older mature clients, in my experience they tend to badger on about me orgasming and seem to confuse me being really wet with me cumming which I find really funny. That alone will put pressure on me and it won't happen.

One of my regulars is 63 and when we have sex he always thinks I'm "gushing" just because I happen to get really really wet when I have sex. I don't even bother telling him how wrong he is, I just let him carry on lol!

I have faked penetrative orgasms with many clients, mostly the older ones who will keep saying "are you going to cum" I'll put on my best performance and it always does the job.

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« Reply #11 on: 16 September 2017, 12:03:38 pm »
I used to get quite horrified when the ones i wasnt remotely attracted to made me come. Years later, I embrace them when I can, shut my eyes and get imaginative ;D
Through repeated bashing and mauling over the years, my poor clitoris toughened up somewhat and now I can take up to 20 mins to orgasm. Even on my own.
Mind you it also makes a tedious booking fly by, when the poor bugger is determined to make me orgasm and spends his time getting jaw ache and sore tongue  ::)
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Re: Accidental orgasm - anyone else?
« Reply #12 on: 16 September 2017, 03:21:00 pm »
The first time I had an orgasm perpetrated by another person was with a client, in a booking at the ripe old age of 33.

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« Reply #13 on: 25 September 2017, 02:03:28 pm »
I have several regulars who I normally orgasm with, feel a bit let down and disappointed if I don't.

With new and one off clients it is obviously more hit and miss but it happens quite often and is a nice bonus when it does.

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« Reply #14 on: 29 September 2017, 09:55:56 pm »
I've orgasmed with a good few clients actually - sometimes because I'm thinking of someone else rather than them - but it's an orgasm still!  ;D