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sweetshycanada

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So screwed :( not literally!
« on: 21 September 2017, 05:25:17 am »
So im told it's absolutely nothing, 100% recovery, but even the words "pre-stage" can't take all the sting out of hearing the word cancer. Pre-stage cervical cancer, totally treatable,  I just have to abstain from sex for 3 weeks after the treatment! Umhhh... my kids kinda like to eat?! It's not like I can apply for workmen's comp?! I've known since June but there is just never going to be a good time to take 3 weeks off.

AmericanFlyer

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Re: So screwed :( not literally!
« Reply #1 on: 21 September 2017, 05:28:45 am »
Of course, there are lots of kinds of sex that you could still do...

DaisyDuck

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Re: So screwed :( not literally!
« Reply #2 on: 21 September 2017, 06:13:45 am »
I know what you mean.

You'll be OK.

And you can offer alternative services to penetration. Do you have toys and uniforms? Big up role play and fetish. Sell your oral services as something special. Shared showers? Anything you can emphasise that's a bit different... quite a few clients don't necessarily want penetration.

sammy s

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Re: So screwed :( not literally!
« Reply #3 on: 21 September 2017, 08:23:28 am »
Could you do naked massage at a reduced rate with a happy ending? Quite a few of my clients book just for a massage, usually the older ones who struggle to get an erection for sex

Pretty Pink

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Re: So screwed :( not literally!
« Reply #4 on: 21 September 2017, 02:41:27 pm »
Iv had treatment for that twice, 2nd time I had the whole surface of my cervix lasered. I told the lady I definately can't go without sex for 3 weeks and she said if I really must then use condoms as they are sterile (which of course I do at work) I went to the docs faking BV, got a course of metronidazole and I was back at work 5 days later with a sterile sponge.

Not going to lie I wouldnt recommend it I felt SO vulnerable although no pain and no infection, I did avoid sex at all costs though sometimes I couldn't.

Hope your ok

LotusFlower

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Re: So screwed :( not literally!
« Reply #5 on: 21 September 2017, 07:54:14 pm »
You dont have to tell your clients the reason why, but you'd be surprised at the amount who arent that fussed about the sex part. I had something similar and most of my regs were fine without the sex.

I also trained and starting offering tantric massage.