Bed as a workspace?

[samcas]

I live and work from a small one bed flat - so my real bedroom is my work bedroom. My set way of entertaining clients is to put a thick velour throw over my bed and put fresh towels on that.
Last week I had a guy in who said that he did not want to do it on a bed and wanted to do the whole thing on my sofa - so I put a towel on the sofa and we had some fun there. He wanted the TV on and spent most of the time fingering me whilst telling me about his ex wife. Seemed odd to me.
Then today, I had a guy in who took one look at the towel on the throw and said he would not be comfortable and wanted to "get under the covers" with me. I said no way - that is my private bed under there and you are not getting in it. I think I upset him a bit because he could barely get hard and did not come.
Does anyone see a market for not on top of the bed based sex (apart from car meets and dogging which are defo not my thing).
Sammy

[SimplySinful]

Well my normal place has a separate bedroom just for work, however when I tour....then it's usually a 1 bed.  I have never had a guy complain that I put a cover on over the bed, if they did tough tough!

I really wouldn't worry too much about it, sounds like you just had a couple of awkward guys, that's all.

[ShaineXX]

Hi

I know about working from your bedroom, however, I daily removed my pillows and the duvet before covering the bed with a thick throw + pillows then at bedtime dress it back as normal.
( this way of working didn't give away that I lived there because the room was kept sterile and it was the first room to see when entering the flat  )

 I never had any issues so perhaps what you could do is to move your bedding into your living room or closet then cover the mattress as you already do and proceed as you are.

There's a market for you because that's how I did it when I had my flat not so long ago and I worked like this for years without a any issues.

Regards,

[Mirror]

A few clients do like to get under the covers, and I do recommend having a separate work room.

[Alison381]

I work from my own bed. I take the pillows off, put a throw on and chuck a couple of cushions on it.... If the guys dont like that then as others have said, though!

[Iloveginandtonic]

When I worked from home, it was a studio apartment.
I would use completely different bedding (duvet and pillows)  and put a throw on top.
This always worked well and no one ever tried to crawl into the bed 


I had a handful of clients who wanted to make use of the sofa.

[Anais]

Like others have said, I used to take my duvet and pillows off.

I then used a bedspread and other pillows. I never had any complaints but tough if they did.

I think some men just want the moon and the stars. A separate bedroom is obviously preferable but we don't all have that luxury.

It was no different than it is now in the hotels I use as a touring escort in that it is a bedroom. It never bothered me that it was MY bed though.

[meetingdiversity]

I have a separate room for bookings and if they are not happy and want to get under the quilt. I say they can do that at home. If a reg I allow on a rare occasion.

Most are happy with getting thier horn on.

[Mirror]

Like others have said, I used to take my duvet and pillows off.

I then used a bedspread and other pillows. I never had any complaints but tough if they did.

I think some men just want the moon and the stars. A separate bedroom is obviously preferable but we don't all have that luxury.

It was no different than it is now in the hotels I use as a touring escort in that it is a bedroom. It never bothered me that it was MY bed though.

Some hotels have 2 x double or 1 single + 1 x double bed rooms at the same price as a standard double. Always worth looking out for.

[Lucie268]

Yeah that's asking far too much tbh I'd say no if anyone wanted to get under the covers.

[Jessiegirl]

I work from a separate flat from my home so not a problem for me although most clients are happy on top of the sheets. Some of my clients like doing it on the sofa and I don't mind too.

[mature helen]

Had a couple over the years pull back my duvet and inside I'm thinking WTF?
I ask them 'What are you doing?' and they are 'oh I thought it would make the GFE more realistic being under the covers' I say no its on top of the bed and on top of the throw.
Men even when washed have a smell and can sweat during sex the last thing I want is them getting into my nice clean bedding and infecting it all with their sweat and odour. 

[Kay]

I don't really mind what we do on the bed (though if they move to get under the covers it does freak me out a bit...); however, I won't do anything in e.g. my living room, bar a post-coital tea and chat, and that's very rare.

[Lady_Lust_XXX]

I'm with others who suggest two lots of bedding. Your personal set and your working set. Then at least you won't feel they are touching your personal stuff.