Birmingham abnormal amount of no shows and cancellations this week

[SimplySinful]

This is my first time in Brum in years and probably my last.

The quality of enquiries is abysmal.  I?ve had 2 No Shows (one I expected) and the standard line is ?is everything included?, what do they mean by everything for a start.

Well it just shows nearly all of them haven?t read any part of my profile, website, or even the basics on my Backpage Ad.

I?ve had hardly any genuine bookings, and I cannot wait to leave!

And 2 cancellations in 5 minutes!

One I?d seen before and I pointed out to him when he tried to book 2 hours that last time (only last week) he?d left early and asked for money back which I didn?t give him, booked an hour, and 10 minutes later texted to cancel.
 
One who I agreed to see at short notice, called back to cancel since he hadn?t noticed I didn?t offer OWO

 
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[Erotic Masseuse]

And 2 cancellations in 5 minutes!

One I?d seen before and I pointed out to him when he tried to book 2 hours that last time (only last week) he?d left early and asked for money back which I didn?t give him, booked an hour, and 10 minutes later texted to cancel.
 
One who I agreed to see at short notice, called back to cancel since he hadn?t noticed I didn?t offer OWO

 

Its not always like this, it just seems to be a bad phase at the moment

[Candour]

Its not always like this, it just seems to be a bad phase at the moment

When is it going to get better though 

[SimplySinful]

When is it going to get better though 

I leave tomorrow, first time I?ve been here in 3 years (now I remember why) and it?s about 10 times worse than then 

Long gaps when nobody calls, then all of a sudden a zillion TWs in a row.   

To the point I?m dreading calls and suspicious of everyone calling and even more strict than normal so possibly putting of the odd genuine one 

[Candour]

Yep, I'm having the exact same experience tbh. When I get no shows or TW's (constant texting of bollocks etc) I always block their numbers so they can't contact me again, I've never blocked so many numbers since my time here 

[ParisB]

I like Birmingham and the West Midlands & generally do well
The trick I find is not to take any advance bookings at all .So all my bookings are short notice generally with 30 mins notice
There is absolutly no way on earth I would take advance bookings in Birmingham Heathrow or Leicester in fact most places that I tour its same day short notice bookings only

As I don't go out of the hotel much this suits me fine and I prefer it this way

[SimplySinful]

I like Birmingham and the West Midlands & generally do well
The trick I find is not to take any advance bookings at all .So all my bookings are short notice generally with 30 mins notice
There is absolutly no way on earth I would take advance bookings in Birmingham Heathrow or Leicester in fact most places that I tour its same day short notice bookings only

As I don't go out of the hotel much this suits me fine and I prefer it this way

I didn?t take any advance bookings.

Probably going there the first time in 3 years meant I atttracted an inordinate amount of idiots. But doesn?t really explain why its happening to ladies who are there full time.

Some places just have a terrrible punting culture I?ve found. That?s not to say there aren?t decent clients but they are few and far between.

[Erotic Masseuse]

I do mainly last minute bookings, advanced are too risky, I need to have a reshuffle of my block list so I can fit the recent wave on there. I can go months without any problems then suddenly have a spate of address hunters, phone cloggers and general lonely souls who just want someone to talk to.

[ParisB]

There are TWs Central up and down the country (England and Wales).  Maybe, someone, a veteran escort can draw up a TW League Table.   

There is a thread in here already about which places have the worst for timewasters it was pretty funny

Personally for me

In first place it has to be the Emerald Isle -  Ireland

2nd place Dubai & the Middle East

In joint 3rd place Leicester Birmingham & Heathrow

The one thing I have found personally is that these places all have in common is a deep seated form of Religion

I know that seems a crazy theory but in any places ive worked where you have a strong  religion you have an inordinate amount of time wasters. Way above the usual idiots

That's not to say that other countries and towns don't have Tmewasters but overall I find it's much higher in places that have a more restrictive religion and sex is frowned

I'm probably not explaining what I mean very well 😂

[Gypsy]

There is a thread in here already about which places have the worst for timewasters it was pretty funny

Personally for me

In first place it has to be the Emerald Isle -  Ireland

2nd place Dubai & the Middle East

In joint 3rd place Leicester Birmingham & Heathrow

The one thing I have found personally is that these places all have in common is a deep seated form of Religion

I know that seems a crazy theory but in any places ive worked where you have a strong  religion you have an inordinate amount of time wasters. Way above the usual idiots

That's not to say that other countries and towns don't have Tmewasters but overall I find it's much higher in places that have a more restrictive religion and sex is frowned

I'm probably not explaining what I mean very well 😂

I get you Paris and that is very interesting. Something I hadn't thought of. A lot of girls say the Irish are HUGE timewasters, but every Irish guy I've ever seen has been exceptionally lovely. Maybe that's because I am not in Ireland myself. I've heard Glasgow is bad for TWs but never the Midlands before cos it's such a wide area. Threads like this put me off touring in a huge way as I work from home so everything is profit for me.

[sweetmilf]

Fascinating, Paris.   

Once I had an Irish guy (they are charmers, I have known a few in civvie life over the years).  He then expected me to hang around, waiting for him without a booking time.     I said, no.  Which escort ever waited for a punter, who didn't even know sure what time to start a booking? I assume that once someone automatically expects an abnormal amount of "goodwill", he is just as time wasting as regular TWs. 

[ParisB]

Don't get me wrong I love the Irish clients and I worked in Ireland loads but my experience is that places that are deeply  religious  =  a higher percentage of time wasters 😂

The only reason that I haven't been to Ireland for years is because I lost my Irish phone and can't face dealing with the TW again - I don't have the strength or the faith

[sweetmilf]

Thank you for sharing that, Paris.  I will keep that in mind.  Now what you posted explained my own experiences to a tee.   I never looked at Birmingham from that perspective but it all makes sense.

[Erotic Masseuse]

Don't get me wrong I love the Irish clients and I worked in Ireland loads but my experience is that places that are deeply  religious  =  a higher percentage of time wasters 😂

The only reason that I haven't been to Ireland for years is because I lost my Irish phone and can't face dealing with the TW again - I don't have the strength or the faith

Mentioned this to a muslim client this morning, saying maybe their concience pricks them, he laughed and said that has happened with him many times, he was anewbie, so you may have a fair point here.

[ParisB]

Mentioned this to a muslim client this morning, saying maybe their concience pricks them, he laughed and said that has happened with him many times, he was anewbie, so you may have a fair point here.

lol ,  that's funny maybe I am on to something and not just talking out of my ass 😂
 it's just something I have noticed over time and in certain areas & countries

Religion is pretty powerful and I guess it's not something a person can just shrug off and forget about
I suppose if you grew up in a strict religious community or family then their is probably always a little voice saying to them  while having a BJ " this is an immortal sin , you will go to hell , or something along those lines