Birmingham abnormal amount of no shows and cancellations this week

[Leilaa]

I don't think it's thier conscious that ticks at them and I'm saying this being indian myself so I get the mentality. It's more because they just downright twats some of them. They do loads of things outside religion so that's no reason. The simple answer is some of them are just fantasists and don't like 'paying'. They know it's a wrong thing to do and that gives them the thrill but they don't like forking out cash. Most tend to be very shrewd and like to save the pennies so then they will either try and haggle, try and get it for free  (Yes I've had this) or just waste time as they think it's funny.


I had one Asian  man call me and talk for an hour about how he wanted a 'mistress' how he would spoil her any buy her gifts and so on. When I told him about the price his voice suddenly dropped. I think he thought he was doing me a favour!!! Most have the fantasy but don't like paying for it hence they get a thrill by wasting time.

[Erotic Masseuse]

It was more the religiious aspect we were pointing out, not the race/ethnicity.

[Candour]

Sorry, I just need to moan. Two no-shows in a row...wtf is wrong with these guys in this city 

[little-minx]

I've had enough with these guys today I really have.  In about seven months I must have had about three maybe four no shows maximum.  These last few weeks what is going on?  It's constant idiots.  Maybe they know I'm leaving soon and are trying to wind me up.  Just had one guy, with four positive AW fbs.  Contacted me at 5pm asking for a an hour at 6pm.  Then called and asked to change it to 6.30pm.  Changed it (this would then take up the rest of my evening so no space for any other bookings).  Then get a TEXT (not even the courtesy to call), 14 minutes before the appointment "I've put petrol in my diesel car I won't be able to make it on time" I messaged back "how late will you be?" he would have been my last appointment so had plenty of time to wait for him.  Hasn't even bothered to respond.  I'm getting so fed up with it if he doesn't come back to me with a proper apology I'm leaving a negative on his AW it's not on.  I get the impression that he's double booked me. 

[MsLadyV87]

There is a thread in here already about which places have the worst for timewasters it was pretty funny

Personally for me

In first place it has to be the Emerald Isle -  Ireland

2nd place Dubai & the Middle East

In joint 3rd place Leicester Birmingham & Heathrow

The one thing I have found personally is that these places all have in common is a deep seated form of Religion

I know that seems a crazy theory but in any places ive worked where you have a strong  religion you have an inordinate amount of time wasters. Way above the usual idiots

That's not to say that other countries and towns don't have Tmewasters but overall I find it's much higher in places that have a more restrictive religion and sex is frowned

I'm probably not explaining what I mean very well 😂

For sure got to agree Leicester is high up there! Been a rubbish week so far and got a feeling its going to be a rubbish day too. Calls/texts have died down so much, even barely any calls in the middle of the night. What is going on?? Not just a problem in my area but all over. Kinda makes sense about the religion thing though 

[little-minx]

Given the guy I mentioned above a negative on AW.  First time I've ever done it.  But to text saying he's can't make it on time 14 minutes before he was due, after already putting the appointment back by half an hour (taking up the rest of my evening), then not bothering to show or even respond to my text (it's now almost 24 hours later) I think it was well deserved.  Worried I'm going to get one back but if it means him learning a lesson I don't care! 

Do you guys agree I did the right thing?

[MsLadyV87]

Given the guy I mentioned above a negative on AW.  First time I've ever done it.  But to text saying he's can't make it on time 14 minutes before he was due, after already putting the appointment back by half an hour (taking up the rest of my evening), then not bothering to show or even respond to my text (it's now almost 24 hours later) I think it was well deserved.  Worried I'm going to get one back but if it means him learning a lesson I don't care! 

Do you guys agree I did the right thing?

You were more than fair. The way I see it, with people 'running late' is should be treated the same as if it was a 'normal' everyday appointment, hey if your late then highly unlikely you wont be seen. So why would it be any different? I am trying to stick to a 30min rule. if not there at the most 30mins after the agreed time, then I wont see them. Personally I think that is more than fair, as there are genuine cases who really are running late and keep you updated, that is fair enough but some will just simply mess you around.

Think you did the right thing to leave negative feedback, you were just being honest and it helps other escorts when looking at feedback. Hope things get better for you hun xx

[little-minx]

You were more than fair. The way I see it, with people 'running late' is should be treated the same as if it was a 'normal' everyday appointment, hey if your late then highly unlikely you wont be seen. So why would it be any different? I am trying to stick to a 30min rule. if not there at the most 30mins after the agreed time, then I wont see them. Personally I think that is more than fair, as there are genuine cases who really are running late and keep you updated, that is fair enough but some will just simply mess you around.

Think you did the right thing to leave negative feedback, you were just being honest and it helps other escorts when looking at feedback. Hope things get better for you hun xx

Thanks nice to know I wasn't over reacting.  Think his Plan A came through so he ditched me last minute.  So rude if the shoe was on the other foot and we cancelled on them with 14 minutes notice we'd have terrible reputations. 

[SimplySinful]

Given the guy I mentioned above a negative on AW.  First time I've ever done it.  But to text saying he's can't make it on time 14 minutes before he was due, after already putting the appointment back by half an hour (taking up the rest of my evening), then not bothering to show or even respond to my text (it's now almost 24 hours later) I think it was well deserved.  Worried I'm going to get one back but if it means him learning a lesson I don't care! 

Do you guys agree I did the right thing?

He deserves the negative, he totally behaved like a disrespectful twat, and it?s good to warn other ladies so that they knew and can avoid these idiots.

[little-minx]

He deserves the negative, he totally behaved like a disrespectful twat, and it?s good to warn other ladies so that they knew and can avoid these idiots.

Thanks, you know you just get that little bit of self doubt and think am I just having a strop here, but I know deep down I'm not.  x

[Erotic Masseuse]

You were more than fair, I have a bunch of online bookings that booked and didn't even call or arrange to come, I should leave them negatives tbh.

[little-minx]

You were more than fair, I have a bunch of online bookings that booked and didn't even call or arrange to come, I should leave them negatives tbh.

Thank you EM.  It's a hard one as you worry they'll leave a bad one back but I think once you've built up a good reputation you're in the driving seat then because people are less likely to believe the odd spiteful negative back if they decide to be d***s. Just thought well if giving him a negative makes him think twice before doing it to another escort, or another escort doesn't have her time wasted by him then I've done the right thing.  Haven't heard anything from him since!  Deleted the booking so not sure if he's disputed it or not but not bothered either way. 

[Kay1996]

This is my first time working in Birmingham and never again! Today I've had 6 no-shows and it's only half 3pm! Haven't seen anybody today! Never had a day like this before, it's a joke.

[Guiltypleasure]

I don't think I'd ever go , it just keeps coming up all the time