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What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« on: 07 October 2017, 05:41:36 pm »
I've been escorting about a year but only just started showing my number on my profile so maybe this is why I am having a lot of bellends contact me at the moment.

Had someome call the other day. "How long would you like?"
"30 mins"
"And what kind of thing are you looking for."
"Erm...full."
"I don't know what that means, what services would you like?"
"Ok Er, anal...water Sports?"
"You want anal and watersports in a 30 min booking in an hours time?"

He didn't even know the correct price so I said, no I won't be taking your booking then he sent me some abuse Afterwards.

Also cancelled a booking when someone (who had the postcode) text 10 mins before the booking saying 'I need the address.' Apparently because it was a long Road he didn't have the common sense to just pull up in a safe place (it's residential with a pub and a parade of shops) and text/ring to say he'd arrived and then I could have given him further instructions. He could tell I was pissed off on the phone whoops so we didn't go through with it.

Am I overly sensitive? (I know I am in general haha but what puts other people off taking bookings?)

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #1 on: 07 October 2017, 06:06:47 pm »
What's put me off?

If they can't follow my rules about booking.
It's basically starts when they can't even introduce themself :FF

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #2 on: 07 October 2017, 06:34:02 pm »
Also cancelled a booking when someone (who had the postcode) text 10 mins before the booking saying 'I need the address.' Apparently because it was a long Road he didn't have the common sense to just pull up in a safe place (it's residential with a pub and a parade of shops) and text/ring to say he'd arrived and then I could have given him further instructions. He could tell I was pissed off on the phone whoops so we didn't go through with it.

With this one scenario I'd be forgiving. I'd also tell them in advance "It's X road, you can park on this road or on Y road the next one down, just call me when you're parked and I'll give you my door number." However if he was insistent on getting the door number in advance of arrival it would put me off and I'd probably cancel like you did.

The main reason I cancel bookings is that they are ok on the phone but then text me a load of shit after the call. Do you do this, do you do that, yeah I read on your profile you don't but you'll do it with me right? LOL no fuck off bitch.
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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #3 on: 07 October 2017, 07:19:11 pm »
 ;D today i canceled a booking because he ask if we can take a coffee afterwards....LOL  :o :o overstay for sure!
hopefully after 10 mins i got a booking from a lovely regular for 2hrs.....
So....depend..
if it is pushy, if change a lot time/day, if it is not nice by email or over the phone, if it is not a Gentleman!

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #4 on: 07 October 2017, 07:21:37 pm »
When someone calls and leaves long pauses after everything I say and goes 'hmm right...'

or just sound downright miserable over the phone! Some sound like they are ringing a complaints hotline sometimes. Maybe I am the one who is oversensitive but I just feel like they are going to be timewasters or a bit dodgy (and not very pleasant company :-X) I always answer cheerily and politely to put any doubts at ease as best I can but maybe it's scepticism on their part but either way it just puts me off. Most are very pleasant sounding and just get on with booking me.

Not even face to face and its already getting awkward over the phone just puts me off saying yes.
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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #5 on: 07 October 2017, 07:45:59 pm »
Start off ok then start asking stupid  questions then says they want to make a booking not sure what time after saying i like to see you today when are you free ?
I'm.not paid for their indecivive nonsense !
Nor do I sit in all day waiting for these men to just turn up
I tell them I have bookings  then put phone down it just irritates me . You either want to book or you dobt .

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #6 on: 07 October 2017, 10:59:34 pm »
Things that put me off taking bookings (bearing I'm mind I only take them via AW currently):
1) zero feedback/negative feedback/hidden feedback
2) asking questions which are answered on my profile
3) text speak
4) 'u free hun'
5) in fact any message addressing me as hun/huni/babe/love
6) trying to add in extra requests at the last minute
7) asking for stuff I don't do
8 ) overly long, flowery messages (never lead to a booking)
9) rudeness/aggression
10) aliases of people I've previously blocked

When I used to take phone bookings I had numerous other red flags too  ;D

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #7 on: 08 October 2017, 10:52:10 pm »
The main other reason I'll decline a booking is when they ask me for a load of stuff they want, e.g. anal, watersports, do I squirt, etc, and when I say no, they want to book anyway. When I've accepted this sort of booking in the past it's always ended up being a boundary pushing nightmare. Clearly anal/WS/whatever are important to you in your booking so why not book an escort that offers these? No, just turn up and see me and then think you're going to be able to "persuade" me during the booking. WRONG.
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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #8 on: 08 October 2017, 11:55:27 pm »
My number is not on AW so I believe that does eliminate the majority of tws as I used to display it and got loads of idiot calls.  If I answer a call and the first thing I hear is hi darlin I instantly put him on block in my mind and keep the call as short as possible. Not seeing anyone who is so flippant on the phone, it spells fake to me.

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #9 on: 09 October 2017, 12:44:47 am »
If they can't contact me like a normal human being politely and let me know what they are looking for when they want to see me how long they want to see me for and a bit about themselves I won't see them. If when I ask them what they are looking for they sound crude or creepy I won't see them. And if they don't speak good english or message me in text language I won't see them. I don't have time for idiotic people and I wouldn't want to be shagging a mute so my booking procedure is in place and indeed is very helpful!
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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #10 on: 09 October 2017, 08:22:35 am »
The main other reason I'll decline a booking is when they ask me for a load of stuff they want, e.g. anal, watersports, do I squirt, etc, and when I say no, they want to book anyway. When I've accepted this sort of booking in the past it's always ended up being a boundary pushing nightmare. Clearly anal/WS/whatever are important to you in your booking so why not book an escort that offers these? No, just turn up and see me and then think you're going to be able to "persuade" me during the booking. WRONG.


See I get this as well and I've been lucky so far. Sometimes I've accepted (if they haven't then asked another 100 things that I clearly don't actually offer) and they have been fine but I always think that most are going to try their luck anyway.
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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #11 on: 09 October 2017, 09:34:23 am »

See I get this as well and I've been lucky so far. Sometimes I've accepted (if they haven't then asked another 100 things that I clearly don't actually offer) and they have been fine but I always think that most are going to try their luck anyway.

i met in the past punter they like Alevel...and i say no to it...
i ask if they are happy without and i never had issue.
but if they listening a lot of services that i do not provide..i do not accept a booking.

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #12 on: 09 October 2017, 12:06:25 pm »
When a they clearly haven't read my profile,when they haggle,when they ask for services I don't do,when they ask for bareback,when they come across as smarmy on the phone (lots of 'How are you darling?Your pics are so shexxy baby'...blah blah)when they ring up and don't know my name.
Bad manners i.e not saying hello and launching straight into 'How much is it?'
Trying to sex text after booking or ringing and texting loads after being booked in.Making excuses why they can't phone or text to confirm/get address details when emailing to book.

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« Reply #13 on: 09 October 2017, 12:59:35 pm »
When a they clearly haven't read my profile,when they haggle,when they ask for services I don't do,when they ask for bareback,when they come across as smarmy on the phone (lots of 'How are you darling?Your pics are so shexxy baby'...blah blah)when they ring up and don't know my name.
Bad manners i.e not saying hello and launching straight into 'How much is it?'
Trying to sex text after booking or ringing and texting loads after being booked in.Making excuses why they can't phone or text to confirm/get address details when emailing to book.

Exactly this

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #14 on: 09 October 2017, 01:10:42 pm »
Oh yes and trying to ring/text in the middle of the night usually get's them immediately blocked because it tells me straight away that they have not read my advert/they don't care about disturbing people in the middle of the night and even though I have my phone on silent it tells me they are ignorant and rude.