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Lushblossom

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #15 on: 09 October 2017, 01:54:12 pm »
If they sound overly eager or too insistent then I tend to not see them.

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #16 on: 09 October 2017, 11:03:20 pm »
Anything off with their attitude will make me refuse a booking or cancel - e.g. asking to still be seen if I've said I'm not available, haggling, asking repeatedly for services I don't do, acting entitled, disregarding my booking procedure, trying to get dirty talk beforehand, getting angry when being told 'no' etc. etc.

If they ask for my rates or it's obvious they haven't read my profile I'll refer them back to it and ask them to call back.

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #17 on: 09 October 2017, 11:12:34 pm »
Anything off with their attitude will make me refuse a booking or cancel - e.g. asking to still be seen if I've said I'm not available, haggling, asking repeatedly for services I don't do, acting entitled, disregarding my booking procedure, trying to get dirty talk beforehand, getting angry when being told 'no' etc. etc.

If they ask for my rates or it's obvious they haven't read my profile I'll refer them back to it and ask them to call back.

Same here, and if they ask my rates I often add ?20 on...funny how they suddenly know the rates then haha  ;D

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #18 on: 11 October 2017, 02:13:23 pm »
Anything off with their attitude will make me refuse a booking or cancel - e.g. asking to still be seen if I've said I'm not available, haggling, asking repeatedly for services I don't do, acting entitled, disregarding my booking procedure, trying to get dirty talk beforehand, getting angry when being told 'no' etc. etc.

If they ask for my rates or it's obvious they haven't read my profile I'll refer them back to it and ask them to call back.

All of this! That totally resembles my off-list, depending on the tone/situation its done in I either give one warning and inform them/refer them to my info, or drop the contact immediately.

Plus bareback, requests for bb automatically put any client on my blocked list.

Same here, and if they ask my rates I often add ?20 on...funny how they suddenly know the rates then haha  ;D

Haha, I really like that one and I would consider pulling it off for those types who write asking for my basic info served in the inbox when it is perfectly available on my site and a dozen directories.
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But I do work with a nuance when it comes to asking for prices, I have a feeling that a fair amount of the clients asking, have read my prices and are neither lazy nor timewasting but that they ask to ensure themselves that we agree on the total price. They may be scared of being asked additional cost for services or transport, I actually don't know if extra fees last minute is something that clients experience, but I sense that some are worried about it. So sometimes I'm very forgiving when they ask for prices, depending on our general communication I choose to see it as something professional in fact, a need to know that we agree on the exact price before we make the transaction, if they don't ask for the price I actually always inform them of the total price just before the booking gets confirmed.

In general I feel there is a balance, on one side I will not waste my time on TWers or see clients who are not gentlemen who are able to use 5 minutes on my site, on the other side I also know that some people are just incredibly awkward and unskilled socialisers, who may naively cross some boundaries but really are gentlemen in the bottom with good intentions. Like one of the most magical sessions I had this year, I had a session w a man whom I dominated lightly and fucked in the ass, both things being his first, the session was so passionate that I myself felt like I was flying afterward. The following night he rang me three times in the middle of the night plus send me a bunch o drunken texts wanting to see me. Normally I would be put off by a client calling me at 3 am, but with this one it only made me smile, cause in the context it was very cute and very evident that I rocked his world and he got drunk and lost the inhibitions he would normally have. The next day he sends me a super nice and very embarrassed apology email.

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #19 on: 11 October 2017, 03:49:55 pm »
Yeah same, requests for bareback immediately get blacklisted for me.

There are escorts who have hidden extras so I don't mind when clients confirm prices. But it would make more sense for them to say 'can I check, is it ?x?' instead of asking how much. Usually when they ask how much it's because they've done the ring around and got themselves confused, which I don't mind but I want to make sure they know they've read my profile and they know who exactly it is they're coming to see.

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #20 on: 11 October 2017, 04:13:54 pm »
How many times can I cum in half an hour?
How many times can I cum in 45 minutes?
How many times can I cum in an hour?

That drives me crazy.  I find it so disrespectful as if you're a blow up doll.  My profile even says if you'd like a couple of sessions please book a minimum of 45 minutes.  And then wanting about eight different services in half an hour with a shower either side, then asking if that's included in the time (no I'll just let you hang about for another 15 minutes after the appointment washing your hair).  I know everyone's different and I probably sound like a bitch but I find it much easier to give a good service if I don't feel like I'm ticking off a shopping checklist in my head.  Obviously I like to know a rough idea of that they'd like, but a breakdown of what they want to happen every three seconds just annoying.  I normally say no disrespect but please could you find someone else I don't think we're matched.  Which is true!   

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #21 on: 11 October 2017, 04:42:30 pm »
But I do work with a nuance when it comes to asking for prices, I have a feeling that a fair amount of the clients asking, have read my prices and are neither lazy nor timewasting but that they ask to ensure themselves that we agree on the total price. They may be scared of being asked additional cost for services or transport, I actually don't know if extra fees last minute is something that clients experience, but I sense that some are worried about it.

It's something that many clients have related to me they have experienced. However they also say "I rung up beforehand and asked her if the price included cim and she said yes, but when I got there she said it was an extra ?20" so in this case I don't know what they expect to achieve by asking anyway - they've asked before and been lied to!
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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #22 on: 11 October 2017, 06:28:11 pm »
Pushiness puts me right off, it sets a bad tone right at the start. Like when they ask something and it's a no they offer more money. It was a no before, pal, now fuck right off!

Overly nice / creepy emails that are obviously copied and pasted, do they think we don't know?!

Rudeness or an abrupt way of speaking, manners cost nothing.

Anyone that rings or texts in the middle of the night.

On another note, I find the shorter the booking, the more sex they want! I've had 2 hour bookings with WAY less sex than the half hour cheapskates that want 29 minutes of sucking and fucking! They will also not get a second booking!

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #23 on: 11 October 2017, 07:17:32 pm »
Anyone that doesn't follow my instructions to a tee! If they can't do as I've asked pre booking chances are they'll be pushy and difficult in the booking aswell.
This is particularly apparent when clients message me a couple of days before I arrive at a destination wanting my phone number (I don't display it until I'm in the hotel ready to work). I always explain this but if they come back with 'oh I don't have time to be checking your profile all the time just give it to me now blah blah' they get cancelled right away!

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #24 on: 11 October 2017, 07:47:37 pm »

Overly nice / creepy emails that are obviously copied and pasted, do they think we don't know?!

Rudeness or an abrupt way of speaking, manners cost nothing

Yes this so much. Also when they give themselves a nickname and sign off with it - not like John or bob but 'snowy' - weird. Sometimes I get someone send me the copy and paste message more than once so I'm like 'well I am glad I was right and didn't see them'

Had someone today 'are you free for an outcall? I'd be looking to use your arse?'  Is it really that hard to simply say 'I'd like anal'

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #25 on: 11 October 2017, 08:28:08 pm »
Yes this so much. Also when they give themselves a nickname and sign off with it - not like John or bob but 'snowy' - weird. Sometimes I get someone send me the copy and paste message more than once so I'm like 'well I am glad I was right and didn't see them'

Had someone today 'are you free for an outcall? I'd be looking to use your arse?'  Is it really that hard to simply say 'I'd like anal'

So funny, has happened to me!

And use your arse? What as? A coffee table? A pillow?  ;D

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #26 on: 11 October 2017, 09:56:24 pm »
All of the above! Haha.

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #27 on: 11 October 2017, 10:04:51 pm »
Of course I don't mind GENUINE and polite callers asking to clarify the price before booking. Its often not what is being said its the way its said, the whole attitude and manners thing: self entitled guys wanting me to relay everything that's already written on my profile, behaving as if they're 'interviewing' me or something!!


Another thing which makes me not accept is over 2 hours is mentioned, oh and bareback too.

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #28 on: 12 October 2017, 12:55:38 am »
Of course I don't mind GENUINE and polite callers asking to clarify the price before booking. Its often not what is being said its the way its said, the whole attitude and manners thing: self entitled guys wanting me to relay everything that's already written on my profile, behaving as if they're 'interviewing' me or something!!


Another thing which makes me not accept is over 2 hours is mentioned, oh and bareback too.

Oh my gosh yes - Self entitled divs

Me - All my details is on the site where you got my number from just scroll back up and read.
Div - Can't you read it to me  :FF
Me - All you need to know is all on there do go back and call if you wish to book ( course i know he wont call)
Div - Your so rude

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #29 on: 03 November 2017, 05:37:51 pm »
I've just been thinking about this myself and wondering what puts other people off after they've confirmed a booking.

I've got an advance booking from a new client with no feedback, he's been really nice in the emails. Followed all my instructions so far and I asked him to text me a day before to confirm the booking and I will send over the address that day.

Then today I came home this afternoon and since this morning I've received a text confirming, a second text confirming and also asking for my address and then 5 missed calls throughout the day.

It probably sounds minor but I can't help but feel he's a bit overly eager and showing signs that he might be slightly obsessive. It's made clear to all clients and potential clients that I'm really busy due to other commitments and I pick up emails and messages as and when I can. It's made me feel a tad uncomfortable about seeing him now.