What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?

[honeymoonbarbie]

Those that call me even though my profile says I don't make appointments over the phone.
Those that on the rare ocassion I can and do take phone calls for appointments sound unsure for the whole duration as if I have to convince them to book.
Those that speak over or cut me off on the phone while I'm speaking.
Those that don't introduce themselves and are reluctant to give their names when I ask but make sure to repeatedly ask me to confirm I am who I say I am, I'm the lady in the pictures and they're actually speaking to the person they're going to see.
Those that ask me, a Black British escort to confirm I'm not Eastern European or that I'm actually English/British. (I mean my passport says I am? I have a British accent?)
Those that ask me, an independent escort if there are other 'girls' there.
Those that ask me for face or naughty pictures.
Those that after asking for and recieving a postcode tell me they'll arrive in 20 minutes as if I operate an open door policy or say they'll arrive 'about x time' as if I don't have other bookings to schedule.

[Funkymonkey]

I've just been thinking about this myself and wondering what puts other people off after they've confirmed a booking.

I've got an advance booking from a new client with no feedback, he's been really nice in the emails. Followed all my instructions so far and I asked him to text me a day before to confirm the booking and I will send over the address that day.

Then today I came home this afternoon and since this morning I've received a text confirming, a second text confirming and also asking for my address and then 5 missed calls throughout the day.

It probably sounds minor but I can't help but feel he's a bit overly eager and showing signs that he might be slightly obsessive. It's made clear to all clients and potential clients that I'm really busy due to other commitments and I pick up emails and messages as and when I can. It's made me feel a tad uncomfortable about seeing him now.

I had a someone like this a while ago and it was an outcall so it made me wary. I just said - you don't need to message this much, I will get in touch the day before and you can let me know any requests.

[sweetmilf]

There are men like that.  I'd avoid, very stalkerish. 

[Funkymonkey]

Got someone booked in for next week. Emails me with 'so what toys and outfits do you have?' I say it will probably be easier if he just tells me what he's looking for and I'll let him know.

'I'd like a kinky gfe. Collar, ankle spreaders, wrist restraints, ball gag, anal hook, pvc stockings.'

Mmmm that doesnt sound like a gfe to me and I don't do that stuff with new clients.

[RKitten]

Any requests for things on my no go list. It's insanely short so I do get pissy if I get one that specifically asks for that (-piss, shit, vomit, blood play, fisting, double in a single hole).

Any requests for me to change my appearance (mainly dyeing my hair a more natural colour), nope you're booking me for the way I look. They can buy me a wig if it's really important to them.

Requests for shorter times than I have available or discounts. Straight up no and won't take them if they adjust, not willing to change at them showing up with less cash than they should.

[Rosesugar]

I get so irritated with text  ..where are u ? or postcode ? I just block the numbers straight away .
Long  talk on phone before or after booking made  then don't turn up Or just send a short sorry luv been called into work can I call back . No no no ...
Or oh I'm sorry followed by lame excuse can I come later on  ?
No  I text back or tell them 
If I get calls and person sounds weird I won't take their booking at all.

[ban.shee]

when they start requesting too much. like.. "can I cum 3 times in half an hour?" (I know it sounds unreal and impossible but I get that request a lot.. not twice, 3 times... in half an hour...)
or they try to plan every single detail of our meeting. "I want to fuck you in X position for 10 minutes, then change to X, then cum in your mouth" like seriously... if I already told you that I let you switch positions, and I do CIM, why would you continue talking about such details? it just gives me the feeling that they are trying to get me to sext and won't show up, so I just cancel the booking because I don't want to waste time.

[SuperCheese]

1. bad, entitled attitude
2. asking for things I don't offer, even after inviting them to read my profile
3. asking for discounts, unless I offer one because it's quiet or something has gone wrong on my end
4. extremely long messages
5. dithering about, not knowing what they want
6. 'forgetting' their booking, if their reason is genuine, I give them another chance
7. asking for too much info, e.g., 'Are you working alone?', 'Will your neighbours be in?'
8. being very specific, e.g., 'I want to cum at least 5 times', especially in a short booking.
9. pestering me

[Funkymonkey]

Cancelled a couples booking today. The guy has already messaged and flakes on me before but it wasn?t a no show so I took the booking.

Then his requests: we don?t want kissing, just straight to fucking, you need to be extremely submissive and do what you?re told.

?Shall I get us some prosecco?? I ask.

?No just straight to the action. You need to suck my cum out of my girlfriends ass and snowball her. By he way she?s mixed race. Also, don?t tell her about my feedback.?

It?s all just sounding too weird so I cancelled.

[Emma_C]

'I'd like a kinky gfe. Collar, ankle spreaders, wrist restraints, ball gag, anal hook, pvc stockings.'

anal hook? wtf is that? Sounds frightening lol

[Z]

I refuse bookings even on arrival when they say:
1- Assure me i will have a nice time.
2- i really was looking forward  to do xyz(things clearly mentioned i dont do) to you.
3- are you good at what you do?

[Justine]

Today I refused two bookings because they both texted me first and this is not how I do business, but more than that they both added lots of kisses on the end and one said he hopes I am well, the other said I am his kind of girl.  They both stank of timewaster and I asked that they phone me and neither did.

Had I taken those bookings by text alone I would have been let down twice but as it was I did not waste any time on either of them.

[Funkymonkey]

anal hook? wtf is that? Sounds frightening lol

Haha I?ve used one before but not in a gfe booking and not with a new client!! Haha - basically a metal butt plug that curves round, you can attach ropes to them.

[Rosesugar]

when they start requesting too much. like.. "can I cum 3 times in half an hour?" (I know it sounds unreal and impossible but I get that request a lot.. not twice, 3 times... in half an hour...)
or they try to plan every single detail of our meeting. "I want to fuck you in X position for 10 minutes, then change to X, then cum in your mouth" like seriously... if I already told you that I let you switch positions, and I do CIM, why would you continue talking about such details? it just gives me the feeling that they are trying to get me to sext and won't show up, so I just cancel the booking because I don't want to waste time.

I don't blame you they go on and on too much.
Oh can I cum twice in 30 mins drives me mad I said ..Do you usually cum 2 times in 30 mins with each escort .. phone goes quiet then before I cut the call

[MsLadyV87]

When you politely ask them a question and they completely ignore you and say/ask something sexual!