wow, Gypsy, that sounds about right and no, VC no not in Yorkshire.
Simply Sinful, you have got it in one, thank you, a definite boundary pusher. Apart from what he described he kept pushing a finger up my ass, even though I told him not to, and I don't offer anal play.
I guess at best yes, he's a boundary pusher and for that I will decline him if he comes back.
If anyone wants him, they are welcome
Thanks so much ladies, you're so helpful as always. x