do you get a lot less business if you don't offer owo and dfk

[DiscreetLady]

i dont know but compared to earlier this year, my work is becoming less and less. I'm a touring escort and only work from hotels in the south of england. Until may 2017 i never had a problem having 4-5 clients a day but nowadays they almost always ask over the phone if i offer owo and dfk and if i say no then they don't book. On my last two tours this month I've only had 2 clients a day on most days. I am still making a profit after hotel costs but what I now make in 4 days I used to make it one day. What is the problem in the market is it more saturated now/more girls offering owo?

P.S. I only advertise on aw

[Guiltypleasure]

Hi CL , there's a huge thread on oral with/without so that would answer a lot of or all your questions re affecting business as some find o/w gets them more business , but best read as there's lots of different opinions.

I kiss and properly but find the ones who ask for deep don't know what their doing , just nearly choke me , I like kissing but not the ones where you can't breath , I don't advertise one or the other just GFE and do fine , if they ask I just explain what I've said on here , but rarely they have asked ever .

[fion]

Okay firstly don't rely just on aw.  U need to advertise  elsewhere. Like back page,  vivastreet.  There's a thread on where to advertise somewhere. Secondly I do think that owo and dfk  are now seen as the normal  and rightly or wrongly punters do expect it as part of the normal gfe  service. Also your pricing, photos can have an impact on bookings and competition. Only you can decide on what  services your happy providing . But try some additional advertising and see if you get more work

[Kay]

I agree about advertising in other places. If you only do OW, I would big this up in your marketing, say how safety conscious you are etc. etc. But I think even if they're fine with/prefer OW (some men are big on STI safety, too, especially if they have a partner), they may expect to kiss.

[English Green]

I agree about advertising in other places. If you only do OW, I would big this up in your marketing, say how safety conscious you are etc. etc. But I think even if they're fine with/prefer OW (some men are big on STI safety, too, especially if they have a partner), they may expect to kiss.

Compared to like 7 years ago where sex workers if they did it would charge extra now it is considered normal and standard for it to be included.

As a rule i would say you lose business but some can still do alright with not offering it it depends if you are enticing in other ways and look good on pictures. The worst part of being an independent is that the customers expect you to say if you do it or not but working with an agency a lot wont discuss what you do or do not do service wise when taking a booking for you so that can work in your favour for offeri g the basics.

[Erotic Masseuse]

I agree about advertising in other places. If you only do OW, I would big this up in your marketing, say how safety conscious you are etc. etc. But I think even if they're fine with/prefer OW (some men are big on STI safety, too, especially if they have a partner), they may expect to kiss.

I agree with this, I meet these typs of men a lot

[Yorkshire Lass]

My clients tend to come to me as I only do OW. I get more mature guys who don't want to risk STIs. Depends on the market you are attracting I guess.

[Emma_C]

The more you offer, the more work you'll get.

I've been getting a few who demand owo on the phone so I just tell them to call someone else.  Had loads asking how much extra is it on a recent tour in Essex. It pisses me off that they don't consider the risks.

[Louise82s]

I would say it's 99.9% chance you lose bookings if you don't kiss or do owo.

I do both but always insist guys freshen up when they arrive.

I provide them fresh towels and mouthwash etc. I also make the guys aware that it doesn't effect there time. I always check that start time once we are in the bedroom together so guys don't need to worry about a 5 minute shower eating into their paid time.

[JustAnotherHooker]

I advertise as naughty GFE so I know that I'd lose a whole lot of custom if I didn't offer owo, dfk, and/or cim, I'm not into long periods of shagging without stopping so I feel my owo+cim make up for it, plus been in the job a while so my oral is worth sex being missed out on, haha, blowing my own trumpet but hey ho!! :+) ;-)


IMO owo+dfk are just 2 services that a GFE must provide, I'm sure some will disagree but we all know that we're all very different in our services, attitudes, opinions, etc,etc.

[JustAnotherHooker]

Its standard practice for GFE girls to offer owo and dfk.

[Louise82s]

I advertise as naughty GFE so I know that I'd lose a whole lot of custom if I didn't offer owo, dfk, and/or cim, I'm not into long periods of shagging without stopping so I feel my owo+cim make up for it, plus been in the job a while so my oral is worth sex being missed out on, haha, blowing my own trumpet but hey ho!! :+) ;-)


IMO owo+dfk are just 2 services that a GFE must provide, I'm sure some will disagree but we all know that we're all very different in our services, attitudes, opinions, etc,etc.

I also advertise as GFE.

In my opinion, I would say the vast majority of guys out there want this types of service.

Then there are the few that want the weird stuff and so on.

I think we should all remember there are plenty of risks in this type of work but it's risk reduction that i focus on.

Chances of catching something orally is minimal...i haven't and have yet to meet anyone that has. I know it can happen but just rare.

As I said in my previous post it is definitely a deal breaker for a lot of guys. I Can count on 1 hand the amount of guys who have asked for me to give oral with a condom.

[JustAnotherHooker]

I also advertise as GFE.

In my opinion, I would say the vast majority of guys out there want this types of service.

Then there are the few that want the weird stuff and so on.

I think we should all remember there are plenty of risks in this type of work but it's risk reduction that i focus on.

Chances of catching something orally is minimal...i haven't and have yet to meet anyone that has. I know it can happen but just rare.

As I said in my previous post it is definitely a deal breaker for a lot of guys. I Can count on 1 hand the amount of guys who have asked for me to give oral with a condom.

OMG yes I agree with all of that, I'd say 2% of clients won't even accept owo & ask for a condom, I love these clients! Its such a shame they are so scarce  


I honestly believe that cim seems to be expected if you do owo, quite sad really & a pain in the ass for me at times!!

[JustAnotherHooker]

I have also never caught anything orally, it's surprising, and damn lucky, when you think of all the oral I've given! I'm blushing at the thought!!😚😚 pfft!! Lol xx


I've only ever had Thrush and BV and this is through being fingered, which I've now stopped.

[SimplySinful]

IMO owo+dfk are just 2 services that a GFE must provide, I'm sure some will disagree but we all know that we're all very different in our services, attitudes, opinions, etc,etc.

DFK I agree with GFE, because to my mind if you are offering GFE you are offering a relaxing sensual yet naughty experience, and kissing at its best is sensual; but OWO not because that?s a service more than a sensual experience.

It?s swings and roundabouts, the more that offer OWO, the more standard it becomes, and the more difficult it becomes for those who offer OW.  And whilst it?s played down a lot, because of this more STIs from oral are becoming more common, of course not as common as from BB, but risk is risk.

It?s tough I?ve done OW for years and yes I do lose business because of this, I have gained too, but I?m feeling more and more pressure to go back to OWO.