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Jade80

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Re: STD dilemma
« Reply #15 on: 23 November 2017, 03:54:52 pm »
Def kidneys .... you are right!

Nora batty

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« Reply #16 on: 23 November 2017, 04:40:00 pm »
I not being funny here, but in your OP you stated you know for a fact this lady had a serious std, you don't know for a fact unless you are friends with her and she has told you herself.  What you do know is what a gossiping client has told you.

Clients gossip and cause problems for all types of ladies, they get off on that.  I wouldn't take anything a client tells me as a truth ever!  Especially about another escort. 

If I thought for 1 second a potential client of mine had been possibly exposed to an std it's a no brainier, he doesn't get the booking.

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Re: STD dilemma
« Reply #17 on: 23 November 2017, 06:41:19 pm »
Jade80 I'm sure it's liver x

Jade80

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« Reply #18 on: 23 November 2017, 07:05:36 pm »
No no.,  pls don?t just die this for gossip, I?m not being stupid here. She has it in her Twitter acc.,that she?s been ill in hospital. Pictures of it. Dramatic weight loss. He blaming the guy etc!! I know for a fact it?s an std as she has spoken to my doc friend about it. Please do t think inwould ever say anything bad , regardless of hearsay etc,

Jade80

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Re: STD dilemma
« Reply #19 on: 23 November 2017, 07:07:42 pm »
I?m simply asking a question as how to handle it. You know how it is.. say you?re not free and the abuse starts..

Nora batty

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« Reply #20 on: 23 November 2017, 09:19:51 pm »
I?m simply asking a question as how to handle it. You know how it is.. say you?re not free and the abuse starts..

My go to response for anyone I don't want to see is, "I am fully booked but if I get a cancellation would you like me to text you?" "I only take same day appointments, please call me on the day you like to visit" then avoid his call.

It's short, polite and non confrontational.

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« Reply #21 on: 23 November 2017, 11:53:11 pm »
Hepatitis C is the most common type of viral hepatitis. It?s caused by a blood-borne virus that attacks the liver and is easily spread by sharing drug injecting equipment. It can also be spread through sex.

My point was not that hcv wasn't contagious.

I am well aware of hcv, the stats and the fact it does NOT affect the kidneys, chronic hcv would not cause hospitalization quickly except in bizarre and extreme situations . My point was hep c seems unlikely to be the cause of the other girls hospitilisation and was the op sure it was hep c and not a malicious rumor she was told by the doctor/client.
I never said it was not contagious just mentioned I would not do the booking bc of risks from shaving,mild trauma etc and anxiety that booking causes but also as the chances were slim so it seems odd a doctor would say that and tell her a girl had an std and everyone should panic as that goes directly against not only him being a doctor but also given the chances of transmission by protected sex something a doctor would not say. 
 
To me the whole thing sounds like gossip and a client trying to scare the op.
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Jade80

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« Reply #22 on: 24 November 2017, 05:06:28 am »
Thanks happy hooker. But if you read my above post. The girl has even put on Twitter about her illness. Although not saying whst it was. There is no patient doctor confidentiality breach. The doctor I?m mentioning has no link professionally with her . X

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« Reply #23 on: 24 November 2017, 06:36:41 am »
If she didn't say on twitter that it was Hep C, and she was suffering from a kidney issue, then it wasn't Hep C.

It's very hard to transmit it sexually. The vast majority of married people don't transmit it to their spouses, even though they've usually had the virus for years before diagnosis.

Nora batty

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« Reply #24 on: 24 November 2017, 07:43:03 am »
Thanks happy hooker. But if you read my above post. The girl has even put on Twitter about her illness. Although not saying whst it was. There is no patient doctor confidentiality breach. The doctor I?m mentioning has no link professionally with her . X

Ok I confused now, did she say she was ill with kidney problems or that she has a std on her Twitter?

Because I have blogged about my kidney problems but I certainly don't have an std.

Jade80

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« Reply #25 on: 24 November 2017, 08:55:37 am »
No she didn?t say it on Twitter, but openly  has to clients..

My post was never about has she, hasn?t she, I think we?ve all gone off the topic slightly. I was simply asking what to do re a booking who has seen someone suspected of such... there are reasons my beliefs are to be true. But it?s not for public sharing out of respect to the girl . X

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« Reply #26 on: 24 November 2017, 04:57:54 pm »
I?m not sure it?s hep c! I know it was a serious std that affects kidneys that?s all. The doctor btw is a client and no rwflectiin  on any patient/doctor relations. He was told by another WG about it.he doesn?t even know the girl.  It was about a year ago, so I can?t remember what the std was, my ignorance suggested hep C. Sorry.

Your so called doctor client, is totally shit stirring. 

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Re: STD dilemma
« Reply #27 on: 24 November 2017, 09:50:37 pm »
but what STD would cause kidney problems ?

Jade80

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« Reply #28 on: 25 November 2017, 05:31:49 am »
Thanks for all your support. I?d be grateful to keep it to my original question. Once I know the facts. I can decide where to go from there. My post was never about what std?s do what or gossip (I know full well all about they, you?ve only got to look on punter forums to figure out our industry isn?t always polite). Once I know facts I can make my own mind up. We are all at risk of std?s. Getting tested is sometimes a pain. But essential to do frequently . X

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« Reply #29 on: 25 November 2017, 08:53:57 am »
There are some research papers on Hep B virus and associated kidney disease when I looked.

Sometimes, there have been virus-related discussions on this site. I try to keep an eye on useful info on viruses which could be potentially transmitted via sex work.

Infection with hepatitis B virus (HBV) may be associated with a variety of renal diseases [1,2]. The three most common types of renal disease resulting from HBV infection are:

●Membranous glomerulonephritis
●Membranoproliferative glomerulonephritis (MPGN)
●Polyarteritis nodosa (PAN)
In addition, HBV infection has been associated with mesangial proliferative glomerulonephritis, IgA nephropathy, and amyloidosis.

I know someone, who had PAN, she nearly died from it. Didn't even know PAN was associated with Hep B. Besides, it's best not to get involved with "arguments".  There is no point in "finding things out".  Someone's serious disease is their private info, and that's none of other people's business.

If they are known for disputes, the best way is to stay away for your own safety.

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