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Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« on: 22 November 2017, 02:24:09 pm »
Hi, when I started doing this the girl I worked with kept a notebook with names and numbers for all her regulars - her criteria was anyone she'd seen more than twice - and it had a few notes about what they liked in the bedroom and personal stuff. She'd never let me look at it! But I started doing the same. I stopped for a few months though, because a fellow WG told me she thought it was weird and 'anal'! I don't do anal, btw.  :)

I've started again. I just have a thing on my phone with number and 'name' and a few personal details and if they're really into RO or whatever. It's so I can stay connected when we're in the room together and hopefully they'll keep coming back. But am I alone in this?


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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #1 on: 22 November 2017, 02:46:38 pm »
I tend to remember their likes but will put next to their name if they like ow or they don't kiss as a reminder

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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #2 on: 22 November 2017, 03:01:07 pm »
Definitely - this is a must.

As you say, it enables you to make your service fit so that they have a good time and come back. I find out what they like me to wear, how they like to start (slow or straight down to it) I offer anal and it helps to keep a note of clients that want this - so I can prep and douche or save time by not doing this if it is not their thing. I can also avoid agreeing to anal if they are too big or do it too hard. I also make a note of condom fits and if kissing is OK or not on. When they share what they like you to wear, not only can you wear that thing but you can make out that you bought it just for them (even though I did not!)

I have all their phone numbers on my work phone and I give each one a client number and show their name (I have over 100 of them) - then I can quickly look them up in my book when they call and make the conversation really personal (even if I can't remember them!). Just make sure that they can't hear you turning the pages of the book

I also have a similar system of recording numbers of punters I want to avoid

I once worked in a customer service call centre and got the tricks from them - at that place, the phone was connected to your computer and as soon as the phone rang, it brought all that customer's details, last jobs etc onto the screen.

I think most do this.

Sammy

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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #3 on: 22 November 2017, 03:10:56 pm »
Hi, when I started doing this the girl I worked with kept a notebook with names and numbers for all her regulars - her criteria was anyone she'd seen more than twice - and it had a few notes about what they liked in the bedroom and personal stuff. She'd never let me look at it! But I started doing the same. I stopped for a few months though, because a fellow WG told me she thought it was weird and 'anal'! I don't do anal, btw.  :)

I've started again. I just have a thing on my phone with number and 'name' and a few personal details and if they're really into RO or whatever. It's so I can stay connected when we're in the room together and hopefully they'll keep coming back. But am I alone in this?

This is a great idea! Usually I have a good memory but something like this really helps, least it shows you make the effort. Thanks for sharing!  :)
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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #4 on: 22 November 2017, 03:15:20 pm »
Yes I do keep notes and some are quite comprehensive regarding his likes and dislikes and his personality sometimes if I found him ok but hard work, the list is endless.  I try to keep it brief in my notes if I can but while some long term regulars who have booked me a great many times will already be deeply ingrained in my memory so no need for notes, those I see much less but still come back from time to time I do make notes and I find these invaluable.
 
I do not delete any numbers if I have seen these men within the last 3 or 4 years but beyond that I sometimes have a sweep out of my phone as it does not store an endless number of names/nos.  If they have not booked me in 5 years I assume they won't again but once in a blue moon they surprise me and I have lost their details so they have to remind me verbally.

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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #5 on: 22 November 2017, 03:48:54 pm »
Yes, I keep detailed notes for every client.  They are not on my phone or anywhere which could be stolen and used as blackmail against myself or the clients.

I find it very helpful, and just in case I lose/damage my phone all my data is not lost.  I also save numbers and notes for any twat I wish to never see which have not met me but made an enquirer.

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« Reply #6 on: 22 November 2017, 03:52:04 pm »
No notes, (obviously their numbers are saved so I know who they are) but maybe since due to circumstances I tour a lot so have less regulars. 

I just tend to remember people?s likes/dislikes  if I have seen someone more than once or twice.

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« Reply #7 on: 22 November 2017, 04:23:06 pm »
No notes, (obviously their numbers are saved so I know who they are) but maybe since due to circumstances I tour a lot so have less regulars. 

I just tend to remember people?s likes/dislikes  if I have seen someone more than once or twice.

Exactly the same.

I couldn't cope with detailed notes. I'd probably end up leaving the 'client list' in a hotel bedroom somewhere!

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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #8 on: 22 November 2017, 05:16:57 pm »
Definitely - this is a must.

As you say, it enables you to make your service fit so that they have a good time and come back. I find out what they like me to wear, how they like to start (slow or straight down to it) I offer anal and it helps to keep a note of clients that want this - so I can prep and douche or save time by not doing this if it is not their thing. I can also avoid agreeing to anal if they are too big or do it too hard. I also make a note of condom fits and if kissing is OK or not on. When they share what they like you to wear, not only can you wear that thing but you can make out that you bought it just for them (even though I did not!)

I have all their phone numbers on my work phone and I give each one a client number and show their name (I have over 100 of them) - then I can quickly look them up in my book when they call and make the conversation really personal (even if I can't remember them!). Just make sure that they can't hear you turning the pages of the book

I also have a similar system of recording numbers of punters I want to avoid

I once worked in a customer service call centre and got the tricks from them - at that place, the phone was connected to your computer and as soon as the phone rang, it brought all that customer's details, last jobs etc onto the screen.

I think most do this.

Sammy

This is so super organised! I would start something g like this but I?d probably stop after a while as I know how lazy I get!
I?m more like SS and MD and I tend to remember things about people.

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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #9 on: 22 November 2017, 05:23:43 pm »
It's a good idea to do this , if I get a call with specific role play requests from a regular I do write it in the discreet note book .
With new guys I just put it on paper and tend to shred it afterwards .
We can't remember everything

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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #10 on: 22 November 2017, 05:27:15 pm »
very professional it...ahah i do not! but i have good memory so i remember all likes normally.
just i think that it is a good idea to note which outfit you wore, just to change it when next time...
i like the change and i think that punter like as well...a different outfit..
so not same dress

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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #11 on: 22 November 2017, 05:41:29 pm »
Exactly the same.

I couldn't cope with detailed notes. I'd probably end up leaving the 'client list' in a hotel bedroom somewhere!

Me too. I can usually remember people who've been even once before so regulars are easy; if they want things like anal they need to ask when they book and I have so few work clothes I'm not in a position to worry about whether or not a punter might have seen something before.

God knows I have enough to do without creating even more unpaid work for myself :).

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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #12 on: 22 November 2017, 05:55:52 pm »
Yes, I keep notes and I have a ridiculously good memory for details. Clients want to feel remembered, it is all part of the service.

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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #13 on: 22 November 2017, 06:05:14 pm »
Me too. I can usually remember people who've been even once before so regulars are easy; if they want things like anal they need to ask when they book and I have so few work clothes I'm not in a position to worry about whether or not a punter might have seen something before.

God knows I have enough to do without creating even more unpaid work for myself :).

Exactly.

I remember and my regulars/returners are happy so why would I want to create the extra work.

Plus I think you either hate lists/instructions or love them, you can guess which end of the spectrum I am....

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« Reply #14 on: 22 November 2017, 06:12:03 pm »
Exactly.

I remember and my regulars/returners are happy so why would I want to create the extra work.

Plus I think you either hate lists/instructions or love them, you can guess which end of the spectrum I am....

I love lists and list-making (my Christmas food one has sections and subsections and is also divided into days and shops :D) but I only make the ones I need. I don't need a list to remember punters because that wouldn't be remembering :).

I do save regulars numbers once they've been more than a couple of times, but not in any identifiable way and if I tried to explain my system I'd look like Rain Man ;D.