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VoluptuousCurves

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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #15 on: 22 November 2017, 06:19:01 pm »
For the last few months I got really into using the Notes feature on my phone. Not massively detailed, just stuff I would want to know, e.g. "oral only", "massive cock", "total wanker" etc. If I clicked with them, also stuff we talked about e.g. "likes science fiction" or whatevr.

Then my phone died and I lost everything. Since then I really haven't been motivated to laeave notes, but really I should do!
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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #16 on: 22 November 2017, 06:26:12 pm »
i had some small note on my phone when i record their number..like Mike, English, smocker, fun ok ok...
or Anthony boring only owo so so...
it is not really about their like, is more about my like! ...i won t to be too professional,...i want to be myself...i am not to much to the service of my client...LOL i offer myself as i am..or they like or not! (ideally)

about outfit change ... i like for me as well to change..boost my energy and i feel more then ready for my client..like a boyfriend! dress up nicely for him ( i m romantic )
i do not shopping..i just mix things up.....jewellery, necklace, shoes...change hair style...get bored easily if i do not change and it is good for mood purposes!

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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #17 on: 22 November 2017, 06:29:37 pm »
It makes me smile when I get a booking from someone I have not seen in a very long time.  I may mention eg. his pets or his hobby if he told me the last time or that he loves red shoes and his amazement that I remembered after 2 years is funny to see.  They think I have a fantastic memory but all it is, just a few notes next to his name in my records. Some men think we should shred numbers/names and erase all signs they met us but sod that, it is for my benefit I keep records, not theirs.

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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #18 on: 22 November 2017, 11:39:15 pm »
I keep very basic notes. I feel it's important to save phone numbers and/or email addresses between STI screens in case the nightmare should happen and you catch something. For uber-regulars, I also want to make sure I don't repeat the same outfit.
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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #19 on: 23 November 2017, 10:53:38 am »
I keep very basic notes. I feel it's important to save phone numbers and/or email addresses between STI screens in case the nightmare should happen and you catch something. For uber-regulars, I also want to make sure I don't repeat the same outfit.

This applies to me. I have enough outfits to not need a repeat for a long time.

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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #20 on: 23 November 2017, 01:43:43 pm »
Massive respect to those who do this, but I would never go to these lengths lol. I will usually remember what they like once I see them again (might not recall during comms but once I see their face then I will). In my opinion, it's up to them to be clear what it is they're after.

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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #21 on: 25 November 2017, 01:24:51 pm »
I use "client notes" on AW.

You can't post public comments anymore, but I find "client notes" helps me sometimes.

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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #22 on: 25 November 2017, 06:26:01 pm »
Massive respect to those who do this, but I would never go to these lengths lol. I will usually remember what they like once I see them again (might not recall during comms but once I see their face then I will). In my opinion, it's up to them to be clear what it is they're after.

That's why I do it - I have a terrible memory for faces. A couple of weeks ago a guy booked and came for a half hour and after we'd had sex he said "I know last time I told you blah blah blah" and I was like, last time? I had no clue that we'd ever met before let alone had sex  :D Thankfully I managed to cover up my total failure to remember him by saying "Oh yeah, that's right" and vagueing it out (a skill developed during my civvy job during many boring conference calls where I would completely zone out and then suddenly realise I'd been asked a question...)

I mainly tour though. When I worked incalls from my home town I didn't keep notes for my regulars because I'd be seeing them at least once a month. Now I only work on tour so it's rare I'd see someone more often than every 3 months.
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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #23 on: 27 November 2017, 01:17:02 pm »
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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #24 on: 27 November 2017, 01:27:44 pm »
Glad, I'm not alone. Sounds like some of you go more in-depth than me on the info. I did stop with the notes for a while, but I got annoyed when I mixed up two different clients.

There was 'Mark' who was sweet but boring and didn't have a clue and 'Mark' who was gorgeous, blue eyed and had a lovely gigantic dick. (Sorry, I've turned into a bit of a size queen over the years)

I thought I was getting the latter but got the former instead - and while I like to maintain a professional distance I did feel a bit let down.

After that I vowed never again. Reading these replies I feel inspired to start a cataloguing system!!





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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #25 on: 30 November 2017, 12:19:33 am »
I make notes too but some are brief and some are more detailed:

I save every single client Ive seen in my phone (because I dont tour) as something brief, like " John AW Kabbalah" or "Joseph BP IT nerd". I do this to

- trigger my memory if they call again as I can see their name on my phone screen, so it has to be really specific ie their physic, job etc.
- because I tend to see a lot of guys with the same name who have found me on the same website so I need to be able to differentiate between them all lol

In my phone book in the notes section I used to write notes but only for guys Id seen and blocked and I did this to remind myself why I blocked them - but now that I have TC I just block them without storing them in my phone book

The more comprehensive notes is on my numbers spreadsheet (macs version of excel) where I write down everything - name, number, website they found me on, booking duration, inc or outc and so on. I dont really write what their likes are because most of the guys I see are very vanilla like me lol. I rarely get a booking where I feel the need to write down what they were into (unless it was a D/s meet) and I have a great memory so if they are a reg then Id remember it without the need for noting what they liked

Essentially I take notes more for me so that I can remember who they are - if I can remember who they are then I will automatically remember what they were into (& if it was something specific/unique)
« Last Edit: 30 November 2017, 12:22:46 am by Gracious »
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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #26 on: 05 December 2017, 02:02:56 pm »
I'm definitely a list/note maker. 

It really only takes 5 mins after the appointment to record what I wore, what service they had, any plus points (or negative ones), even condom size!  I also note anything relevant from our conversation that I can mention next booking.  They love the fact I've 'remembered', eg. 'had a problem with the car', 'strained their shoulder playing tennis', 'just had new grandson' or 'where they recently holidayed', etc.

This prevents me accepting a return booking from someone I didn't enjoy being with but whose name I've forgotten.  Also the personal touch encourages clients I HAVE liked, to return.  Making them feel 'special' for the time we are together is part of the service.  What surprises me though, is that they always seem to fall for my terrific memory skills.  It's about as lightly as your dentist remembering a nugget of small talk after pulling your tooth.    ;D


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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #27 on: 05 December 2017, 07:57:16 pm »
I never kept a note of regulars likes and dislikes. But it is whichever works better for you. I would say go for it. :)

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Re: Does anyone else keep a note of regulars and their likes?
« Reply #28 on: 05 December 2017, 10:41:30 pm »
I don't see many people so I don't need to but if you're busy then it's a must probably don't store people in your phone as foot fetish Freddie or similar though lol you might leave your phone on your mates sofa or something