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Meetingdiversity

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Re: When you retire from this job and old age
« Reply #30 on: 01 March 2018, 08:13:11 pm »
When I retire fully it will be like I have won the lottery. I am worth more than how clients down grade like a nothing I have decided. Cutting down 50% already in my mind is semi retired from escorting.

I feel it too and going back to natural hair has helped me tremendously. Xx.

woowoomonster

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Re: When you retire from this job and old age
« Reply #31 on: 02 March 2018, 10:06:12 am »
You can be a GILF!  :-*

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Re: When you retire from this job and old age
« Reply #32 on: 02 March 2018, 12:19:56 pm »
I've just put a deposit down on a new build for me to live in and I almost have enough saved for a buy to let property deposit.
I'm aiming towards 2 buy to let's so I can cut down to only 3/4 regs a week to top up my rental income.

ladyofthemansion

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Re: When you retire from this job and old age
« Reply #33 on: 02 March 2018, 12:23:59 pm »
Pay loads in to a pension by all means and buy expensive properties but be aware if you end up in a nursing home the Government will take it all off you. I plan to do dog and cat grooming till unfit. Too many people I know die soon after retiring.
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

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Re: When you retire from this job and old age
« Reply #34 on: 02 March 2018, 12:47:21 pm »
Pay loads in to a pension by all means and buy expensive properties but be aware if you end up in a nursing home the Government will take it all off you. I plan to do dog and cat grooming till unfit. Too many people I know die soon after retiring.

That's why I haven't got a pension. I may need the money before then; there are other ways to invest without letting the Government take what they want of your pension.

I'm glad I haven't got all my money tied up anyway. If this weather continues I'll be drawing it out rather than putting it away!
These days there are no Prince Charmings. A girl just has to be her own hero

Pandora Diamond

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Re: When you retire from this job and old age
« Reply #35 on: 08 March 2018, 04:36:14 am »
 
Thank you Beautiful Ladies for all your comments ... !!!

Because I've met some Latina girls, when I worked at Parlous,
 who spent all their money on LOUIS BUTON bags and brand-name things,
 while I was paying my land in my country,
 I advised them that with 4/5 ? I bought used bags
 and Spending 700 ? for a bag Marcas was something very ridiculous   :o ,
 which they made fun of me,
 telling me that I was not in fashion ..... !!!

  Summing up: We must think about the future Invest in something that can give you a safe future in the future if things of life or vegez yaa can not work ... !!

Hugs and Blessings of Light for All ... !!! :-*
Live today as if it were your last day ... but think as if you were to live forever xx

Lushblossom

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Re: When you retire from this job and old age
« Reply #36 on: 08 March 2018, 07:51:51 am »
I do not intend to retire from the job as I do not go mad with hours and hours of work and can keep going.

I never feel downgraded by clients and have largely had very positive experiences in 5 years of escorting.

ladyofthemansion

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Re: When you retire from this job and old age
« Reply #37 on: 08 March 2018, 08:57:38 am »
Would be nice to own businesses but not have to be there.
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

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Re: When you retire from this job and old age
« Reply #38 on: 08 March 2018, 11:55:36 am »

Thank you Beautiful Ladies for all your comments ... !!!

Because I've met some Latina girls, when I worked at Parlous,
 who spent all their money on LOUIS BUTON bags and brand-name things,
 while I was paying my land in my country,
 I advised them that with 4/5 ? I bought used bags
 and Spending 700 ? for a bag Marcas was something very ridiculous   :o ,
 which they made fun of me,
 telling me that I was not in fashion ..... !!!

  Summing up: We must think about the future Invest in something that can give you a safe future in the future if things of life or vegez yaa can not work ... !!

Hugs and Blessings of Light for All ... !!! :-*

Girl, who is laughing now? You do whats best for you. Sometimes it is better to act the fool around others when you look at things long term secretly.

Pandora Diamond

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Re: When you retire from this job and old age
« Reply #39 on: 08 March 2018, 05:44:09 pm »
Girl, who is laughing now? You do whats best for you. Sometimes it is better to act the fool around others when you look at things long term secretly.

Yes hun....
Because the next day that girl did not even have money to buy food :o
... but she was in fashion 8)
I advised her that she would not always be young and that she would always think if there was an illness or something unforeseen, it is always good to invest in something for the future life and not to vote for money in fantasies .... xx
Live today as if it were your last day ... but think as if you were to live forever xx

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Re: When you retire from this job and old age
« Reply #40 on: 08 March 2018, 10:07:21 pm »
Can now see me working from a static home (  lodge looks appealing .)
Pay off my mortgage sell my flat and clear off from London .
I will be bit isolated so must research the best of them.
Who knows where life takes us so always prepare yourself  and have a back up plan  .

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Re: When you retire from this job and old age
« Reply #41 on: 13 March 2018, 08:36:18 pm »
oh christ, now i've gone full time and realising it isn't as easy as I thought it was.......although my hours are seriously part time, which I am sorting out.

Relying on a pension is not the best.  A client of mine told me a couple of weeks ago that he had paid 'fuckloads' into a pension for himself (self-employed, good career) which was worth 20k a year and he was planning on early retirement.....now he has almost reached it, it is worth 6k a year, all that money wasted!

I agree property is a safer bet, at least rental levels aren't going down, it is just a supreme pain in the ass with tenants to deal with.

As for shares, it's always a risk, you need to watch the markets and keep on top of what is going on in the world, but you always need to be able to say you can happily lose that money, unless you have contacts in the city  ;D

As it stands, i'm 49 in a couple of weeks and I am truly fucked (no pun intended and totally my own doing ;)) and will (probably) be fucking til I die! lols

But hey, there are worse ways to go  ;D

Rosesugar

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Re: When you retire from this job and old age
« Reply #42 on: 14 March 2018, 05:04:35 am »
After much research the static caravan idea wasn't the best option bit mad i have serious worries about my later years .I try to go on as long as I can.
Body wise im very wobbly in stomach area its not appealing at all  :-[ :-[
 so just ordered a Basque which I'm not taking off  ahhh.
I  think they can make do with my big breasts etc ...
I do look younger than 50 so hope I'm appealing.for much longer  :)
« Last Edit: 14 March 2018, 05:06:16 am by Sugar xxx »

foxylady

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Re: When you retire from this job and old age
« Reply #43 on: 14 March 2018, 08:58:57 pm »
Sugar, stop worrying you are stressing yourself out.  I've gone the basque route, even though i've gone from a bloated size 16 (my massive vino days) to a size 12 (stopped drinking and then spent fuckloads of my inheritance on fat freezing, yep it got me on the right track but what a fucking waste of a decent house deposit  ;D ;D ;D

After that, I got a nutritionist for my mental health (I am on the bipolar spectrum) and found I had LOADS of food allergies (and recommend anyone gets checked) as that was causing so much water retention/bloating and internal problems.

Basically i have to cut out wheat/dairy (which I thought) and loads of other random things, but was told I need meat (I said to my nutritionist "I try to get a lot of meat on a daily basis!"  ;))  I reckon apart from that the biggest things are to cut out sugar (sorry Sugar! ;D) and grains and try and go for a paleo type diet, the weight will drop off.  Since christmas I have gone back to sugar and prosecco, but i have given up smoking.....(SORRY this is kinda off topic) but I think it's important in terms of how long you are able to keep going workwise, as so many of us don't have pensions etc/ or property investments to rely on.  (YET!) 

Sugar is so hard to quit and it is the biggest thing in terms of zapping your energy and is more addictive than smoking/alcohol etc.  You will work harder, longer and be happier without it.  Plus you will lose the weight.  First step though is get allergy tested as you may be messing your body up without even knowing, I can't believe I have about 20 allergies and only thought milk/wheat were the culprits.

In terms of money making (or shaking your money maker!) I am sure the nutritionist is absolutely right.  It's hard and I am still getting there, but if (when it becomes a habit again) it makes the difference between waking up and feeling energized at 6am or waking up feeling crap at 11am (as I have been doing this winter), there is no contest.  To get back on track (sorry guys) that is going to make all the difference to making the income in the meantime that we will need for our retirement (and I am 49 next week so need to get my skates on!)

Hope this helps someone at least, it cost me a lot of money to find this out but if it points someone else in the right direction, then it's added value  ;D

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Re: When you retire from this job and old age
« Reply #44 on: 15 March 2018, 04:26:20 pm »
I'm 40, been working 5 years and have got the house. Should be mortgage free at 52 at this rate so plan is to train as holistic practitioner - massage, yoga, mindfulness (have started) and build up my own business over the next 10 years with the aim of winding down the sex work. But I'll keep seeing the people I like as long as I want I guess. But I don't want to be dependent on it beyond another decade. 
I've only formulated this plan over the past 6 months though. It stems from my own interests and the state of the world and people's MH in general. I will always want to work in a field where I feel like I'm helping people and feel the two can co-exist. Not in the same space though. I'm converting my shed into a summer house for the holistic practice!!
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