private life sex - do you find that SW makes you not want to do it?

[Treetop]

My libedo is higher when working, alot higher! Unfortunately my patience and tolerance of civvie sex is zero, I like to think I'm keeping Duracell in buisness.
 Dating and civvie sex feel a chore and the rare times I have done it it's been awkward and unsatisfying and I'd rather work and enjoy the sex and the money at once. (Plus occasionally work me autopilots civvie me and that can be extraordinarily awkward)

[Rosesugar]

I loved the company of my male friend but he wanted to start getting affectionate and kiss touch my breasts i felt pissed off and disappointed this evening
I didn't realise he interpreted pop over for dinner as we are going to bed together .
I'm not taking his calls at the moment he's definatly not invited back again
If it's a client I expect that and I'd been paid first

[Guiltypleasure]

Private life sex is very different for me and on another level emotionally and physically in a way.

I rarely give punters the chance t go on top , I tend to take control and seduce.

But in my real life I love the weight of a guy on me and the intensity plus the mental connection that's horny

[JustAnotherHooker]

I used to be able to not separate the 2, civvy sex and work sex, but as I’ve got older and more experienced at the job then I have no problem having civvy sex, the only problem is that I have to be in total lust with a civvy guy to enjoy sex otherwise it’s just like having sex with a client but without enjoying the money afterwards

[JustAnotherHooker]

In my case , I'm still very much up for "private sex" . I'm in my mid 40's , no long term partner but I often date for a few weeks at a time and I also indulge occasionally in swinging parties and clubs.
What I find is that I don't really switch off , I stay in the "pleasing mode " and do most of the work , or perhaps I only meet lazy lovers... whichever I soon get bored and move on 

+1 to ‘pleasing mode’, selfish bloody men/crap in bed men - there’s too many to count!