Sick of my profile being totally ignored

[SuperCheese]

I make it obvious in my profile that I do not offer daytime meets, but I still have at least 15 messages a day asking for them. I ask them to read my profile and their answer is there. Almost all reply something like, "oh great, can I have appointment for x time please?". I have a civvy job, so I cannot work during the daytimes, unless of course they want to cover a full day's childcare and loss of earnings. It doesn't seem to matter how many times I say no, I still get asked over and over again.

I can sort of expect it if I have my number up, but this seems to attract total idiots wanting a dirty chat or getting aggressive when I ignore their moronic texts. 

Sorry for the rant, but it's just really winding me up at the moment. If you're going to message someone, at least read their profile. Surely it takes longer to send a message than read a few sentences. 

[Meetingdiversity]

Men never take note, if I was you I would accept this saving myself the stress. We escort guys just want, not all will act the way we want them to. Many who phone me I don't expect them to have read my profile. It saves me from them.

Most don't respect escorts look how time wasters are and rude clients verbally etc. My point is when this is accepted we can blossom. Try it?.

[SuperCheese]

I've tried very hard to accept that they can't be arsed reading my profile, but it's just sheer stupidity to ask me questions I've already answered. It just seems like stupid season, at the moment. I've got more than one messaging a lot asking whether I'm doing daytime yet, as well. I've got another one asking constantly if I'm doing outcalls yet, when I've politely told him that I've got no intention of doing them (especially when he said his 3 teenage kids will be upstairs).

I've accepted and have learned how to deal with abusive men. I'm just sick of answering the same specific question, when there's no actual chance of a booking if they can't make nights. To be fair, I probably wouldn't be arsed if I was getting any real bookings.

[Anais]

Have you thought of using an autoresponse?

That way the message will be loud and clear and the genuine ones will contact you when you are actually available for work.

[Meetingdiversity]

I've tried very hard to accept that they can't be arsed reading my profile, but it's just sheer stupidity to ask me questions I've already answered. It just seems like stupid season, at the moment. I've got more than one messaging a lot asking whether I'm doing daytime yet, as well. I've got another one asking constantly if I'm doing outcalls yet, when I've politely told him that I've got no intention of doing them (especially when he said his 3 teenage kids will be upstairs).

I've accepted and have learned how to deal with abusive men. I'm just sick of answering the same specific question, when there's no actual chance of a booking if they can't make nights. To be fair, I probably wouldn't be arsed if I was getting any real bookings.

Hunny to be fair we need to accept it as it is what it is. I say this nicely to you. When stressed we harm ourselves, no one else.

So don't give clients that power by reacting negatively.  It takes some learning. We attract what we focus on be it good or bad by hold the energies like karma. What we sow we reap meaning what we give out we get back

All the best. Xx.

[SuperCheese]

Am I allowed to put my working times in auto-response?

[mySecret]

Am I allowed to put my working times in auto-response?

i do not think so but you could write that you are not full time or something similar
(wait confirmation from others opinion on here as i am not sure)

[Anais]

Am I allowed to put my working times in auto-response?

Since an auto response is private, then yes, to my knowledge you can.

Mine is very direct.

Also use an autoresponse on your phone (which is what I actually meant) as it's fantastic and you can save up to five different responses.  I use autoresponse pro. ?1 

Between my email auto response and my phone one, the dickheads don't stand a chance.

Feel free to pm me.

[clairebear86]

 I put a thread up about auto responce txt. I use them and they are sent instantly asking to please call in my working hours. 
They still txt back with"yes i will but i only wanted to no were you are..then i will ring"
Almost instantly my auto responce reply repeats until they get the message. My pests txts have reduced loads as they no its pointless. Plus my actual bookings are up. X

[MsLadyV87]

Understand why this is so frustrating and hugs to you xxx

I am off at the moment till the end of Feb. My profile clearly states this (even put it in bold and a few lines away from normal profile) but nope still get requests for dates before then.

Even one guy messaged me and quoted the special deal I offer (which is right of the bottom of the page) WTF? he could read that but missed the very first part on profile??? 

Its annoying but as long as you have clearly stated on your profile your working hours (which you have) what you can do then try not to worry about replying to everyone. Not your problem they cant be bothered to read. Like my profile clearly states I never work past 9pm but I still get loads of missed calls/texts at crazy hours which by then I am fast asleep, I never bother replying xxx

[SuperCheese]

Thanks for all of your advice! I don't mind reasonable texts, which are asking the best time to call, or even if I'm working that day (politely). I can only take calls at select times, as I don't want to be arranging bookings at my civvy job.

I try not to react negatively, but sometimes it feels like I write my profile to be my own private novel!! Some days, I just laugh it off, but it can just really drive me bonkers.

I will toy around with an auto response on my phone, but at the moment, I don't bother putting my number up, as the loonies are out in full force around here. They are given my number if they ask politely for it (most are completely incapable of saying please) for booking purposes only.

Ahh MsLady, I've had texts at crazy hours too... I had one yesterday morning (around 4:30am) asking me to get to Newport for a car meet, very crudely. I would usually ignore, but forgot to put it on silent and the ding woke me up... the reply wasn't friendly.

Thanks again for listening to my rant. I'll also try discreetly wording my aw auto response, as I'm paranoid about profile being pulled, as I literally don't get any interest elsewhere. Xxxx

[MsLadyV87]

Ahh MsLady, I've had texts at crazy hours too... I had one yesterday morning (around 4:30am) asking me to get to Newport for a car meet, very crudely. I would usually ignore, but forgot to put it on silent and the ding woke me up... the reply wasn't friendly.

Yikes! Yeah I can imagine! I would be pretty pissed too! Sometimes im amazed how many missed calls I wake up to, on average its around 8/12! used to think I could be missing out but then I think, nope I have my set hours and will not change them for nobody. Normal sleep pattern is important for me (although quite funny I am typing this at 1am as cant sleep!) haha xx

[SuperCheese]

Yikes! Yeah I can imagine! I would be pretty pissed too! Sometimes im amazed how many missed calls I wake up to, on average its around 8/12! used to think I could be missing out but then I think, nope I have my set hours and will not change them for nobody. Normal sleep pattern is important for me (although quite funny I am typing this at 1am as cant sleep!) haha xx

Ahhhh, I was so mad, I'm such a bitch when I get woken up. I can understand and your own health is top priority. When I'm touring, I tend to just go for it though, if someone messaged me at 1am and they could arrive quickly (after passing screening), I would go for it if I'm still awake. I could work all day on the weekend, but it's my down time to catch up with sleep and spend time with my daughter. During my working hours, I'm totally focused and it means that I don't really go out or spend time with anyone. It's always annoying to think of missed money, but we always need to take care of ourselves first xxx

[Lillys0]

Most men don't read profiles they have their dick in their hand and common sense flies out of the window.

[mature helen]

Just let it be water off a ducks back if it bothers you turn your phone off when not working. I'm part time but now cant put my days or hours on AW (not that it made a halfpenny worth of difference) as they wrote a warning saying I was contravening their T&C's and yes I do get phone calls all hours of the day and night but depending on my mood I either switch off, swipe to the left or put the phone on silent.
Friday afternoon its turned off not to be looked at until Monday morning.
Maybe its something to do with our individual personalities as to what stresses us out.
I have long ago accepted when men are horny they're illiterate.