I don't mess with paypal or bank transfers
i have heard bad stories about paypal with escorts, apparently one escort lost thousands as they just closed her account as soon as they found out it was for a sexual service. and she lost all of the money. i mean i don't know how true that is, but i wouldn't risk it.
i used paypal once and the guy found out my real name and starting calling it me over text
i ask for amazon vouchers for deposits. i buy a lot of things of amazon (from bookings, to renting films, to things for my incall place. and sex supplies etc)
guys can either choose to go and get a voucher from the supermarket/newsagents and send me the code off the back (that way they stay anonymous)
or just transfer money over from their amazon account. (although im pretty sure there is a way to do it if they dont have to have an amazon account)
Just don't forget to change your name to a fake one. i changed my amazon name to my work name.