Clients wanting 'dates'

[AnnaP]

Seem to have nothing but guys sending me photos
Of themselves and asking for face pics and wanting dates!
Don't they understand it isn't a dating service. Asking me
to go for drinks, obviously wanting freebies.
I never send face pics, and I tell them if they're in
any doubt to whether I'm attractive to check my feedback.
How do you respond when they're trying to get a date instead
of a booking where they pay? How can I encourage them to book?

[Justine]

Encouraging them to book could easily turn into hard work clients and a situation where you can not get rid of them pestering and texting you etc, which I am sure you do not want.  If they are wanting dates and free sex they are hardly likely to say ok then here is your fee and I know I am on a timer, out of here in an hour.

Men who persist in this kind of thing deserve one response only, well the one they get from me anyway.  Ignore and block. Do not engage in any chat or explanations, just have connections with those who know what the game is all about, booking, turning up, paying and enjoying, oh and then of course leaving and leaving you alone until they book again! 

[Kay]

I just say something like, 'Of course, I'd love to go to dinner as part of our booking. My social rates are... and then... for bedroom time.'

[chocoholicgirl]

I tell them I charge for my time so if they want a date it's standard price. It's like those that ask 'how much just for a BJ' as if it will miraculously be cheaper as they only want one thing. What do they think I usually do!

I guess you'll find if you tell them your price is the same as for a fuck that will be the last you hear...they are trying to be cheap, simple as. IMO they won't book anyway because they already don't want to pay full price so my advice is move on & forget it. If they were thinking of booking they would have asked for that in the first place.

 

[Rosesugar]

I took dinner dates off my likes list.
I had guys saying and making  all kinds of false promises to take me out but never contacted me again.
I decided to just tell them I'm so busy( because I'm not buying into their bullshit)

[Nora batty]

I very blunt with these types I tell them straight off that I am a prostitute, selling sex.  It kind of dispels any romantic talk lol. 

[barbie88]

I dont really get textes like that asking for dates for free but I do
have clients who have seen me ask me if Im single and can they
take me out I reply saying I do have a dinner date fee and if they
carry on I say I do not date at all hun x

[Candour]

These guys are timewasters, don't even entertain them. Just block them, you'll always get this from time-time but blocking their numbers will eventually reduce it. 

[AnnaP]

Thank you for the advice guys. Yes I've told two
of them that I'm not a dating service and poof! They've disappeared
lol x