Possible Article: Setting Up Your Own Website?

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Possible Article: Setting Up Your Own Website?
« on: January 18, 2011, 09:56:04 AM »
From what I can see, the main site has a couple of great links in the Recommendations article but doesn't include specific instructions on how to buy a domain name and hosting space in case someone wants to take the route of uploading their own site using software like Wordpress etc - unless I'm missing it somewhere?

I think it could be a useful in-between step worth mentioning since Moonfruit sites are (sorry) often hideous and seem to be hard to make attractive, and amazing professional sites can be so expensive that they're not ideal for someone who might not have even done their first booking yet. But I think it's possible to get your own site up and running with minimal time & cash, while still having access to loads of easy but powerful options for customisation of features and appearance afterwards.

I'll start with the important bit - money! If you want to host your own site and have your own domain (yourname.com instead of yourname.othercompany.com), you'll need to pay maybe £3-5 per month for the hosting space and perhaps £5-10 per year for your domain name. You can buy both of these things from a domain registrar like Amberhosts.com (**see end for special note) - it should be quite a simple process but if you get confused about what's on offer with the different hosting price plans, it's a good idea to call or email them. If you can't contact your hosting company for help quickly and easily then you really don't want to buy hosting space from them anyway, so it's a good idea to find this out early!

You'll need to pay for a year's worth of domain name registration (you own the domain for a year and will have to keep paying the same fee every year that you keep it) and a month's worth of hosting space (at least) upfront, so that could be around £8-15 outlay. That should be all your spending. It's not as cheap as a free site, obviously, but hosting your pages on your own server space will give you that much more control over the whole thing. You will be able to add plugins (an availability calendar, a contact form, a swishy gallery), download or modify new themes (some are free and simple, some cost a little but should be more flexible) and so on, with a Wordpress (or other CMS) install, too.

Since an average escort website needs things like a homepage (for the adult content warning to go on), an 'about' page (for lots of lovely info), a contact page, a gallery page, and maybe a blog, I do think Wordpress (which is free) is a good option. But it's by no means the only option, so if anyone has had a good experience with any similar but different software they should definitely mention it here! Wordpress now comes with a really flexible free theme (you can check out a preview here) included which you can customise with colours and pictures of your own, but which stays essentially professional-looking and clean in layout. You do not need to write any code to customise it - it all happens in the Admin Area once you've installed the software in your hosting space.

Wordpress has instructions on its site for installing it, but I think the best thing to do is check with your hosting company before buying hosting space whether they offer easy Wordpress installation with their hosting (it should be a free and included service if so). They should be able to provide you with some really simple instructions to get going; once you have Wordpress installed, it's simple to log in and start playing around - make sure you've got the TwentyTen theme selected; change the content and graphics; add static pages including one for your blogposts to go on; etc etc.

The Wordpress site has tons of information on everything from adding your first static page and writing your first blogpost, to installing plugins and modifying the theme stylesheets to create a unique look, should you wish to rummage under the bonnet of your site. There are also other articles like this one [Thanks to CeCe!] which suggests one easy method of installing Wordpress if you're using a Windows computer, and there are probably dozens of other great articles like that so if you know of any or find any, please do add to this thread!

Overall, I'd say the positives and negatives of using this method to build a website are as follows:

+ Hosting your own website (with Wordpress or another CMS installed) means you'll have access to plugins and other easy but powerful ways to customise your site.
+ Wordpress is, of course, primarily blogging software so you'll always be able to quickly and easily pop a blog onto your site if you want one.
+ Owning your own domain name and hosting space means that you have more control over your website. If you want it taken down, you log into your hosting account and delete everything. If you want to move to a different hosting company, you can do that easily, too. Changing your domain name is as simple as buying a new one. And so on!

- On the other hand, you will need to pay the monthly or yearly fees for your domain and host, which - although minimal and tax-deductible - might still be too much of an investment for someone brand-new to the industry.
- It will also take a little time getting your domain and hosting registered and set up; it should easily be done in 24 hours (your hosting company will need to set up your Wordpress database for you, in some (all?) cases, so you'll need to wait for them to do that) even though the actual work on your part is much quicker; there is a smudge of waiting involved.

Right. I was thinking perhaps this thread could contain any and all Q&A about this process - if anyone even fancies attempting it! - and then perhaps later I can put together a sort of FAQ to go with a revised and simplified set of instructions and pros'n'cons, with all helpful contributions definitely noted, for the main page, if desired.

(I made my own site this way, if that won't put everyone right off ;D, albeit with a custom theme, and I've made a couple of sites with templates for friends - and I know other people here on the forum have used Wordpress or other software successfully in building or adding to their own sites, so there should be plenty of help for anyone who needs it here!)

**Special Note: Make sure your hosting company allows adult content! Again, it's best to ask this before purchasing anything, and it's best to ask them directly, as that will also help give you an overall idea of their level of customer service.
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Re: Possible Article: Setting Up Your Own Website?
« Reply #1 on: March 15, 2011, 10:04:42 AM »
Just adding a note to say that xw5's website service (see details in this thread) does all this for you. You need to buy your domain name and some hosting space (again, around £5 per month for the latter and £7 per year for the former) but after that, it's all completely free.

You'll be able to customise the template you're given, too, and it will look much slicker than anything made with a free website builder. :)
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« Reply #2 on: March 15, 2011, 05:48:29 PM »
On the subject of domain names, a .co.uk and a few other .uk variants are registered for a minimum of two years, although often priced annually, they are also renewable bi annually, so if the price is per year double it. .com's are done annually.

Its also worth pointing out while registering your .co.uk domain it has a whois opt out option, that is for UK individuals, and while many escorts use it, bear in mind its not full proof as nominet who handle .co.uk registrations rightly see escorting as a business/trade and will take the whois opt out option off, if they are alerted to it thus exposing your details in the whois record viewable by anybody.

I also think when registering a domain to do it in your working name, while strictly speaking your not meant to, I have yet to see nominet take anybody to court to prove lindasuckyourlovejuice wasn't actually christened that.
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Re: Possible Article: Setting Up Your Own Website?
« Reply #3 on: April 26, 2011, 05:34:14 PM »

Moonfruit is good if you know how to make websites, I have made mine on moonfruit and it works on iphones as well as a html version. Some sites on moonfruit can look tacky if you don't do them properly. Hot escort website design makes sites using moonfruit and they look amazing. I have seen some html sites and some that I have seen are not very good.

123 register is a good option if you want to start from scatch. If anyone was thinking of learning html, javascript, css etc it's best to buy a book on it or learn online through various different websites. I used to design websites from scratch when I was about 16 lol but I don't do that anymore, I find it so time consuming !

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« Reply #4 on: May 09, 2011, 06:13:56 AM »
Also just a note about choosing a hosting company - make sure they allow adult websites! DreamHost doesn't like adult websites and their T & C's state they have the right to shut it down without warning.

Do your research on adult content hosting providers before purchasing your hosting  :)

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Re: Possible Article: Setting Up Your Own Website?
« Reply #5 on: May 09, 2011, 09:17:02 AM »
Also just a note about choosing a hosting company - make sure they allow adult websites! DreamHost doesn't like adult websites and their T & C's state they have the right to shut it down without warning.

Do your research on adult content hosting providers before purchasing your hosting  :)

I did mention this in my article, but thanks for the heads up about DreamHost; I'll remove them above.

It might also be important to note here that while Amberhosts (as mentioned on the main SAAFE site in the Recommendations article) allow adult content, there IS a website for "Amberhost" which do not. Make sure you don't buy hosting from the wrong one! ;)

ETA: When researching for my article, I did discover that DreamHost DO allow adult content on their site (see their Wiki/FAQ here) but unfortunately it has to be content that is legal in the US, which escorting isn't. So yes, avoid them and make sure your host allows adult content that's legal in the UK. As said above, you can always just email them to find out, and this can also be a good time to find out whether their customer service dept is up to scratch.
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« Reply #6 on: June 09, 2011, 08:09:43 PM »
I've been paying for hosting for a few months and never seemed to get around to installing Wordpress on my new laptop to make use of it. Last night I decided to dedicate the whole evening to getting the ball rolling in designing my site. I first consulted Emily's excellent article to give myself an overview of the project. I noticed the last 2 posts and a cold dread started to crawl over me. I checked which hosting I'd purchased and sure enough it was Amberhosts.com. However when I checked my terms and conditions I discovered they definitely DO allow adult content (the only stipulation being that no children were involved).
During the evening I ran into a few problems that I couldn't solve and emailed the admin. First thing this morning I'd received a very helpful, friendly reply  giving me the solutions to all my issues and then far more help than I'd even thought to ask for. Jayne, the lady who runs things, said she had a guide for setting up Wordpress she used to pass onto ladies and she'd try to find it for me.
I was so impressed by the level of service that I emailed back asking if adult content definitely was allowed and  I'm pleased to report that the response couldn't have been more escort friendly in any way, shape or form. Jayne also said she couldn't find the guide she'd mentioned but she written out a new one for me (sure enough it arrived immediately after) and invited me to contact her if I came across anything she'd forgotten to include or had any further questions.
I guess what I'm trying to say is I really can't recommend Amberhosts.com highly enough, talk about exceeding expectations and going above and beyond the call of duty! Perhaps it's the Amberhost which is to be avoided, but I couldn't care less about them or anyone else, I'm sticking with the hosting I've got (and getting to work on my new site).

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Re: Possible Article: Setting Up Your Own Website?
« Reply #7 on: June 09, 2011, 08:51:21 PM »
Perhaps it's the Amberhost which is to be avoided, but I couldn't care less about them or anyone else, I'm sticking with the hosting I've got (and getting to work on my new site).

You're right; I'll edit my post above again to reflect that it's Amberhosts which are a good choice and Amberhost which are a bad one.

Bloody 'ell. There's gotta be some other names out there to pick, right? ;D
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« Reply #8 on: June 09, 2011, 10:38:59 PM »
Also just a note about choosing a hosting company - make sure they allow adult websites! DreamHost doesn't like adult websites and their T & C's state they have the right to shut it down without warning.

Do your research on adult content hosting providers before purchasing your hosting  :)

Very important point!  Webs is easy to use, inexpensive and I liked the website I made with it...but they don't allow adult websites, and this is not very clear in the T&Cs when you set it up.

Another important thing that I was not aware of when I purchased my domain  - whois and domain tools....if you can buy the privacy option do it, if not, as Anjali says, register the site in your working name and address!
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« Reply #9 on: June 10, 2011, 04:19:26 AM »
One thing I've found with the free sites like Moonfruit and escortsite.com, is Escort listing sites like Punternet.com won't allow them.:-(
Guess who has a free site!

I really must get on to getting a proper site made with professional photo's.
Thanks for all the info Emily.

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« Reply #10 on: June 10, 2011, 11:51:54 PM »
If you pay for your own domain name Moonfruit is fine for most places. I've got a Moonfruit site and I don't think there's anywhere I've not been able to advertise.

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« Reply #11 on: June 13, 2011, 09:55:40 AM »
At the danger of sounding very stupid (which I am regarding computers) does anyone know of anyone who can build a website cheaply?

I've tried the moonfruit and getting nowhere!! ??? ???

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« Reply #12 on: June 13, 2011, 11:57:39 AM »
At the danger of sounding very stupid (which I am regarding computers) does anyone know of anyone who can build a website cheaply?

YourEscortSite.com (xw5's project, with templates that I make but those are only cosmetic so not required/necessary) can help you put together a simple but elegant website with lots of potential functionality and almost infinite potential customisation once you've gotten used to using it. It'll be a Wordpress site so nobody will be making anything truly custom for you, hence the cheapness, but if you don't mind that you can always have a browse and see if you like the look of anything.

My website, for example, is built on Wordpress with a custom template and it therefore only costs me the small monthly/yearly fees for my domain & hosting.
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« Reply #13 on: June 22, 2011, 11:06:34 AM »
I don't know what other girls' experience has been with building their own website, but for me the actual content, writing the text especially, has been the more difficult part of the experience. As a newbie, I didn't quite know what to say about myself, so I jotted down a few ideas (most paraphrased from other escorts websites I'd seen) and little by little started to personalize it over time. The actual design of the website was about 30-40% of the effort and time I'd put into the website as a whole, and it actually was quite simple to do once I'd got used to the Moonfruit interface. The content (text + pictures) took the bulk of my efforts, about 60-70%.

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« Reply #14 on: June 26, 2011, 05:58:45 PM »
... since Moonfruit sites are (sorry) often hideous and seem to be hard to make attractive
Moonfruit had a major makeover in April and has introduced many new features and templates since then, with which really good websites can now be made. But their terms and conditions are not that escort-friendly, as I found out personally:  http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=5769.0