Wirral waster? Or was it just me??

[Liverbird]

Hi again;-)

Another one for the books I think!
 
Had several texts initially, the first to determine the cost. I replied. The second to ask re 'A' levels and I replied to that one... stating a small fee for the service. I asked him to phone, which he did, when he asked me again re 'A' levels. I reiterated, stating fee, bla bla bla!
He booked there and then, I gave a time (less than an hour from then) and asked him to ring when he got to end of road. He did, asking me if my place was discreet, which I confirmed. He arrived and we went through to the room.
It was only then, as he got his wallet out that he said, "you do CIM don't you?". I told him it wasn't something I usually did and asked why hadn't he mentioned it when he asked about 'A' levels. He made to walk out! I stood in his way and told him I'd wasted an hour of my life organising the appt and wasn't happy! He said he'd stay and got ?-- out. It wasn't the amount that we'd agreed. I told him. He went to walk out again... I told him he wasn't walking out, I was going to kick his arse out and if he even looked at me again, I'd call Mellors from the garden!!! ( I did kick his arse too, as he went out of the back gate!!)
If he didn't fancy me, he could've walked away at the start... He was a shitbag and if anyone wants his number, PM me ok?xwx

[EmilyJones]

You mean you literally kicked him?!

And you say that he did try to leave at the start, but you tried to make him stay rather than accept a small amount for time wasted and letting him go? I personally wouldn't ask for more than ?20 if someone showed up and didn't want to stay; I think that's about average? I would never expect a full hour's fee unless he wanted to stay and receive services for that whole time.

Sorry if I've misread your post. I just think perhaps these points may need clarifying because it currently sounds like this poor bloke didn't really do anything wrong (except try to arrange a booking by text and not checking the services page of your website!).

[Liverbird]

Sorry if I wasn't very clear in my post. I didn't ask him for the full payment for wasting my time! It seemed rather obvious to me that he had no intention of staying and paying for the agreed time and fee. I did expect a nominal fee tho' and told him so.
I forgot to add, that as soon as he walked in, he asked if it was ok to come as many times as he liked. I said that was fine.(the booking was for half an hour!) He probably expected me to say no and he'd have walked out then! He just kept putting obstacles up, waiting for me to say no! I did actually agree to the CIM, as he was going to walk out when I said I didn't usually, so did try to meet him in the middle as it were. Then it was the money (lack of) that he produced, after we had agreed a price beforehand. He was a waster, believe me! We exchanged at least half a dozen texts as well as 2 phonecalls. It was all very clear! And yes I did kick out at his backside as he left! I was made to feel inadequate from the moment he walked in and I was bloody angry!


Amanda.x

[Fabreeze]

Maybe he got nervous or just wanted to "have a look"

But do not take it personal - People can be such jerks!

[EmilyJones]

Amanda - thanks for clarifying. I do think clients should be able to leave if they arrive and don't like what they see for whatever reason, only paying a really nominal fee to cover wasted preparation time and deter "lookers", and wouldn personally never negotiate services (ever!) so yes, I would've kicked this guy out for rudeness, too.

I've only once had someone turn up with ?50 less than my hourly fee and although I did say he could have half an hour for the amount he'd brought, I was so completely gobsmacked and shocked at his disgustingly disrespectful behaviour (especially when you can find a cheaper escort than me within about two minutes on Adultwork! So it's not like I'm forcing or manipulating anyone into bankruptcy; it's entirely their choice to pay what they want but they have to choose an escort that charges the right amount for them, obviously! It was clearly just nastiness that made him try to rip me off) and he seemed pretty ashamed of himself (or peed off that I wasn't going to let him pay afterwards so his foul little plan wouldn't work!) so he scuttled out like a weird little insect right away. I didn't take a nominal fee for him wasting my time because I was so bloody glad he'd gone - all my clients are completely normal, lovely guys so it was very strange for me to meet someone so shifty-looking and with such a mean attitude. Ugh. It's such a shame as well because meeting just one guy like that makes you about ten times more wary which is a shame for all the lovely guys out there.

Anyway - bit less kicking in future, though, perhaps, if only cos being sued by a timewaster for assault would be pretty bloody annoying.

[Fabreeze]

What Emily  said is so true.

I have not "done" that many men but all the experiences I had were okay, except for today, and it really threw me off!

So hold ya head up ducky!

[Liverbird]

Thanks ladies!

I'm happy to say that I've only come across a handful of these 'waster' types during approx the 12 months since I've been escorting, albeit, the majority, in the last month or so!!
It was so quiet over the last few months that I had decided to rent the room in my house to secure a regular income. Then we decided to move into the 21st century and advertise on the internet instead of just the local papers! Business has picked up since, although, along with the increase in successful bookings, so the inevitable increase in 'Mr Waster'
It's something I obviously have to adapt to, the pro's and con's of the job. I find it difficult though, not taking it personally, I suppose, because ultimately, it is personal!

Kind regards to all of you, as always, for your much appreciated help
Amanda.xwx

[Liverbird]

P.S!!!!

Emily, do you think I could make it as a Dom with my 'kick ass' attitude
Only teasing, I'm a pussycat really... she purrred
A.xwx