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ElleCouture

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #15 on: 06 September 2011, 01:17:57 pm »
Not being difficult, or trying to confuse, but just a small disclaimer to throw in there. I have been fortunate enough to find that the cases where...

- anyone who says they are looking for a new regular
- anyone who says they want an overnight or 4+ hour appointment for a first booking
- be careful of guys who say they want social bookings to 'get to know you' etc. beforehand

have actually been real life genuine clients.

However, I still handle each and everyone of the above with a huge handful of salt. Until phone calls have been made, safety and security checks have been carried out, and I actually have the correct amount of money stashed away in my bag, I treat them like they are going to be a timewaster.

Like others have said, spotting timewasters is something you pick up over time. There are some obvious things that will set the alarm bells off, but you'll come up gradually with your own things that set your spidey-senses tingling. For me, I just make as many hoops as I can possibly think of for guys to jump through, if they don't jump high enough they don't get to see me. Simples. I actually had one guy though say to me "considering what you do, you're making it very hard for me to see you". Funnily enough he didn't make it through the 'polite & respectful hoop'.

The genuine clients will jump through the hoops. The timewasters will drop out pretty quickly, the fantasists will disappear once the specially reserved 'pay me a deposit hoop' gets brought out and the not-so-nice people will cause a fuss about the hoops and you don't really want to see them anyways so it's a good thing too!

(sorry for getting carried away about hoops  ;) )

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #16 on: 06 September 2011, 04:44:58 pm »
Also:

Anyone who asks for you to text a photo to them or texts you a photo of their cock.
Anyone who makes an appointment and then asks what you look like after making the booking. 
Anyone who asks if you would indulge their fetish for smelly feet/shoes/armpits etc.
Anyone who asks if you do anal and then ask if size is a problem.

Like everyone says you will get your own spidey senses after a while.  don't forget to check the timewaster section of the site.

Jas x

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #17 on: 06 September 2011, 06:56:00 pm »
I find it funny that most guys who say they are -

Fit
Attractive
Well Endowed
Rich
And will become a regular

are time wasters, but my favourite reg is all of the above and, apart from the having money bit, had no idea!

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #18 on: 06 September 2011, 08:12:38 pm »
I find it funny that most guys who say they are -

Fit
Attractive
Well Endowed
Rich
And will become a regular

are time wasters, but my favourite reg is all of the above and, apart from the having money bit, had no idea!

Oh, I know what you mean - some of my favourite clients are all of those things but they'd never mention it themselves because, well, because they aren't tedious fools. :P
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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #19 on: 06 September 2011, 08:20:22 pm »
I find it funny that most guys who say they are -

Fit
Attractive
Well Endowed
Rich
And will become a regular

are time wasters, but my favourite reg is all of the above and, apart from the having money bit, had no idea!

Oh, I know what you mean - some of my favourite clients are all of those things but they'd never mention it themselves because, well, because they aren't tedious fools. :P

Yeah this particular guy is like 2 coke cans stacked one on top of the other yet was genuinely surprised when I went  :o lol poor guy watches too my porn lol

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #20 on: 07 September 2011, 07:37:18 am »
For me its just a gut instinct i diont know why but i can sort of tell there lying plus all of what the other girls have said applies.
I think with haveing a lying ex husband and four sons that like to tell you the odd fib as helped lol :D
Your a young mans fool and old mans darlin x

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #21 on: 07 September 2011, 11:10:39 am »
There is also another type of timewaster that rarely gets a mention;

He books you the one time, just so you can experience his *God-liness and stud-ability* ( because a straight call offering his Escort services has resulted in shrieking laughter and the phone being cut dead more times than he can remember )

At the end of the first booking when you assure him he has performed like a King and is quite a catch ( flattery sinks in deepest post-coital  ;) ) He starts to hint at his interest himself at your career and wonders if you ever need a partner? When that results in a negative, he leaves it a few weeks then starts to text matey little stuff like; " Hey, what u up to?" and " fancy chillaxin wiv me?" He wants sex with you again, but no way will he pay for it twice with the same Escort!! That's for old fat blokes who can't get it for free right?  He sends you unrequested topless pics to remind you of his hunkability ( I even have one of these who always signs off as " The Greek God" - I swear on Channel that I have never suggested he is such a thing! )  :P

He will even go so far as vaguely making a booking with you but, when you remind him of your rate before getting ready to meet ( and it includes no stud-muffin discount whatsoever ) He texts to cancel. He will  attempt to keep regular contact with you in this way for the rest of your Escort life or (less likely) until he meets an Escort that will be his girlfriend.

For me, these timewasters are treated just the same as the ones I have never met and marked for life in my phone and diary.

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #22 on: 08 September 2011, 10:13:19 pm »
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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #23 on: 09 September 2011, 09:10:17 am »
lol I have a guy who keeps emailing me saying "if you're ever single let me know, I would love you to be my girlfriend and I have no problem with what you do" Which I always laugh at since it's very high minded as he pays for the service!

I also forgot to mention 100% of the "virgins" who've told me before booking have been time wasters. I would probably add those guys to the 1st time overnighter, group or couple etc group. I wouldn't hold my breath for them.

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #24 on: 09 September 2011, 09:38:20 am »
And "virgins" as far as hiring an escort, as well!

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #25 on: 09 September 2011, 05:23:02 pm »
Yep, someone told me he was new to this hence all the questions. Then went on to ask if 1 hour was 1 hour, because he'd had bad experience with girls kicking him out after he had come very early into the appointment time.

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #26 on: 20 June 2012, 03:57:07 pm »
Sorry to resurrect an old post but I?ve got some TW activity to add as well?

Asking at least one question per email to prolong the correspondence as long as possible

Asking about my private life, i.e. about my boyfriend or my masturbation habits

Asking how often I orgasm with clients

Asking if I would tell them how bookings with other clients have gone (before meeting obviously!)

Asking what the biggest cock I?ve had is

Asking if I get naturally wet

Plus all the others that have already been mentioned, especially the ?my mate gave me your number? (funny how the mate never thinks to give them my website address though, or give them any info at all!), ?I like to give pleasure, so what do you like sexually??, and ?I?m looking for a new regular lady?.
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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #27 on: 20 June 2012, 04:19:17 pm »
Texting and asking 'hello is this ......?'  :FF
Emailing and asking 'How do I make a booking?'
Can I have your number?
Can I phone you?
I have read your profile and would like to ask a few questions. Sends number... ::)
No introduction whatsoever. 'could you please text/email your postcode'
Hello nice to meet you :)

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #28 on: 20 June 2012, 04:38:44 pm »
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(funny how the mate never thinks to give them my website address though, or give them any info at all!

 I've been having lately tons of "my mate gave me your number can I have some details please" calls. I guess it's the hot weather. Mine is a 3 second answer:

"Google my number. Read my website. Look at my photos and call me back if still interested. Good bye!"
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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #29 on: 21 June 2012, 05:34:11 pm »
After about half a year in i am now seeing the tws....
today text: can u come to ibstock for outcall. reply: yes no problem book me through aw or call with details. next text can u do CIM OWO AND ANAL in half hr... reply: no too far for half hr. two days in a row he did that..

next one, text: i would like to meet sometime, reply: make a booking.

next one, do u do bla bla bla, reply: please read my profile...
hard work  :FF :FF