Spotting timewasters

[JustAnotherHooker]

There is one man who I call Leather skirt timewaste because he has texted me on and off for 3 years and always asks Hi Justine I will make a booking today but can you wear a leather skirt and suspenders etc. His very first text to me got a Yes please phone to arrange reply but he didn't.

He has not yet phoned me and the fact I never replied after my first response does not put him off.

They must think we are desperate and stupid and will give them a free text wank. Sadly though I think some wgs will do it hoping for a booking.

My instinct yesterday told me that a guy was absolutely fine and he ended up being a time wasting address collector so why the hell did my gut let me down??

[LuluLoves]

@Justanotherhooker

Even those of us with the most finely tuned TW senses will get caught out from time to time -  don't beat yourself up about it, I suspect some of these guys practice their spiel over hundreds of phone calls a year!

[Kayclouds]

If the caller is asking for a booking the following day or later on ask to be called back an hour or so before to confirm and give postcode details. Time wasters don't usually bother calling back!

[Nonyer]

If the caller is asking for a booking the following day or later on ask to be called back an hour or so before to confirm and give postcode details. Time wasters don't usually bother calling back!

Whereas the more unhinged TW actually do continue their charade until the bitter end, pretending they are in certain places at certain times.

This is where the landmarks we can see out of our windows come in useful. 

More often than not the genuine client who is indeed where he states to be will offer up information about his surroundings.

[little-minx]

Argh.  Thought I'd honed my TW radar down to a T but clearly not.  First no show in months.  Shouldn't complain really because I used to get them a lot.  He rang me on Friday and I had a bit of a feeling that he might be a TW then...constant use of the word "babe" not letting me get off the phone and asking more questions.  But he rang today and said the same name he told me on Friday (I've found a lot of time wasters tell you a different name which is why I always save someone's name in my phone) and rang when he said he'd ring and had read my profile.  So annoyed with myself because I should have followed the gut instinct I had on Friday but I didn't with it being quiet for me today.  Oh well.  Lesson learnt.  Weeded out a bunch of others today so we can't win them all!

[MARIPOSA 76]

Hello ladies...
When your instinct warns you that a man is a TW, dangerous, or that has bad intentions or is problematic ....

I realize these signs:

1- Ask many questions and try to be on the phone as long as possible.

2- He has never come and does not know you Does stupid message like: "address?", "Hi how are you" "how much?"

3- When you phone and ask uncomfortable questions, like: you very busy today? Have you had many customers today? are you alone? do you do good service?

4- Demands of services that you know you do not do.

5- He has never come and without knowing your address he says to you on the phone: "I'm here in 5 minutes"

6- Those who make a booking with a day or days in advance and want to spend 24 or 48 hours with textsex for free

What other signs do you realize you are talking about or trying a TW or Problem?

[Treetop]

Insanely complimentary phone calls.
Wants address far too early
Asks if I'm alone
Tells me how rich they are or how they will pay more than my rate
Anyone I've never met before offering a holiday
Emails over 3 paragraphs. (I'm iffy anything over one and a couple of lines)
Has zero feedback but wants an overnight.
Anything that starts with "I'm a male escort/porn star/or makes reference to how very sexy they are and how they will make me scream etc"
Anyone and everyone who can't rember my name or rates when I ask them, even if I tell then they probably won't show up
Asks sexual or service questions more than once.

[VoluptuousCurves]

3- When you phone and ask uncomfortable questions, like: you very busy today? Have you had many customers today? are you alone? do you do good service?

I would put that one in the "DANGER! ATTEMPTED ROBBERY!" bracket rather than TW.

If I feel like a guy is having a wank over the phone I'll say something completely random. If he reacts "Huh?" then he's actually listening rather than rubbing one out. If he just goes "Oh yeah babe, sounds good" then he's wanking and I hang up.

I generally have a good instinct and I often write in my appointments book "12:00 Dave, half hour GFE, confirm 11, probably won't" and prove myself right.

[Rosesugar]

The ones who are gushing with compliments seen your pictures want to come see you as soon as possible.
I  try to pin point them to booking a time.
They divert to what I can do what I'll wear .
I say I'll  discuss things with you after you've made your booking
Again divert.asks sexuall questions oh can I ask you something do you do  .. things that will make them aroused on the line.
I tell them i take bookjngs , they say they want post code I tell them its not far from a specific town
They either expose themselves by saying oh I'll call back in 5 mins let me check that on my map
Or book and not show ,or cancel or say they are stuck in traffic at the exact time they are meant to be with you.

[Emma_C]

TWs - all of the above &
Asking to buy used knickers at the end
Chopping & changing the time
Asking for 2/3 specific outfit choices
Change in name from last time they called
Continuing with the conversation when you say the sound/signal is bad & to call back
Anyone who calls me before 9 am - 90% of the time is a TW (morning glory)

Edit; any guy who asks for a PVC outfit 100% of the time has proven to be a fantasist.

[Wailing Banshee]

Tells you how big his cock is or sends a photo of some sort of monster cock.

[Rosesugar]

Tells you how big his cock is or sends a photo of some sort of monster cock.

 

[jo-jo]

TW texts=When this is the entire text they send (I've asked that no contact be made via text on my profile)

"Hi'", "Hi sweetie", "Hi honey", "You're sexy", "you available", "What can I get for xx amount (that is less than your rate)", "You working", "You open", "How much" , "When are you coming to xx location", "me and my wife (bla bla bla) couple booking"

or even the more thought about text-- " Hello, Im xx and I'd love to see you at xx. Can't call you because of (insert excuse) but can I come see you? Please let me know if you can wear xxx"  You reply saying to them to call you when they can and they proceed to say how they are in meetings all day... ::)uh huh. TW.

[Ellie B]

TWs - all of the above &
Asking to buy used knickers at the end
Chopping & changing the time
Asking for 2/3 specific outfit choices
Change in name from last time they called
Continuing with the conversation when you say the sound/signal is bad & to call back
Anyone who calls me before 9 am - 90% of the time is a TW (morning glory)

Edit; any guy who asks for a PVC outfit 100% of the time has proven to be a fantasist.

I have had all of these in the past week - fortunately my TW radar switched on to maximum so no one that I agreed to meet.
Tws are not good at lying! The longer we do this job,  the more accurate we are in spotting them!!

[katrina]

" I'm looking for a regular lady who I can spend time with on a very regular basis"    *yawns*