mumsnet question - how many men have used a prositute

[EmilyJones]

I think it's more that people who haven't had cough-hundred sexual partners don't realise that physical attraction often doesn't play much part in whether or not you can have a good time being sexual with someone.

Particularly if they've bought into and heavily invested [their whole lives] in the idea that "all virtuous women need just one man to love and cherish forever and ever [cos otherwise you're a big slut who'll never get a husband or be invited to dinner parties!]".

There's nothing inherently wrong with following a traditional path, obviously - but it's probably not a good idea to assume that, as a person, you can necessarily just do one thing and then be done with it. Maybe if you're lucky to find the one thing that makes everything 100% perfect for you 100% of the time! But that's really, really unusual. I think most of us need a broad range of experiences in life to feel really satisfied and avoiding that because of the fear of being considered "bad/slutty" is a real shame.

Also, entertaining your bored self by coming along and poking at prossies like a scientist prodding rats in a lab is fairly absurd, too. We aren't indecipherable specimens; we're just people who feel a little more free to make our own choices in life than many others do. As indoor sex workers, we're very fortunate and privileged to be able to earn quite a lot of money [usually] safely in a relatively short amount of time. And I think being able to disengage from the "OMG women can't do teh sexx without being IN LUV" idea is just another huge advantage for us.

Just wait

Yeah, to be perfectly honest, I actually can't wait til I get myself a little housewife to dress herself and the children in matching Boden outfits - while doing all the cooking and cleaning for me, too, of course. I expect she'll be deeply fulfilled from such an engaging life task!

[ParisB]

wow didnt think this thread was still going

  unless you have walked a mile in my expensive  jimmy choos, or stamped on a guys dick with them or made a guy lick them clean and get paid for it  ,   please dont  state what we do and dont like as prostitutes,    You might not enjoy sex with a guy you dont fancy,  but thank fuck for us that do  ie us prostitutes,   if you did enjoy sex with guys you didnt fancy then we whores would be out of business pretty quick so thanks for keeping me in my jimmy choos and not boden   
 
 as i prostitute  i can assure you ,were not all hard done by skanky crack head whores who are being exploited by men and need to be rescued and saved  that have been abused by men or people in our lives
thats the ones that are shown on tv, or portrayed in the media,  prositutes that have made a good living educated themselves, bought property privatly educated there children  are more common than most fail to realise, i count myself in this category   this sort of prostitute dosnt really sell newspapers as its pretty boring  in fact its probably what i would call a boden sort of prostitute 

  and ive met plenty of women that are like the op of the mumsnet thread ,   emotionally fucked up cant function in relationships ect need counsling  beacause of men or people in there lives  and they arent prostitutes  often they are professional women with well paid jobs and careers you dont need to be a hooker to be fucked by men or fucked by anyone its just that we get paid for it     
personally  i would rather be fucked by a man physically with or without the cash  than fucked by a man emotionally and mentally 
   

 

No I hacven't worked as a prostitute, but I don't think I need to have experience of the work.  I am a woman and I would most definitely NOT  enjoy having sex with a man I did not not fancy physically, in the same way as a man I did fancy.  I am not saying it could not be a pleasant enough encounter, but that's it.  I do believe that it is a=only a small percentage of women(or men) or really do like having sex with anyone.

Unless working a a prostitute is you only sex life, and even then, I cannot believe that you can be that sexually attracted to these men.

And no, I don't believe that it is only men who have to pay for it that see escorts.  What I meant was how ridiculous it sounds when a man states he has made a connection with a prostitute.  Surely it can never be the same thrill as meeting a woman who actually wants to go out with you/have sex because she actually physically fancies you.

I am generalising and I know that some men like the thrill and are good looking and can pull, those who already have a good sex life at home.  These will be in the minority though.  I am guessing in the main, most clients are married men who are middle aged who could not pull a 20 yr old woman!

[Mellow]

wow didnt think this thread was still going

  unless you have walked a mile in my expensive  jimmy choos, or stamped on a guys dick with them or made a guy lick them clean and get paid for it  ,   please dont  state what we do and dont like as prostitutes,    You might not enjoy sex with a guy you dont fancy,  but thank fuck for us that do  ie us prostitutes,   if you did enjoy sex with guys you didnt fancy then we whores would be out of business pretty quick so thanks for keeping me in my jimmy choos and not boden   
 
 as i prostitute  i can assure you ,were not all hard done by skanky crack head whores who are being exploited by men and need to be rescued and saved  that have been abused by men or people in our lives
thats the ones that are shown on tv, or portrayed in the media,  prositutes that have made a good living educated themselves, bought property privatly educated there children  are more common than most fail to realise, i count myself in this category   this sort of prostitute dosnt really sell newspapers as its pretty boring  in fact its probably what i would call a boden sort of prostitute 

  and ive met plenty of women that are like the op of the mumsnet thread ,   emotionally fucked up cant function in relationships ect need counsling  beacause of men or people in there lives  and they arent prostitutes  often they are professional women with well paid jobs and careers you dont need to be a hooker to be fucked by men or fucked by anyone its just that we get paid for it     
personally  i would rather be fucked by a man physically with or without the cash  than fucked by a man emotionally and mentally 
 

Well said Paris particularly like your last sentence 

[figa98]

Fab post Paris,I could not agree with you more