I met this guy (Matt) about 3 years ago, before I was escorting and just doing massage. I was VERY naive in those days and he said he'd teach me how to do tantric massage (God I'm laughing at myself now at how green I was in those days!) So he came to my flat and I must admit he gave a fantastic massage but then tried to bb me. I ended up asking him to leave. Totally freaked me out but he left ok.
Over the years he's bugged me by text, phone, email and even found me on facebook.
A few months ago I had a text from an unknown number asking for a massage. I asked where he got my number and he said off gumtree years ago. Told him I'm no longer massaging and referred him to my AW profile. He contacted me several times, told me his name was Tom and he was a young black guy living in Highbury. I had that gut feeling (plus anyone from gumtree was a no no for me after the trouble I'd have with clients from there) and always made an excuse not to go.
Today I got a Happy New Year text from the number I've saved as Tom/Gumtree/Massage/young black guy, Highbury/ creepy. Silly me replied saying...and Happy New Year to you too Tom.
He said, My name isn't Tom, it's Josh from Newbury park.
That totally threw me. So I said...Sorry must have saved the number wrong, don't remember any Josh or Newbury Park.
He said...OMG how could you forget me, I came to your flat and gave you a tantric massage, I thought we had something special!!!!!!! WTF!
I said...so you're Matt? He said...Oh Yes you knew me as Matt!
Haven't replied any more, but it made the hair on the back of my neck stand on edge.
The number I have for him as Matt is 07938008*** and the number I have for Tom/Josh is 07730535***
Hope I've made sense, as it's all a bit confusing!
Oh and Matt is short, medium build, in his 40's and white, so really freaky that he tried to book me as a young black guy several times? He's very odd:-(