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lili69

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Oral Without?
« on: 20 February 2012, 01:46:33 pm »
When I started out doing this I decided not to offer oral without as I wanted to be ultra safe with regard to STDs.  However, I have come across  clients who feel I should offer OWO as lots of girls do it and I have even lost bookings due to this.

I have to say that it doesn't matter to me if I lose a booking due to not giving OWO as if the client doesn't respect my wishes they are not someone I would want to see anyway. 

I just wondered if anyone else has had similar experiences?

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Lili xxx

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Re: Oral Without?
« Reply #1 on: 20 February 2012, 02:23:51 pm »
I offered OWO, but got freaked out. Basically I say that I still offer it, but at my discretion during the booking. I do the whole check thing disguised as a well lubed hand job, and basically always now just use my tounge on certain parts, eg. balls, just below the tip (obviously only if there are no dodgey marks or sores or anything), but when it comes to putting my whole mouth over, pre-cum etc, I put a condom on. Now I know there is still a risk, but I'd imagine that it is significantly lower as I do all my best to not really use my tongue down there for too long, and avoid all liquidly places...

I just try and give them a reallllly good hand job for ages so that they don't think too much about the fact I'm putting a condom on to suck them off... Since I've done it it's worked well, because I guess I'm not technically misleading them if I make it clear that it is at my discretion...

lili69

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Re: Oral Without?
« Reply #2 on: 20 February 2012, 02:31:19 pm »
Thanks sorbet.  I do the same thing, I give them a really well lubed up hand job and they all seem to look pretty happy at the time.

I googled STDs and learnt that there is a risk that you can catch most of the STDs by giving a man oral as you can catch from unprotected penetrative sex whereas giving a woman oral you can only catch the same things as you can from kissing.  this is my excuse for receiving oral but not giving unprotected oral to a man!!

Its good to hear that others also don't offer OWO


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Re: Oral Without?
« Reply #3 on: 20 February 2012, 04:21:41 pm »
Ive never offered oral without & never will. I hate clients who try to push their opinions on us, if you don't want to do it then thats up to. I have lost lots of business & money. You can catch loads of diseases, my friend caught chlamydia through doin owo. Stick to your guns luv if you don't want to do it then don't!!

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Re: Oral Without?
« Reply #4 on: 21 February 2012, 02:30:32 am »
I offered OWO, but got freaked out. Basically I say that I still offer it, but at my discretion during the booking. I do the whole check thing disguised as a well lubed hand job, and basically always now just use my tounge on certain parts, eg. balls, just below the tip (obviously only if there are no dodgey marks or sores or anything), but when it comes to putting my whole mouth over, pre-cum etc, I put a condom on. Now I know there is still a risk, but I'd imagine that it is significantly lower as I do all my best to not really use my tongue down there for too long, and avoid all liquidly places...
Hi Hun just thought I'd let you know that even the testicles carry high risk. Seeing as they are in such a close distance to the anus there is likely to be feces lurking about. Xx
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Re: Oral Without?
« Reply #5 on: 21 February 2012, 02:36:22 am »
Sorry I don't mean to sound like a miss know it all annoying cow but I worked for the brook outreach team. I'm afraid men can contract the same STIs from giving oral sex as a woman can from a man. A woman can also pass them on orally to men and women. You can contract most STIs orally although it is uncommon. Also you are 100 times more likely to contract hepatitis B than HIV. Xx
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Re: Oral Without?
« Reply #6 on: 21 February 2012, 06:26:17 am »
I do OWO using some flavored o gel ( ann summers do the best ones. ) I couldn't do it without and always make the guys wash their cocks before I go down on them.
If it didn't look or smell fresh I won't do it unless  put a rubber on it!


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Re: Oral Without?
« Reply #7 on: 21 February 2012, 08:30:14 am »
I do OWO and have never encountered any problems again it has to be clean and safe and is at my disretion.  I am also heavily into ball licking and the bit between the balls and arse and even on occasions rimming.  I have been injected for Hepatitis and get my self checked out regular for STI's.  I know it is slightly more risky but I tend to gag if i give oral with a condom on.  Interesting topic though.  I was told and please correct me if I am wrong that saliva acts as a barrier.  Also an interesting artical I came accross that if a female is carring HPV Human Papaloma Virus and a man gives her oral there is a very small chance he can get throat cancer from this.  At the end of the day there is risk from everything I just weigh up and evaluate the risk to make a decision.

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Re: Oral Without?
« Reply #8 on: 21 February 2012, 10:51:33 am »
Don't get me wrong I do OWO. It's personal preference. Yeah the saliva acts as a barrier :)
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Re: Oral Without?
« Reply #9 on: 21 February 2012, 12:00:25 pm »
To true saliva acts as a barrier in my opinion. But i am starting rethink owo service myself as escorting is getting less secure due to possible STD's but its hard as providing owo for me gives the client a happier experience with you. As i feel the whole point of a booking is to be satisfied as much as possible or it to feel as natural as possible. I do not wont them to feel like i dnt wanna touch  them or something. Plus ive heard so many complaints from clients about other girls doing oral with protection and they just talk about those ladies so badly, cursing them out and everything and say how they wouldn't see that female again so its hard because i always wanna be the best at keeping them happy. Plus i wanna get paid lol  :)

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« Reply #10 on: 21 February 2012, 12:40:51 pm »
Saliva as a barrier? Well I find that hard to believe, I'm gonna check with my GUM clinic tomorrow, sounds like an old wives (or old prossies!) tale.  It sounds crazy to me to depend on that for protection.

Many many guys are perfectly happy to have OW, I can testify to that. For them it takes nothing away from the experience.

Each to their own but please bear in mind too that some STIs will not show, and for me its simply not worth the risk, just in order to possibly get a few more clients.  Actually since I stopped offering OWO in the summer I have seen no difference in my bookings rates.0

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Re: Oral Without?
« Reply #11 on: 21 February 2012, 04:24:04 pm »
I personally offer OWO, but only alongside flavoured lubes - Durex Pina Colada, Strawberries and Cream, etc. I am aware of the risks, but there are too many girls out there who do, so you lose alot of custom if you don't. I've been escorting for three years, and never caught anything orally. I always take a good look at the penis before doing anything with it, and if it looks, or smells, suspect, then I politely state that I'll be using a condom. Obviously you can't judge a client's cleanliness by merely looking at his penis, but it's good for my peace of mind. I think it's a matter of preference. I would rather do OWO than French Kissing... ::)

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Re: Oral Without?
« Reply #12 on: 21 February 2012, 04:47:53 pm »
I personally offer OWO, but only alongside flavoured lubes - Durex Pina Colada, Strawberries and Cream, etc. I am aware of the risks, but there are too many girls out there who do, so you lose alot of custom if you don't. I've been escorting for three years, and never caught anything orally. I always take a good look at the penis before doing anything with it, and if it looks, or smells, suspect, then I politely state that I'll be using a condom. Obviously you can't judge a client's cleanliness by merely looking at his penis, but it's good for my peace of mind. I think it's a matter of preference. I would rather do OWO than French Kissing... ::)

Indeed but I havent found I've lost custom since I stopped offering it.  In fact I have guys who book me because I don't do OWO.  I refuse to feel pressured into doing something because 'everyone else does it'. and I feel sooo much happier not offering it. 

And I looove french kissing.......altho only when a guy knows what he's doing  ;D

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Re: Oral Without?
« Reply #13 on: 21 February 2012, 05:04:38 pm »
The saliva is like a barrier hence why is less common to contract STIs via oral sex. It doesn't stop it at all. No body said it does. :)
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Re: Oral Without?
« Reply #14 on: 21 February 2012, 05:10:31 pm »
Saliva is a barrier!!????? I don't think so. But please correct me if I'm wrong I'm not that much up my own arse to think I know it all.

I have lost money as I said earlier but I will still not do it. I will not go anywhere near their arseholes no matter what amount of money I'm offered. Some guys have checked to make sure that I don't do OWO & have chosen to come & see me because of this reason.

I'm off to the clinic nx Mon so will try & have an indepth chat about it.

xx