boyfriends/partners/relationships..how do you deal with this?

[secretcallgirl91]

I was just wondering if anyone is in a relationship, if their partners know or its a secret?
how do you deal with your second life?

how did you explain to your boyfriends and make them understand that you are doing this as a career and you are professional about is, as you would be any job. and that he is the one you love and emotionally connected to?

but then how would you explain that you arent attracted to these clients, most are married, older men without him being discusted in you?

what happens when sometimes you arent in the mood to have sex with your partner?
will they feel intimidated that you are earning alot of money and alot of men find you attractive?


is it best to end a relationship than tell him the truth? either way your going to break his heart..but telling him the truth might make him angry and tell people..or would he be too embarressed to tell anyone?

im understand every man and every relationship, every situation is different but im interested in everyones opinions, experienes..no matter what your opionion I would like to hear all honest truths i will not be offended x

[EmilyJones]

You could pop "relationship" into the search box to find quite a few other threads on this topic; it's a common dilemma/issue so I think we get a new post on the matter about once a week.

[secretcallgirl91]

sorry, I did look through a few previous pages and couldnt find anything - either going blind or not learnt how to use everything yet. thank you for replying x