My first dinner date tomorrow!

[teenmeganx]

Hey,

For some reason, I've always declined dinner dates? I'm actually not sure why, I don't like eating infront of people I don't know?

But tomorrow night I'm taking the plunge?! But I have no idea what to expect, how to dress, what to do!
Could you lovely ladies, give me some advice? 

[amy]

My only massively important piece of advice (or it is for me at least, and I'm in a bit of a rush) is to do the sex first and eat after.

It's what you're comfortable with, it breaks the ice and you're not trying to make smalltalk with a total stranger in a situation outside your control - if the restaurant/food/service is bad it's a lot less dreadful if you've got to know each other a bit and are comfortable in each other's company, and if you get on well it means you won't feel under pressure to rush dinner to get to the 'main event' and can relax. Plus it's really, really horrible shagging when you're full.


EDIT: And whichever way round you're stuck with, remember to meet in private and get your fee sorted out first so you can ring your security buddy - it's more difficult in public.

[Ellie_e]

You may find a 3hr dinner date easier than 4hrs.  When I do 4hrs I spend 2hrs at dinner, and as the lions share of the conversation has been exhausted by then (even for a chatterbox like me), there's not much to do in the remaining 2hrs except shag, and 2hrs of straight shagging is quite hard work!

If you do do 4 hrs I would split it into 1hr - drinks in the room/bar and some sexytimes (maybe just oral/HR/kissing/striptease if you want to 'take things slow) - 2hrs at dinner - back to the room 1hr

Try to have the dinner venue not in the hotel so that to/from dinner takes a little time also!

I'll never forget the dinner date where we ate in the hotel and then he did RO on my afterwards for 2 straight hours (I kid you not).  Never again!!!