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should I do incalls?
« on: May 21, 2012, 02:03:48 PM »
I usually only do outcalls but I get so many requests for incalls and I've been getting less and less work...but I have a room in a shared house,it's a big room with a double bed and the housemates are never home but the bathroom is on a different floor and everything...and also,I don't like the thought of letting a stranger in my house-what if he causes a scene,or robs me-and would it be acceptable to charge 200 per hour for incalls?I know people seem to charge less than outcalls and my house isn't even in London,so could I charge that much in the country?I don't feel it's worthwhile doing this for less than 200,I have done in the past but it made me feel crap about myself...and how do the girls that do incalls make sure they keep safe?I can't possibly rent a separate flat as I'm poor lol I only see one or two clients a week

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Re: should I do incalls?
« Reply #1 on: May 21, 2012, 02:12:21 PM »
There is plenty here about the advantages (you are already there) and disadvantages (almost everything else) of doing incalls at home, including security issues, so I'd suggest a search or two.

Price is one of the classic 'it's up to you' questions. If it's the least you feel ok about charging, then do not go below that. Clients will either pay it or they won't.
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Re: should I do incalls?
« Reply #2 on: May 21, 2012, 02:13:39 PM »
Hey meee,

Do your housemates know what you do?

If they don't then its a question of ethics, I personally wouldn't be able to let clients back to the house. At the end of the day it is there safety too, and it's not fair to put it at risk without their knowledge.

The fee you decide to charge is your decision, so is whether you decide to charge the same as an outcall or more.

Each girl takes different security measures, but personally I use a safety buddy and make sure I screen clients properly. I also give clients a landmark to get to, and then when they get there, they phone me and I give them the address.

Have you considered working from a hotel one day a week? You could do a trial day at a cheapish hotel, and advertise on your website or profile that you will be doing incalls on that day only, and see how it goes. If it goes well you could do it once a week or something.

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Re: should I do incalls?
« Reply #3 on: May 21, 2012, 02:17:56 PM »
Making sure of course that the hotel is prossie friendly and not keycarded or you will be well and truly 'un-screwed' !

Pricing is an individual thing and how comfortable you feel.  You would get laughed out the country if you tried to charge 200 an hour for an incall in Scotland.  They would be expecting Buckingham Palace up here for that amount.  ::)

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Re: should I do incalls?
« Reply #4 on: May 21, 2012, 07:45:59 PM »
Yeah no offence but for 200 for incalls guys are going to expect much more than just a room.
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Re: should I do incalls?
« Reply #5 on: May 21, 2012, 07:53:18 PM »
Indeed, they're going to expect to have sex with someone in it...  ;D

I don't know what meee charges for outcalls, but imagine you do not have somewhere suitable for an outcall, but you want to see her. You can pay her outcall fee + a hotel room or her (possibly smaller) incall fee.

What would be silly, in my view, is for her to charge less than she feels comfortable with. If that's 200, it's 200. If no-one pays it, she's no worse off than she is now.
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Re: should I do incalls?
« Reply #6 on: May 22, 2012, 10:11:01 AM »
i think doing it with your flat mates there is a unfair to be honest and i would imagine that you feel on edge


if your getting the calls /demand for incalls then why not just see if you can rent a room at a hotel for say 2 days and work probably a lot easier and a lot less stress  if you get a hotel that close to where you live then you could go home at night and go back in the mornign for breakfast 
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Re: should I do incalls?
« Reply #7 on: May 22, 2012, 07:05:54 PM »
Hi-thanks for your advice ladies.I think I'm just going to stick with outcalls for now-you're right,it isn't really fair on my housemates and the hotel thing is a good idea but I don't think I could do it-I mean,to make a good profit,I'd have to see several guys over 1 or 2 days and I don't think I'd be able to do it (I only see a couple of guys a week usually)

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Re: should I do incalls?
« Reply #8 on: May 22, 2012, 07:32:53 PM »
Hello hun good luck in making your decision.
You should try finding someone who will let you do incalls at their place or trial a hotel?

I have an incall house the agency gave me and the landlord doesn't mind me being there even if I don't get work.

Don't think you should do incalls in your flat no matter how often or not the other lodgers are there but that's my opinion x
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